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- [Ruach Elohim - The Spirit of God Working When You're Unaware](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/07/09/ruach-elohim-the-spirit-of-god-working-when-youre-unaware/) - What does it mean to be held, led and well-cared for by God? Do you ever wrestle with that question? When life isn’t going as you’d hoped, or your facing an overwhelming situation, do the truths you know cognitively—like, God is loving, attentive, all-powerful and kind—feel a bit shaky? I land in that place often,
- [When Someone Responds to Your Anxiety by Stating You Need More Faith - Guest Post by Mel Davis](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/07/02/when-someone-responds-to-your-anxiety-by-stating-you-need-more-faith-guest-post-by-mel-davis/) - “You just don’t have enough faith.” It’s etched into my memory of a pastor telling me that years ago when I told him about my anxiety. Which, ironically, gave me more anxiety. I walked away wondering, “Am I a bad Christian? Do I really not have enough faith?” A pit formed in my stomach thinking
- [Finding Calm Before Losing Our Cool](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/06/25/finding-calm-before-losing-our-cool/) - The moments we regret most often begin long before they become visible. I learned that lesson years ago in a grocery store parking lot after a long, exhausting day of travel. A misplaced wallet, mounting stress and one sarcastic comment to a stranger led to an encounter I soon wished I could take back. But
- [Finding Your Anchor When Anxiety Spirals Guest Post by Mel Davis](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/05/21/finding-your-anchor-when-anxiety-spirals-guest-post-by-mel-davis/) - Have you ever found yourself in a spiral of anxiety? When your mind starts to unravel with overwhelming, consuming thoughts, it can feel like things are bleak. But God always meets us where we are. Earlier this year, my husband got deployed sooner than we anticipated. With a quick ship out date, there was really
- [The Courage to Maintain Boundaries at the Risk of Loss](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/06/19/the-courage-to-maintain-boundaries-at-the-risk-of-loss/) - (Note, this first posted on December 31, 2020.) Beneath every healthy or dysfunctional relationship, we’ll find boundaries at work. Healthy, God-honoring boundaries lead to increased health; Without them, people begin to hide, trust shatters, emotional intimacy decreases if not dies all together, and isolation grows. When my daughter was younger, one of her friendships turned
- [Finding Peace When Your Relationship Doesn't Change](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/06/12/finding-peace-when-your-relationship-doesnt-change/) - My husband knows the pain of estrangement. The sting of regret and the anxiety of second-guessing himself and replaying words spoken and conversations held. He’s felt the bittersweet grief left by memories that once brought joy but now come laden with pain. I’ve watched him mourn moments he’ll probably never experience again. He’s grieved the
- [Praying With the Confidence of a Child of God](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/06/04/praying-with-the-confidence-of-a-child-of-god/) - (Note: This first published on April 22, 2021.) We pray differently when we recognize God as our Father. Not in a figurative, authority figure sense or as a harsh rule enforcer, but as the benevolent, attentive, dare I even say doting all-powerful Dad that He is. When we don’t understand or fully embrace those truths,
- [Revelations of God During Stormy Seasons](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/05/27/revelations-of-god-during-stormy-seasons/) - We learn the most about God during our most violent storms. Have you noticed that? In part because that’s when life squeezes our deepest doubts, sometimes those we’re not even aware of, to the surface. His goal? Complete freedom in every part of our souls. I’m dramatically different than the fear-driven woman who left her
- [Modeling the patience of our savior with those who seem slow to grow](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/07/15/modeling-the-patience-of-our-savior-with-those-who-seem-slow-to-grow/) - Sometimes, when I encounter others just beginning their faith journey, I forget how tumultuous, difficult, and confusing my first stumbling steps were. I forget how tightly I held to the familiar, even if that meant staying stuck in dysfunction or pain. And in my mess, my insecurities, and my fears, the patience of my Savior
- [Encouragement for the Fatigued and Discouraged](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/09/02/encouragement-for-the-fatigued-and-discouraged/) - Today's post first published on May 23, 2019. But before you jump in, a quick fun announcement! My latest novel, Chasing Her Dream, has hit shelves across the nation, and to celebrate, I'm hosting a fun giveaway. I'll share more, along with info on the podcast episode that dropped today, after the post. Encouragement
- [the messy but beautiful call to love](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/01/06/the-messy-but-beautiful-call-to-love/) - Most of want to be the type of person who notices those standing on the fringe, welcomes them close, and creates safe places where they can experience Christ. At least in theory. In practice, however, many of us discover how challenging and at times uncomfortable and convicting it can be to build relationships with those
- [Yielding to God's direction - Guest Post by Chris Corradino](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/05/28/yielding-to-gods-direction-guest-post-by-chris-corradino/) - While we were making all those wrong turns, he was right there with us. Some of the roads we traveled may have even led to dark and painful places. In looking at His promises in the Bible though, you can see the trail of once-overlooked signs. We all veer off course on occasion, but Scripture provides guardrails for those willing to obey.
- [Feeling Anxious?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/09/20/feeling-anxious/) - We live in crazy times. Many are facing long bouts of unemployment, wondering if things will ever turn around. Others are dealing with chronic illness or wayward children. We live in a fallen world filled with strife and uncertainty, sickness and death, but even in our fallen state, God reigns supreme. Today, author Mary Anslee
- [Finding God Amid Our Fear](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/04/13/finding-god-amid-our-fear/) - (This first posted on February 6, 2020.) Sometimes God must allow us to experience our greatest fears in order to free us from them. When it feels as if the ground beneath us will crumble to dust, we learn in a deeply personal way that “though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed”
- [Trusting God in Situations You Can't Fix](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/04/09/trusting-god-in-situations-you-cant-fix/) - Sometimes trust feels risky. It often feels challenging, at least for me. I’ve always found coming up with ideas easy—ways to love people well, ways to reflect Christ, ways to make an impact. It's the follow through trips me up. Because living out our faith—especially in hard, uncomfortable spaces—requires something deeper than grit and determination.
- [When Anxiety Hits--Seeking God](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/01/04/when-anxiety-hits-seeking-god/) - God has given us everything we need to live confident, peaceful lives. But we can spend so much time wandering about in our misery, we fail to seek out the best way to peace—time with God Himself. My guest today shares a cute story regarding her midnight-roaming feline to illustrate an unshakable truth. What My
- [Anxiety, Distorted Vision, and the Power of Christ](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/03/21/anxiety-distorted-vision-and-the-power-of-christ/) - You may have heard it said that each of us view our world through rose-colored glasses, which means we perceive situations or perhaps events as being better than they actually are. I disagree. I think, most often, our perceptions are distorted by a combination of garbage-splattered lenses and curved reflections similar to those displayed by
- [Why Shame Keeps You Stuck—and Grace Sets You Free](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/05/14/why-shame-keeps-you-stuck-and-grace-sets-you-free/) - (Note: This content first appeared on the Crosswalk Devotional podcast. Used by permission.) Understood. You asked only for bold placement, not line editing. Here is your original text with bold added only. I did not alter wording, punctuation, grammar, spacing, or sentence structure. Do you ever replay your worst moments at night—every harsh word, angry
- [When Praise Controls You and Criticism Crushes You](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/05/07/when-praise-controls-you-and-criticism-crushes-you/) - (This is taken an adapted from a piece I wrote for the Crosswalk Devotional podcast, which published on April 23, 2025. Find the full, audio version HERE.) When someone’s approval feels life-giving, their rejection can feel soul-crushing. Years ago, I met a woman who seemed highly enamored of almost everything I did. She loved my
- [Vibrant Displays Against Bleak Backdrops](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/09/09/vibrant-displays-against-bleak-backdrops/) - Long before the taliban came into existence and the CoronaVirus hit our world, eighteenth century theologian Matthew Henry wrote, “All human life is warfare.” I imagine, many of us have felt the reality of that statement over the past few years. We have a real and relentless enemy bent on our destruction. And every mighty
- [Is it Okay to Question God in Our Grief- Guest post by Mabel Ninan](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/04/23/is-it-okay-to-question-god-in-our-grief-guest-post-by-mabel-ninan/) - Is it OK to Question God in Our Grief? by Mabel Ninan (Note: This first published on 11/20/23) I watched the news on TV in shock and horror on October 7, 2023. Hamas terrorists attacked and brutally killed Israelis in their homes and took several people, including children, as hostages. Within a few days, Israel
- [Increasing Peace in Stressful Moments](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/04/16/increasing-peace-in-stressful-moments/) - I’m learning a lot about regulating my nervous system and recovering from stress. Yesterday, we had an emergency during which I literally lost my mind. Prior, Bean, our fur baby, and I were enjoying a lovely spring morning, popping in and out, me to work and her to chew sticks and sniff the air. Walking
- [When You Need More Than Answers](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/04/02/when-you-need-more-than-answers/) - When I’m frightened or weighed down by sorrow, what I need most isn’t a quick solution or changed circumstances. I need God’s presence. When I’ve reacted in ways I regret, I long to feel His love again. When others wound, reject, or betray me, I ache to know I’m not alone. And when life presses
- [Trusting God Through Wilderness Seasons - Guest Post by Cassandra Armstrong](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/03/19/trusting-god-through-wilderness-seasons-guest-post-by-cassandra-rivers/) - When you feel like someone dropped you in the middle of an endless desert and you're not sure which direction to go or if you'll ever reach a water source, look up, maintain hope, and keep stepping because God won't abandon you now, or ever. Thanks to my guest today for this powerful reminder. Trusting
- [When it Feels Like God Let You Down](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/03/12/when-it-feels-like-god-let-you-down/) - Have you ever felt convinced God was leading you in a certain direction—one you spent years, maybe decades, pursuing—only to find yourself on a long, winding road heading the wrong way? If you’ve ever chased a dream, launched a small business, or spent years building a ministry, you know how long, exhausting, and painful that
- [A Culture of Temporary Relationships](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/02/26/a-culture-of-temporary-relationships/) - (Note: This first published March 17, 2022.) Is our culture creating the “walk-away kind”? Granted, relationships have always been tough—to form and to keep, and sometimes we do need to sever unhealthy ties, especially if a particular person routinely steals our joy, effectiveness, and peace. But with all of the “toxic people” graphics I’ve seen
- [When Relational BEtrayal Challenges your Ability to trust](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/02/19/when-relational-betrayal-challenges-your-ability-to-trust/) - Relational betrayal is one of the most disorienting and longest-lasting wounds we can experience. I suspect most, if not all, of us know this from experience. When a caregiver uses our vulnerability against us, a friend slanders or gossips about us, or we discover that the spouse or spiritual mentor we once trusted implicitly told
- [Finding Peace When Emotional Overwhelm hits - Guest Post by Melissa Heiland](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/02/12/finding-peace-when-emotional-overwhelm-hits-guest-post-by-melissa-heiland/) - What do you do when you feel bombarded by chaos and hardship in numerous areas of your life? How can you navigate relational tension, or financial challenges or health concerns when you're already feeling frazzled and like you're one more catastrophe from a total meltdown? Disclosure: I don't handle emotional overwhelm well, which is why
- [Praying Against Our Fear](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/02/05/praying-against-our-fear/) - (Note: This post first published, in a slightly different form, on October 7, 2021.) As someone with a long history of anxiety, I've learned I can't experience lasting peace in my own strength. I can’t take my anxious, and often snowballing, thoughts captive (2 Cor. 10:5) without supernatural help. But I’ve also found, each day,
- [Trusting God's Presence When You Feel Lost - Guest Post by Jodie Bailey](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/01/22/trusting-gods-presence-when-you-feel-lost-guest-post-by-jodie-bailey/) - Note: I first shared this post here in April of 2022. I’m pretty sure you haven’t missed it. The outside world is a pretty intense place right now. War, division … Honestly, if I start listing everything, we’ll all just get depressed. For the past few years, it seems I have lived my life by
- [When God is still writing your "dream" - Guest post by Laurie Devernoe](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/01/15/when-god-is-still-writing-your-dream-guest-post-by-laurie-devernoe/) - When the door closed behind me, I didn’t know it would become one of those defining moments God would use to reveal what I’d quietly locked away in my heart. I didn’t think twice as I wheeled out the first load of luggage, my mind fixed on the car and the schedule I was determined to
- [How knowing God by Name Helps quiet anxiety and fear - Guest post by Grace Fox](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/01/08/how-knowing-god-by-name-helps-quiet-anxiety-and-fear-guest-post-by-grace-fox/) - One of my dear friends was recently diagnosed with ovarian cancer. Another was released from the hospital after a five-week stay for encephalitis. A third battles a malignant brain tumor. And the list goes on. My human bent tends to feel anxious about what the future holds for these women. How will they and their
- [When Relationships Hurt](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2026/01/01/when-relationships-hurt/) - (This first published on March 30, 2023.) Relationships can lead to great joy and fulfillment, but they can also trigger significant anxiety and pain. While God can, and often does, bring healing, restoration, and wholeness to some of our most challenging relationships, sadly, some connections remain fractured. This often leaves us wrestling with difficult and
- [Celebrating a joyful, painful, Hope-filled Christmas](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/12/24/celebrating-a-joyful-painful-hope-filled-christmas/) - This Christmas feels paradoxical. I wonder if you can relate. Part of me—the wife and mom in me—is looking forward to a simple celebration with those I love most. But my heart also … carries the weight of conflicting emotions. Perhaps my undercurrents of melancholy stem from the weather—less light each day, the blue sky
- [When Christmas Feels Exhausting: Pursuing Peace in Christ's Presence–Guest post by peyton Garland](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/12/18/when-christmas-feels-exhausting-pursuing-peace-in-christs-presence-guest-post-by-peyton-garland/) - First, I must tell you how FUN it is to share today's content with you as Peyton was my editor at iBelieve for some time. I love how God allows connections to form and remain in this industry! But, enough of my sentimentality. When Christmas Feels Exhausting by Peyton Garland “I don’t enjoy Christmas anymore,”
- [When Family Drama Threatens to Sour Christmas - Guest post by peggysue wells](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/12/11/when-family-drama-threatens-to-sour-christmas-guest-post-by-peggy-sue-wells/) - One morning, my teen groused around the house. I tried to cheer her with pancakes and jokes. She absently pushed a pancake around on her plate. My efforts didn’t improve her attitude. Feeling rejected, I was tempted to give her the silent treatment. How easy to say, “When will you clean your bathroom?” “If
- [Decrease Your Anxiety this holiday season - guest post by Kathy Bruins](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/12/04/decrease-your-anxiety-this-holiday-season-guest-post-by-kathy-bruins/) - Christmas always carries with it memories. Some wonderful and some not so great. I had never really hosted a big family gathering before, but I decided to host my husband’s family for Christmas shortly after we were married. I had a new China set I was excited to use, along with new utensils. I decorated
- [Unwrapping rest this holiday season - Guest post by Maureen Miller](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/11/20/unwrapping-rest-this-holiday-season-guest-post-by-maureen-miller/) - I could hear her weariness, though her message was merely a short text--I tossed and turned all night. I’m so stressed about finding a home and getting settled. I want to put up a tree and buy gifts for the kids, but I’m afraid I’m failing miserably. My dear friend and her three children were temporarily
- [Finding Safe People With whom to share your pain](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/11/13/finding-safe-people-with-whom-to-share-your-pain/) - When we’re hurting, we don’t want people to bombard us with advice, try to top our struggle with stories of their own, or respond with dismissive platitudes. Sadly, those types of reactions tend to make us feel even more isolated. If you’ve experienced something similar, you can understand how defeated and alone Rhonda felt when
- [Cultivating Wonder - Guest Post by Becky Harling](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/11/06/cultivating-wonder-guest-post-by-becky-harling/) - This past week, I have to admit, I felt a bit overwhelmed. Delayed flights, lost suitcases, books that had to be mailed out, and deadlines that had to be met all left me feeling a bit spazy. I was fearful I would forget some detail and drop the ball on some deadline. Ever felt that
- [Living Split: The Cost of Hiding Our Wounded Half - Guest post by Jessica Brodie](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/10/30/living-split-the-cost-of-hiding-our-wounded-half-guest-post-by-jessica-brodie/) - Have you ever seen a tree split in two, yet still standing tall? It’s a beautiful and amazing thing to behold. Recently my husband and I went camping in the Monongahela National Forest in West Virginia. I didn’t notice the tree the evening before, when we set up camp. But at dawn, I wandered a
- [Held Secure in Christ](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/10/23/held-secure-in-christ/) - (This first published on May 19, 2022.) Jesus should’ve given up on me long ago. But each day, despite my sins and failures, God draws and holds me close. In Christ, I am held secure. I never fully understood God’s heart for me until I became a parent. But having walked beside my daughter through
- [Conversations in a hostile and polarized world](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/10/09/conversations-in-a-hostile-and-polarized-world/) - Sadly, I’ve hurt a lot of people in the name of Christ. More accurately, when I claim I’m furthering His mission but later discovered, when my thinking brain re-engaged, that I was actually working against His mission. And I’m in a strange place where I recognize the ugliness displayed by many Christ-followers while seeing myself
- [Trusting in the Power of Christ](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/10/16/trusting-in-the-power-of-christ/) - (Note: This first posted on August 12, 2021). In my early years in ministry, I often exhausted myself trying to manage everything. Though I knew with certainty my assignment came directly from God, I routinely behaved as if He expected me to carry the load alone. As if results came through sheer grit rather than
- [How Can we Let Christ's Peace Rule Our Hearts?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/09/04/how-can-we-let-christs-peace-rule-our-hearts/) - I first wrote the below for the Crosswalk Devotional. I'm sharing it here with permission. As someone prone to anxiety and who comes from a long line of worriers, I’m intrigued by the phrasing of Colossians 3:15, which reads: Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And
- [Remembering God's Kindness in Hard Seasons-Guest post by Becky Harling](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/08/28/remembering-gods-kindness-in-hard-seasons-guest-post-by-becky-harling/) - When life hurts, its easy to feel alone, forsaken and forgotten. We might even doubt God's goodness. If you're struggling to trust His heart, may today's post, written by my sweet friend Becky Harling, encourage you and encourage you to find comfort in our always loving, kind, and ever-present Father. Remembering God's Kindness in Hard
- [When it feels like even the wind is against you - guest post by Dr. Gladys Childs](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/08/14/when-it-feels-like-even-the-wind-is-against-you-guest-post-by-dr-gladys-childs/) - When It Feels Like Even the Wind Is Against You by Dr. Gladys Childs You’re doing all the right things, but life still feels like a battle. You’re rowing, striving, praying, pressing forward. But the wind is against you. The resistance is real, and it’s relentless. You keep asking, “Why is this so hard if
- [Living Unafraid in the Storms of Life - Guest Post by Grace Fox](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/08/07/living-unafraid-in-the-storms-of-life-guest-post-by-grace-fox/) - (Note: This first posted on July 11, 2024.) Living Unafraid in the Storms of Life by Grace Fox The bus on which I was a passenger cruised east through the rugged Rocky Mountains before turning north. We drove through miles of rolling sage-covered hills and acres of evergreens charred by recent forest fires, past lakes
- [Finding the Profound in the Mundane - guest post by Nan Corbitt Allen](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/07/31/finding-the-profound-in-the-mundane-guest-post-by-nan-corbitt-allen/) - (Note: This first posted on May 18, 2025.) When was the last time you were looking for one thing and ended up finding something else—maybe something you thought was lost? I know I have. We were watching a TV show recently on historical world events. One of the topics, called “The Age of Discovery,” was
- [Choosing peace when relationships hurt- Guest post by Carol McCracken](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/07/24/choosing-peace-when-relationships-hurt-guest-post-by-carol-mccracken/) - Choosing Peace When Relationships Hurt by Carol McCracken I once had a conversation with a woman wrestling through a painful family conflict. She kept replaying her last interaction with a relative, analyzing every word and wondering what she could say or do to make things right. “If only they would apologize,” she said. “If only
- [Healthy Biblical love for the hurting](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/07/17/healthy-biblical-love-for-the-hurting/) - (Taken and adapted from one of my video devotions shared to Crosswalk Plus Subscribers; used by permission.) As a recovering co-dependent, learned, in part, from unhealthy faith communities, I’m struck by Jesus’ intentional delay in John 11. Upon learning of a friend name Lazarus’s terminal illness, instead of rushing to heal the man, “he stayed
- [Dismissing the Things of God](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/07/10/dismissing-the-things-of-god/) - This was a powerful and telling invitation. The questions Christ evoked within His listeners would drive some to investigate further, ultimately leading them to life. But those same questions would cause others to turn away.
- [Trusting God With Our Heaviest Burdens](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/07/03/trusting-god-with-our-heaviest-burdens/) - (Note: The below post was taken and adapted from one of my former Your Daily Bible Verse podcast episodes. Used by permission.) Some days feel super heavy, like we’re lugging around a backpack full of bricks. When I land in that place, I’m often tempted to disengage. To numb my emotions watching social media reels
- [Fun way to win great stuff!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/06/28/fun-way-to-win-great-stuff/) - Hey, friends, Help me celebrate my next release! Because book releases should always be fun and exciting, I've decided to celebrate the Rancher's Secret Daughter's Debut into the world of reading with a fun trivia give away! Here's how YOU could win the below books (and the Love Inspired compilation is a two-for!) along with
- [How God heals regret and restores joy](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/06/12/how-can-we-strengthen-our-souls-with-the-joy-of-christ/) - (Note: This was taken and adapted from one of my Crosswalk Premium Devotional Videos. Used by permission.) Do you ever find yourself rehashing past mistakes? Maybe your adult son or daughter has become enslaved to self-destructing behavior, and your mind keeps replaying all your parenting regrets. Or, maybe you’re trying to repair a marriage damaged
- [Overcoming Shame Through Grace: Guest post by Shadia Hrichi](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/06/05/overcoming-shame-through-grace-guest-post-by-shadia-hrichi/) - As a child, had you ever done something wrong and were unable to look your parents in the eye? A few years ago, I was visiting my brother and his family. We were all enjoying the afternoon sunshine on his back deck as the children played in the backyard. At one point, I overheard my
- [Finding God in Our Anger](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/05/29/findng-god-in-our-anger/) - (Note: This first published on August 26, 2021.) Many of us are uncomfortable with anger, likely because we’ve seen the damage the emotion, uncontrolled, can produce. We’ve probably, on occasion, created wreckage ourselves. I’ve done both. I’ve been deeply hurt by the rash actions of others, but I’ve also allowed corrosive words to erupt from
- [How I came to love my mother-in-law: guest post by Patti Ritcher](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/05/16/how-i-came-to-love-my-mother-in-law-guest-post-by-patti-ritcher/) - “Na-na-na-na boo-hoo. I’ll be with Jesus before you.” My mother-in-law sang that little ditty to me in our final phone conversation. She had just accepted hospice care and, knowing I was crying, she tried to make me laugh. Marion, who I always called Mom, kept me laughing for most of the 45-plus years I knew
- [When Faith Feels Fragile: Holding On Anyway - Guest post by Zeeva Usman](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/05/08/when-faith-feels-fragile-holding-on-anyway-guest-post-by-zeeva-usman/) - There are days when faith feels unshakable—when the worship is sweet, the Scriptures speak directly to your heart, and the path ahead looks clear. But then there are days … when faith feels like it's barely hanging on. Fragile. Thin. Quiet. And maybe today is one of those days. I remember a time when I
- [God's Perfect Love for Imperfect People](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/05/01/gods-perfect-love-for-imperfect-people/) - (This first published on Crosswalk.com and in the Crosswalk Devotional, adapted below.) Many of us have heard people talk about the Lord’s complete forgiveness and unconditional love but can expect Him to withhold both when we mess up. Most often, this stems from times in which others responded to our mistakes with some degree of
- [Remaining Focused Amid Opposition](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/04/24/remaining-focused-amid-opposition/) - (Note: This first published on April 1, 2021.) When God calls us to something, we should expect difficulties and opposition. Not everyone will understand our actions or motivations. Some people might even misjudge us or actively fight against us. The question is, how will we respond? Will we shrink back? Lash out in anger and
- [Seasons of overwhelm: When all you can do is cling to Jesus](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/04/17/seasons-of-overwhelm-when-all-you-can-do-is-cling-to-jesus/) - (Proofread by Aneah Epshteyn) While preparing to present to a women’s group on discipleship, I couldn’t shake the feeling that some of the ladies in attendance had landed in a state of overwhelm. Reflecting upon how my message might hit them, I thought of how I felt during what I’ve since termed as my terrible,
- [Deepening Our Trust in God Guest Post by Grace Fox](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/04/10/deepening-our-trust-in-god-guest-post-by-grace-fox/) - Note: This first posted on July 7, 2022 What most tends to make you anxious? Where do you find it hard to trust? Your loved ones? Your career? Your health? Some of you may be nodding affirmative to each of those questions. I get it. I know that queazy stomach feeling that comes from watching
- [Choosing Appreciation over comparison - guest post by Dr. Michelle Bengtson](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/04/03/choosing-appreciation-over-comparison-guest-post-by-dr-michelle-bengtson/) - Comparison. I'm pretty sure we all do it. But this toxic tendency also tends to increase our insecurity, misery, and can make us feel as if the Lord loves others more than us. Today's guest, Dr. Michelle Bengtson, offers a much more hopeful, and encouraging practice able to turn our competitions into celebrations. Why did
- [Ever tempted to "rebuke" God?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/03/27/ever-tempted-to-rebuke-god/) - (Taken and adapted from a Your Daily Bible Verse podcast episode.) Have you ever "rebuked" God, or felt tempted to do so? What about when you're certain you know how something should play out, tell Him this, through a prayer request, of course, and He doesn’t respond to your prayers as you hoped? Are you
- [Be On Guard When Life Takes a Detour - Guest Post by Grace Fox](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/03/13/be-on-guard-when-life-takes-a-detour-guest-post-by-grace-fox/) - (Note: This first posted on September 1, 2022.) Many people I’ve spoken with over the past month have expressed the same sentiment—life isn’t going as they’d planned or hoped. They feel squeezed, without margin, and overwhelmed. I imagine you’ve been there. Maybe that’s where you’re at now. If so, I hope Grace Fox’s post below
- [Unlearning Psuedo-spirituality to more deeply rest in grace](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/03/06/unlearning-psuedo-spirituality-to-more-deeply-rest-in-grace/) - I’m in a season of unlearning pseudo-spiritual maturity and resting afresh in Christ’s grace. If asked a few years ago, I would’ve said I had a close relationship with God and learned to trust in and receive His love. That’s not to say I haven’t experienced transformation in my three-plus decades of actively following Him.
- [Laughter as a self-care tool](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/02/27/laughter-as-a-self-care-tool/) - (Note: This first published on October 12, 2023 and is an adapted transcript from one of my former iBelieve video devotions.) I’ve found, I most need to laugh when I least feel like laughing. For my mental health, for the health of my relationships, and sometimes for the perseverance to push through challenges. When I
- [Strength for When You Feel Weary - Guest post by becky harling](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/02/20/strength-for-when-you-feel-weary-guest-post-by-becky-harling/) - Scripture tells us that God's power is made perfect, or complete, in our weakness. But what does that mean, exactly? And how can that help us get through long, tiring winter days when life's demands continually grow and our energy wanes? My sweet friend, speaker and Bible teacher Becky Harling, shares her soul-fortifying insights in
- [The Cost of Pride](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/02/13/the-cost-of-pride/) - (Please note: This first published on July 2nd, 2020.) I might be the proudest person I know. I like to believe I’m right, that I know how to fix every situation and am the perfect person to do so, of course. I want others to think I’m smart, important, talented, successful. But I was called
- [Living with effectiveness rather than regret](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/01/30/living-with-effectiveness-rather-than-regret/) - (This first published on February 10, 2022.) Years ago, while fostering a particularly challenging teenager, a youth pastor made a statement I wish I’d paid more attention to. He said, in essence, “Never jeopardize the gospel.” At the time, I didn’t fully understand his meaning. Unfortunately, rather than pausing to prayerfully unpack his advice, I
- [Surprise endings - Guest post by Kelly hall](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/01/23/surprise-endings-guest-post-by-kelly-hall/) - Surprise Endings by Guest Blogger Kelly Hall I never could have imagined the surprise that awaited me at the end of the day. Our son, David and his wife Danielle, were staying in our home for a few months as they transitioned to new jobs and a new home. It was a sweet gift getting
- [Refreshing Our Prayer Life Through Remembering](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/01/16/refreshing-our-prayer-life-through-remembering/) - (This first published on January 30, 2020.) Have you ever paused to consider where you might be now if not for God’s intervention? I need to do this regularly, otherwise I become complacent, prideful, and entitled. I begin to focus on minor inconveniences—a traffic jam that makes me late for a meeting, or an unexpected
- [Releasing a loved one into God's care-Guest post by Cherrilynn Bisbano](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2025/01/02/releasing-a-loved-one-into-gods-care-guest-post-by-cherrilynn-bisbano/) - My adult son needed restoration physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I begged God daily to help Michael overcome his challenges. I’d cry myself to sleep worrying about his future. After many phone calls and website searches, we found another place to hopefully help my cherished boy. But could I handle having him so far away—800 miles
- [Deeper than blind faith - guest post by Julie Coleman](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/12/19/deeper-than-blind-faith-guest-post-by-julie-coleman/) - She was probably thirteen or fourteen, which was the common age at which girls were pledged to marry. Her betrothed was likely much older: a man who had made his way in the world enough to financially support a wife. A while back, he had come to her home to offer for her. Once he
- [Eternally impactful prayers](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/12/12/eternally-impactful-prayers-2/) - (Note: This first posted on Nov 12, 2020.) If our prayers reveal our hearts and desires, than mine demonstrate that I've become overly entangled in today. Or perhaps more accurately, that I frequently lose sight of eternity. I ask God to alleviate my friends' and loved ones' pain, to protect them from harm, and to
- [Finding God in my pain](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/12/04/finding-god-in-my-pain/) - Before I share my story, I want to acknowledge God responds to each of us differently, for reasons we may never understand this side of heaven. If God presently seems silent, or you can't "hear" Him above your pain, I hope this video I shared on social media last week encourages you. Now to my
- [When Sorrow and Thanksgiving Meet](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/11/28/when-sorrow-and-thanksgiving-meet/) - My soul aches from wounds left from my bio-mother’s rejection and abandonment and celebrates the love God gives me through my mom-in-law who embraces me with open arms. I lament the chronic pain that steals my sleep and praise God for the soft pillow upon which I can rest my weary head. I’m saddened by
- [When Our Greatest Need Leads to Our Greatest Blessing](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/11/21/when-our-greatest-need-leads-to-our-greatest-blessing/) - (This first published on October 3, 2019) What if your greatest need, your greatest challenge, strategically leads to your greatest blessing? What if, in your place of struggle, of uncertainty, God is chiseling away all that is shaky and false to lay beneath you a sure and steady foundation? What if, when it feels as
- [Remaining fully present in life's figurative or literal storms - guest post by Jessica Brodie](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/11/14/remaining-fully-present-in-lifes-figurative-or-literal-storms-guest-post-by-jessica-brodie/) - (Please note, the below post is not intended to minimize anyone's pain or hardship. I share it because I found the reminder to see good, even if but a single ray of light piercing through an otherwise cloudy sky, in the present encouraging and a practice to which I aspire. I know there is good
- [Strength for the weary - Guest post by Becky Harling](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/11/07/strength-for-the-weary-guest-post-by-becky-harling/) - Our already busy and fast-paced world seems to be continually speeding up. As soon as I create margin in my life, I find myself bombarded with numerous opportunities to fill it. And there are days when I simply feel weary. If you can relate, I hope you'l gain encouragement and some helpful insights from my
- [How Aligned am i with the heart of God](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/11/02/how-aligned-am-i-with-the-heart-of-god/) - I’ve read numerous posts and articles of late urging Christ-followers to vote according to their convictions. And in the comments, I often see individuals who, perhaps fueled by one too many cups of coffee, use the encouragement as an opportunity to instigate an argument. Each time I see this, I’m both discouraged and convicted, as
- [When we approach others from a place of assumption](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/10/17/when-we-approach-others-from-a-place-of-assumption/) - I’ve been hurt by people who’ve formed assumptions regarding my pain. I’ve also wounded others by reacting the same way. Sometimes, this comes from a desire to “fix” a loved one’s problem. Other times, I’ve interpreted their words and behavior through my insecurities and the unhealed places in my soul. Regardless the reason, these tendencies
- [Facing the Fear of an Unknown future - Guest post by Shirley Quiring Mozena](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/10/03/facing-the-fear-of-an-unknown-future-guest-post-by-shirley-quiring-mozena/) - My husband Bill lay dying in the dim light with his eyes closed. A tube in his mouth, taped securely to his face, snaked down to his windpipe. I sat beside his bed, feeling the weight of forty years of memories. Joy at the births of our children. Sadness when we lost our baby girl.
- [The Armor of a Christ-Centered Identity](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/09/26/the-armor-of-a-christ-centered-identity/) - (This first published on February 18, 2021.) As we grow in Christ, we begin to discover who we truly are, and our actions necessarily follow. Living deeply rooted in our Christ-centered identity does much more than simply build our confidence. It also greatly impacts how we respond to others and provides a powerful insulator against
- [Where are you most apt to discount God](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/09/19/where-are-you-most-apt-to-discount-god/) - (Taken and adapted from a Your Daily Bible Verse podcast episode.) When faced with a challenge, which way do you most tend to lean. Do you honestly acknowledge the problem and your emotions but then sift your them through everything you know about God, saying, “Yes, this challenge seems insurmountable and beyond me and my
- [Dealing with chaos guest post by Dr. Natalie Ford](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/09/12/dealing-with-chaos-guest-post-by-dr-natalie-ford/) - Amid Chaos by Dr. Natalie Ford When I opened the door to our home and stepped inside, I gasped at the sight. Clothes covered every inch of the living room. Socks littered the newly vacuumed floor I’d left that morning. Belts were hanging from the ceiling fan, and camping supplies were strewn all about. I
- [God's Glory and Courage for what's ahead](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/09/05/gods-glory-and-courage-for-whats-ahead/) - (This first posted on July 22, 2021.) When God calls me to something hard, or to make a drastic life-change, I want clear indications that I’m actually hearing from Him. I tell Him that, and I’m not being demanding nor does this come from a lack of faith. I trust His wisdom and guidance completely,
- [The Beauty on the Other side of control](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/08/22/the-beauty-on-the-other-side-of-control/) - Note: This first published, with some adaptations, on February 1st, 2018 Before I launch into today's inspirational message, two invites! Have you subscribed to Faith Over Fear's GodTube channel yet? You can do so HERE. And, my Your Daily Bible Verse team and I recently launched a GodTube channel as well on which we discuss
- [Difficult and courageous obedience](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/08/15/difficult-and-courageous-obedience/) - I once heard a pastor say, when we sense God’s call in an area, it’ll often feel like a death. Some of my most frightening and courageous steps of obedience have proven that statement true. Often, I must let something go to embrace whatever new assignment the Lord lays before me. This might sound selfish,
- [Encouragement for the Weak and Weary-guest post by Debbie Wilson](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/08/01/encouragement-for-the-weak-and-weary-guest-post-by-debbie-wilson/) - Do you ever feel as if life rushes at you faster than you can keep up, your feet have begun to slip, and your muscles feel so fatigued, you aren't sure how much longer you can keep standing? If so, then I hope my guest Debbie Wilson's post encourages you. Encouragement for the Weak and
- [Hope When Your Trust is Failing - Guest Post by Becky Harling](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/07/25/hope-when-your-trust-is-failing-guest-post-by-becky-harling/) - Sometimes life pummels us so fiercely, we can barely breath. In those seasons, it can feel hard to hold tight to the truths we've learned. When our hearts are breaking, we need to know that we're not alone and God won't abandon us in our pain. If that's where you currently find yourself, I hope
- [No More Convenience-Based Love](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/07/18/no-more-convenience-based-love/) - (This first posted in March of 2021) My pride, insecurity, and fierce hold on my comfort level challenge my ability to love others well. I give of my time and my money, my energy … but only so much. To love deeper, I need to sit. Sit with my Savior, the One who floods my
- [Holy, Intimate Wrestling with God](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/07/04/holy-intimate-wrestling-with-god/) - (Copy edited by Aneah Epshteyn.) (Image first used on March 31, 2022 in THIS post.) Do we proclaim, “God’s ways are higher than mine” (Is. 55:8-9) too soon? While true, God never intended us to use this statement to silence our questions and numb our discomfort in painful situations. Not only does our faith grow
- [Finding Our True Selves––the Unveiling of Faith](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/06/27/finding-our-true-selves-the-unveiling-of-faith/) - (This first published in 2020.) We can’t live like a queen while prancing through the pig sty, and make no mistake, you and I are royalty of incredible value. Learning to live in this truth, changes everything—our behavior, perceptions and interactions. This reality increases our freedom, just as surely as not grasping this truth leads
- [When You Feel Spiritually Weary - Guest Post by Kathy Howard](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/06/20/when-you-feel-spiritually-weary-guest-post-by-kathy-howard/) - We all endure exhausting and discouraging seasons. How can we rejuvenate our souls when the climb ahead of us feels insurmountable? Thankfully, as today's guest relays, if we've trusted in Christ for salvation, we can also trust that we'll never take one step alone. Hope for the Spiritually Weary by Kathy Howard My husband and
- [The God Who Sees and Acts](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/06/13/the-god-who-sees-and-acts/) - (This first published April 29, 2021) When my world was coming undone during my teenage years, I felt alone. I thought for sure God had turned His back on me, and honestly, I expected Him to. I certainly wasn’t doing anything to draw Him to me. To the contrary. My behavior had given Him every
- [For Those Who Fear they've disappointed God - Guest post by Debbie Wilson](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/06/06/for-those-who-fear-theyve-disappointed-god-guest-post-by-debbie-wilson/) - I've become increasingly aware of how often we tend to interpret Scripture based on ideas, perhaps those we don't consciously realize, developed from a lifetime spent in our often punitive culture. Our greatest healing and transformation come as we discover who He truly is and live in alignment with that. For those who often feel
- [Growing Through the Hard Stuff––Guest Post by Jessica Brodie](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/05/30/growing-through-the-hard-stuff-guest-post-by-jessica-brodie/) - (This first posted on September 10, 2020.) Imagine if we could all orchestrate life precisely as we desired. I'm certain most of us would seek out a pleasant, serene, and problem free existence. But would we also appreciate the immaturity that would necessary follow? While this isn't my favorite truth in Scripture, I've discovered my
- [How God Speaks: When We Seek His Heart](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/05/16/how-god-speaks-when-we-seek-his-heart/) - (This is a repost from April 30, 2020) We all want to hear from God. At least, many of us do. We want that special revelation, to receive that call, or perhaps the answer to that problem or decision we’ve been wrestling over. I’ve been in that place so many times, and I’m certain I’ll
- [When our loved ones struggle with anxiety and depression - guest post by Jessica brodie](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/05/09/when-our-loved-ones-struggle-with-anxiety-and-depression-guest-post-by-jessica-brodie/) - Have you ever endured a challenge that turned out to be the greatest blessing in your life? My daughter is 16, and about seven years ago she was diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder. A couple of years after that, depression started. The last several years have been difficult, and though this last year she’s been
- [How the Lord's Prayer Invites Us to Go Deep](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/05/02/how-the-lords-prayer-invites-us-to-go-deep/) - (This first posted on April 15, 2021.) I’m not sure if this is hypocrisy or more of an illogical contradiction, but whenever I say the “Lord’s Prayer” without following my words with action, I’m denying what I pray. If not matched with an attitude of surrender, I’m basically stating, “May Your will be done, God
- [concerns with 'This Too Shall Pass'](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/04/25/concerns-with-this-too-shall-pass/) - Some phrases spoken in hard circumstances remind us of comforting truth. But when we use those same statements to numb our emotions, we're apt to get stuck in our pain and circumstances. The cliché Kathy discusses below is one of those well-intended, but at times, ineffective, lines. Biblical Concerns with 'This Too Shall Pass' by
- [Finding Purpose in Wilderness seasons](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/04/18/finding-purpose-in-wilderness-seasons/) - (This post was proofed by Aneah Epshteyn.) When our daughter was young, a series of moves and transitions left me feeling shelved. As if God had set me aside, potentially, never to use me again. Looking back, I see now that much of my angst came from a false identity and narrow thinking. Prior to
- [When God Speaks––Where Obedience Can Lead](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/04/12/when-god-speaks-where-obedience-can-lead/) - (This first published on July 11, 2020.) Before we launch into today's post, I wanted to invite you to subscribe to my YouTube channel. Find it HERE. And thank you so much for your support! *** We’ve all sensed God nudging us to do something that appeared to make no sense. Maybe we sensed Him
- [Loneliness, Singleness, and Longing for Roses](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/04/04/loneliness-singleness-and-longing-for-roses/) - What happens when we never experience the relationship for which we've longed and prayed? Or when, after decades of marriage, the relationship fails and we find ourselves alone, feeling a deepening ache of loneliness? If you find yourself in that hard, painful place, may God speak encouragement to your soul through my guest's post. What
- [When Life Feels Gloomy: Holding Tight to the promise of spring](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/03/28/when-life-feels-gloomy-holding-tight-to-the-promise-of-spring/) - (Today's post was proofread by Aneah Epshteyn) I never fully appreciated the beauty and hope of spring until I’d experienced my first mid-western winter. I can easily bear it when the weather first turns cold, skies darken, temperatures drop, and wind turns brisk. I can even admire that first covering of snow, with its innumerable
- [The Freedom We might Resist But Desperately Need](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/03/21/the-freedom-we-might-resist-but-desperately-need/) - Not long ago, a young adult I mentored said, "I'm not like you. I hold grudges." The statement took me aback as I could easily remember months and even years when I allowed bitterness from a previous wound steal my joy, my peace, and at times, my sleep. While I was thankful to think that
- [Catching Glimpses of God - guest post by Jessica Brodie](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/03/14/catching-glimpses-of-god-guest-post-by-jessica-brodie/) - The night was so clear it took my breath away. The smattering of stars reminded me of tiny shards of glass dotting the sky, and gently nestled behind a silhouette of branches rested a luminous crescent moon. Its vanilla shade was an almost tangible comfort, echoing the promise of warmth the next day would eventually
- [Seeing the Light in Dark Times](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/03/07/seeing-the-light-in-dark-times/) - (This first posted on January 14, 2021.) No matter how dark things appear, light is breaking through, always. The question is, will we see it? When difficulties come, it’s so easy to focus on the challenges and disappointments, and in that, to forget the heart, power, presence, and purposes of Christ. I’ve noticed something lately,
- [A Difficult but glorious trade](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/02/29/a-difficult-but-glorious-trade/) - When I feel frightened or overwhelmed, my first response tends to be self-reliance. But this has never gone well. In fact, the more I turn to myself–my faulty wisdom and insufficient strength–the more I distance myself from the mighty, loving, faithful hand of God. Not because He has or ever will push me away, but
- [God's Love game - guest post by Cheri cowell](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/02/22/gods-love-game-guest-post-by-cheri-cowell/) - Before we launch into today's post, fun news! My latest book has released, and apparently hit some Walmart shelves (although, not ours yet :( but hopefully will here soon, also.) You can also grab it on Amazon. On another note, reading Cheri's first paragraph, I have to begin by saying, if someone says they love
- [Between Some math and a hard place - guest post by Rhonda Rhea When we feel stuck- guest post by](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/02/08/between-some-math-and-a-hard-place-guest-post-by-rhonda-rhea-when-we-feel-stuck-guest-post-by/) - I've experienced long, uncomfortable seasons where I legitimately felt unsure regarding how God was leading me. But I've also fed my inner angst wrestling with myself and cloaking my hesitation in demands for one confirmation after another. I've found, while God hasn't yet revealed that ten-year plan I've repeatedly asked Him for, He has always
- [How to Respond to a Depressed Loved One](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/02/01/how-to-respond-to-a-depressed-loved-one/) - What can you do when someone you love has landed in such a dark place, it feels—to you and them—as if no amount of light can break through? This is how Teresa, President of Wholly Loved Ministries, described her experience with depression. In the latest Faith Over Fear podcast episode, she said she knew logically
- [Is God Always Good - Guest Post by Ava Pennington](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/01/26/is-god-always-good-guest-post-by-ava-pennington/) - When I read Ava's post below, I immediately thought of my friend Iris Peters, who died of brain cancer about five years ago. Prior to her death, when the tumor was slowly stealing her eyesight, speech, and mobility, she took a picture of the passage Ava quotes below, with her personal declaration written in her
- [When God Calls Your Name - Guest Post by Kelly Hall](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/01/18/when-god-calls-your-name-guest-post-by-kelly-hall/) - When God Calls Your Name by Kelly Hall Bundled against the freezing Midwest dreariness, I burst into my house and without removing a single item of wintry protection, collapsed into the couch. The wet, snowy trail I left behind normally would have prompted a quick flurry of activity to dry and protect the hardwood floors,
- [Learning to Wait on God's Direction](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/01/11/learning-to-wait-on-gods-direction/) - Do you typically start your New Year with a solid plan and a list of things you want to accomplish? Normally, that's where I land. That doesn’t mean, however, that God has always been leading the way. I’ve become increasingly aware of how much I’ve done automatically, especially when it comes to ministry. In some
- [Join my book launch team](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2024/01/06/join-my-book-launch-team/) - Hello, friends! If you love fiction, specifically clean cowboy romance novels, and if you love telling others about fun books, and would like to support me, then you're invited! Read about the book HERE. A launch team is a group of readers united via email and through a Facebook group that helps promote an author's
- [Resting in God Our Rock When Our Enemies Attack](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/12/28/resting-in-god-our-rock-when-our-enemies-attack/) - Note: This first published on January 15, 2020In 2006, my husband stepped into an ugly power struggle that nearly cost him his job. In the span of a year, he’d changed employment three times, landing, precariously, at the company he’d started with, but in a different location and with a pay cut and demotion. The
- [A Broken Marriage Tranformed](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/12/21/a-mountain-of-hope/) - (This first published on Dec. 22, 2016.) Christmas, the celebration of the day the Light of the World brought light into mankind's darkness, reminds us of the transformative power of God's love and grace. It also reminds us of the lengths God will go to to bring life, light, and hope to our wounded souls.
- [When You're worried Your Christmas might not feel so Peaceful](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/12/14/when-your-worried-your-christmas-might-not-feel-so-peaceful/) - This post is for those who are facing some sense of uncertainty this Christmas, for themselves or for someone they love. Our world, at times, can feel unpredictable, but today’s verse reminds us that our God is always faithful to watch over and guide us, as He did Jesus’ parents on the night before His
- [A Nearly Missed Gift - Guest post by Kathy Collard Miller](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/12/07/a-nearly-missed-gift-guest-post-by-kathy-collard-miller/) - What happens when God sends a gift in an unexpected manner or package? Have you ever felt disappointed about something only to later realize God was doing something beautiful in your life? Kathy Collard Miller's story of a Christmas gift wish reminds me of those times. A Nearly Missed Gift by Kathy Collard Miller I
- [Thanksgiving Prayer prompts](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/11/23/thanksgiving-prayer-prompts/) - This Thanksgiving, I've been thinking about friends and family–some who will be grieving, others joyfully reconnecting with loved ones, others enduring intense anxiety, and still others who find the holidays a bit bitter sweet, wonderful and hard. And I've been reflecting the tender heart of our Father who remains perfectly present in each of our
- [Painful Seasons - Guest Post by Tanya Stowe](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/11/16/painful-seasons-guest-post-by-tanya-stowe/) - Today someone asked me if I tend to fall into a rut during the winter. I paused to consider my answer, suspecting the person's question went deeper than weather humdrums. I wondered, if perhaps, this friend was wrestling with the melancholy that hits many this time of year. If you can relate, I hope you'll
- [When Our Loved Ones Self-destruct](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/11/02/when-our-loved-ones-self-destruct/) - Since he’s not on speaking terms with God, life is terrifying, yet he remains tied to performance-based objectives as a way of life. He knows every one of his character flaws, and nothing he does will ever be adequate. These days, shame drums endlessly like a nagging headache, and he has no resources to assuage it.
- [When Set Backs Hit](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/10/26/when-set-backs-hit/) - (This first published on May 30, 2019) For some, dreams come easy. Most of us want to feel significant, to know we were created for eternal significance. But others have long since lost that childlike expectancy and have traded thoughts of what could be to settle for what is. Maybe an opportunity came that felt
- [Was that "word" really from God?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/10/19/was-that-word-really-from-god/) - I never want to be one who doubts someone else's gift or becomes resistant to God's Holy Spirit. But Scripture also tells us that not everything we hear truly comes from Him. If this has left you wondering how we can know when a "word" comes from God or human pride and sin, you'll gain
- [Finding God in Life's Unfamiliar Territory - Guest Post by Grace Fox](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/09/28/finding-god-in-lifes-unfamiliar-territory-guest-post-by-grace-fox/) - I've often said, I can handle almost anything, if I know it's coming. I can feel quite anxious and vulnerable, however, when I don't know what's ahead. When I don't know where that assignment might lead, or if a particular where a particular choice might take me. If you can relate, you'll find encouragement from
- [Running Ahead of God?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/09/14/running-ahead-of-god/) - (This post first published on January 25, 2018.) I don't like chaos, uncertainty, or when things don't go according to plan–and I often have a plan. The problem comes when I allow my agenda to overshadow God's voice. My guest blogger, Linda Shenton Matchett can relate. Running Ahead of God?by Linda Shenton Matchett Crisis mode
- [True Significance - Guest post by Tina Yeager](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/09/07/true-significance-guest-post-by-tina-yeager/) - I would add to the above quote by saying, every act, big or small, done in obedience to Christ, has eternal, transformative purpose–even when we don't see the results. True Significance by Tina Yeager I gazed at the ceiling this morning. The vacant square footage reminded me of those blank spaces remaining where I had
- [Conquering Our Fear of Weakness](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/08/31/conquering-our-fear-of-weakness/) - Note: This first published on Feburary 27, 2020. I don’t like to appear weak or needy. In fact, I will go to great lengths to avoid this and to portray an image of strength, even in the face of weakness. I suspect some of this comes from my slightly stubborn and determined personality. But honestly,
- [He is Enough](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/04/20/he-is-enough/) - (Note: This first published on August 20, 2017.) Some of my most precious moments have also been my hardest, because it was then that I felt God's love and embrace most strongly. When, curled into the corner of the couch, Bible opened on my lap, and He spoke tenderly to me, words of encouragement, of
- [Expectations or Expectancy - Guest post by Ava Pennington](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/08/17/expectations-or-expectancy-guest-post-by-ava-pennington/) - Expectations or Expectancy by Ava Pennington Have you recently experienced frustration? Something or someone irritated you? Plans didn’t go your way? That seems to be happening to me more as of late. I get annoyed at the increased seasonal traffic in south Florida. I’m frustrated by people who don’t follow through on what they said
- [Finding God in the depths - guest post by Jessica Brodie](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/07/27/finding-god-in-the-depths-guest-post-by-jessica-brodie/) - This past year, I endured one of the most difficult seasons in the over two decades. I felt like I was being hit on every side. Relentlessly. During this time, someone I served with, and with whom I hadn't shared much, texted me to tell me her husband had dreamt that evil was chasing me.
- [Obedience in the mundane](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/08/03/obedience-in-the-mundane-2/) - (This first published on Sept. 8, 2016.) Have you ever felt invisible? Wondered if anyone would notice, should you stop doing whatever it is you're doing, day in and day out? When our daughter was younger, I often wondered what would happen if I didn't make the bed–after all, it'd only get messed up again.
- [is what feels urgent god's leading? - guest post by kathy howard](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/08/10/is-what-feels-urgent-gods-leading-guest-post-by-kathy-howard/) - Subscriber Exclusive Free Novel! Is What Feels Urgent God's Leading By Kathy Howard (This post first appeared on Kathy Howard's website.) My mother used to tell a story about me to which most moms of young children can relate. One day, when she ran into the bathroom for just a moment, I immediately began knocking
- [Fun Book News: A free Read and a NEw Release!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/07/20/fun-book-news-a-free-read-and-a-new-release/) - Book addicts unite! :) This is for those of you whose book purchases add up as quickly as mine and who, like me, love to learn about great deals. You can't get much better than free–the price at which New Hope Publishers/Iron Stream Media is offering my first release Beyond I Do. Here's the blurb:
- [Remembering What we cannot see - guest post by Karen Wingate](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/07/13/remembering-what-we-cannot-see-guest-post-by-karen-wingate/) - When life feels hard or uncertain, I try to lift my gaze off of my problems and onto the One who knows me, sees me, loves me, and is always, always working on my behalf. Today's guest, Karen Wingate, has a unique understanding regarding what we do and do not see. Remembering What We Cannot
- [When others CriticIze our calling or ability to live it- Guest Post by Grace fox](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/06/15/when-others-criti-our-calling-or-ability-to-live-it-guest-post-by-grace-fox/) - We've probably all had people verbally attack or try to disqualify us. Those types of encounters can hurt deeply. If we give their words more weight than God's, we can easily allow other people's criticism to leave us feeling defeated. We might even feel tempted to withdraw roles and relationships. Letting God's Voice Speak Loudest
- [God Opens Doors](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/06/08/god-opens-doors/) - God Opens Doors by Sarah Foust (Note: This first published on September 21, 2017.) God opens doors. Sometimes I don’t feel like walking through them, but He makes them available. A few years ago, my husband and I felt called to become foster parents. It was a tough process. Scary. More like terrifying. But, God
- [Focused and Spirit-led living](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/05/25/focused-and-spirit-led-living/) - (Taken and adapted from a previous Your Daily Bible Verse podcast episode.) I often tell my team, If we’re in God’s pocket, nothing else matters. And if we’re not in God’s pocket, nothing else matters. In other words, we want to be squarely, unwaveringly, in the center of God’s will, on the path He has
- [Making the Most of Every Eternally-Glorious Moment](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/05/11/making-the-most-of-every-eternally-glorious-moment/) - (Note: This first published here in July of 2020) Why are you here, in this time period, in that neighborhood, or at that work place? Years ago, this question seemed to make all the social media rounds as everyone was encouraged to live with Queen Esther-type determination and bravery. And while I applaud all who
- [Not My Nature Guest Post by Terri Gillespie](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/05/04/not-my-nature-guest-post-by-terri-gillespie/) - There are those folks who are so confident in the LORD that no matter what happens, they know they will be alright. I have met a few of these souls and I’m both awed and convicted by their testimonies. Why? Because I am not one of those blessed souls. At least, not by nature. When I’m caught off-guard by
- [Finding Joy in the Chaos](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/04/20/finding-joy-in-the-chaos/) - (Note: This first posted in April of 2017.) Does failing at something you've been assigned or entrusted with cause your stomach to knot? When you miss a deadline, does your thought life run amuck? The bigger question is, are you living in grace? That's not to say we shouldn't hold ourselves accountable and honestly assess
- [Angels Watching OVer Me - Guest post by Candy Arrington](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/04/06/angels-watching-over-me-guest-post-by-candy-arrington/) - Sometimes God speaks to our hearts while we quietly read through Scripture. Sometimes He comforts us as we pray or listen to praise music. And as you'll see in my guest's post today, other times He uses someone unexpected to let us know He sees us, loves us, and holds us securely now and forever.
- [Staying True to Your Purpose](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/03/23/staying-true-to-your-purpose/) - (Note: This first published on October 20, 2016.) Do you ever feel like God is calling you to do things that guarantee you to a life of obscurity? Financial struggle? Does it feel like His call--to die to yourself, to do what's right whenever everyone else is conniving to get ahead--places you at a disadvantage?
- [Learning--the Hard Way--to Be a Blessing](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/03/09/learning-the-hard-way-to-be-a-blessing/) - (Note: This post first published on August 30, 2018.) I don't like failing–at anything. But I especially hate when my failure hurts someone else. Unfortunately, there've been numerous times when I've sensed God asking me to do something–to say something or reach out to someone–but didn't. There have been even more times when I've felt
- [Living as Our New glorious selves](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/02/23/living-as-our-new-glorious-selves/) - (The following was taken and adapted from an iBelieve video devotion.) We’ve probably all gone to some event only to find ourselves completely under-dressed, or dressed inappropriately. I have, more than once, and when that happens, I usually want to leave as quickly as possible. Years ago, my husband invited me to a charity function
- [When Anxiety Tries to Win](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/02/16/when-anxiety-tries-to-win/) - (This post first published on February 13, 2020.) When I’m feeling anxious, which is often, my husband says he’s going to “sit on me.” This isn’t some idle threat, nor a threat at all. Rather, his words convey a promise to, literally and figuratively, cover me with his strength and love, though he doesn’t actually
- [Shattering Our Glass Box – Moving Past Fear of Rejection Guest post by Susan Aken](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/02/09/shattering-our-glass-box-moving-past-fear-of-rejection/) - (Note, this first published on September 20, 2018.) Out of all the fears we women face, our fear of rejection can be the most debilitating. It hinders our relationships, steals our joy and peace, and can keep us from pursuing the dreams and plans God has for us. I've yet to meet a woman who
- [God's Heart for a mom in need - Guest Post by LInda Rondeau](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/01/26/gods-heart-for-a-mom-in-need-guest-post-by-linda-rondeau/) - God's Heart for a Mom in Need by Linda Rondeau I wondered if my life could get worse? I was filled with self-pity as I loaded the three children into one grocery cart. Then I grabbed another few items I could afford. Pushing my cart with my right hand and the kids’ with my left,
- [Overcomer or overwhelmed - guest post by Ava Pennington](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2023/01/19/overcomer-or-overwhelmed-guest-post-by-ava-pennington/) - This has not been an easy week. An anniversary of loss I’d rather not remember, yet it’s impossible to forget. A reminder of my husband’s greatest season of victory in the face of what the world would call a season of deepest defeat.
- [Experiencing the Fullness of His gift](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/12/22/experiencing-the-fullness-of-his-gift/) - May you personally experience Christ as each of these this Christmas. Prayer prompt: Jesus, help me experience You and Your love. Help me to sense Your presence throughout the day and to pause to acknowledge this. Help me to experience the soul-deep peace of complete absolution, knowing through faith in You, that I am lavished,
- [Courageously doing what god asks and trusting him with the rest](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/12/15/courageously-doing-what-god-asks-and-trusting-him-with-the-rest/) - A question posed in a book I read years ago periodically replays through my mind, and often with an unsatisfactory answer: What are you doing in which you know you will fail if God doesn't come through?* I would rephrase this as, "In what ways do I insulate myself from needing to rely on God's
- [Confidence in Uncertainty - Repost](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/12/08/confidence-in-uncertainty/) - Note: This post first published on May 5, 2016. "I'm quitting my job." It was the last thing I expected to hear from my ultra dependable, hard-working husband. And yet, looking back, I should've seen this coming. He'd been beaten down and overworked for far too long. I should've responded to his statement by wrapping
- [Trusting Our Advocate - guest post by Candy Arrington](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/12/01/trusting-our-advocate-guest-post-by-candy-arrington/) - For several years prior to her death, I served as a caregiver and advocate for my 96-year-old aunt. Her advanced age brought hearing loss, which made it difficult for her to understand health care providers as well as others. Sometimes, she attempted to fake hearing and answered confidently, if incorrectly. But increasingly, she looked to
- [Giving Thanks When we fear God may not be enough](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/11/24/giving-thanks-when-we-fear-god-may-not-be-enough/) - Each year, numerous people endure an incredibly painful Thanksgiving. Some battle loneliness. Others anxiety related to severe financial challenges. Some of you may be grieving loved ones lost, relationships shattered, or trust broken. And deep in your soul, you might be crying out to God, asking, "Are You truly enough, even in this?" If so,
- [Anchored in grace during a relationally tense thanksgiving](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/11/17/anchored-in-grace-during-a-relationally-tense-thanksgiving-2/) - As you consider Thanksgiving, are you filled with joyful anticipation, anxiety, or a mixture of both? Are your thoughts of the special moments and memories you'll share accompanied by reminders of past conflicts? We probably all have that one family member who seems adept at pricking at our insecurities, challenging our peace, and poking at
- [For the Leader who feels discouraged and defeated](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/11/10/for-the-tired-discouraged-and-defeated-leader/) - I just left a conference full of tired and discouraged women leaders. Yes, some attendees came full and encouraged, but I suspect, based on the tears I saw and conversations I overheard, they were in the minority. And for many of them, it wasn't the demands of ministry that most fatigued and disheartened them. These
- [Living led](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/11/03/living-led/) - I’ve landed where I am after a series I don’t want tos—circumstances that felt beyond my control and left me wrestling with God. That's not to say my life has been filled with hardships. In fact, I've experienced numerous blessings and steps forward from opportunities seized. But I've also found myself at the end of
- [Help my unbelief - with surrender: Guest post by Jessica Brodie](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/10/27/help-my-unbelief-with-surrender-guest-post-by-jessica-brodie/) - I sat there in church, the room darkened and the praise band’s thrumming set now just a soft, slow piano tune as our pastor spoke words over the congregation. “Has the Lord turned your life around?” he asked us, raising his own hand to indicate God had done this for him, too. “Have you surrendered
- [6 Ways to Change the World](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/10/21/6-ways-to-change-the-world/) - (This first posted on October 4th, 2018.) Sometimes it feels as if darkness has overpowered light, sorrow dominates joy, and confusion and fear infiltrate peace. Watching the news play out before me, or perhaps even sitting with a hurting friend, can make me feel powerless. Ineffectual. But Scripture tells me this is a lie. In
- [The Power of God's Unfailing Love - Guest Post by Kathy Howard](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/10/13/the-power-of-gods-unfailing-love-guest-post-by-kathy-howard/) - Sometimes, hardship hits so hard, we're not sure we have the strength to stand. Reeling from intense pain, we may struggle to hold tight to hope. Will God really turn our mourning to dancing? Did He truly mean it when He promised us joy? These are valid questions we've probably all wrestling with at some
- [Sitting with Sorrow - Guest Post by AC Williams](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/10/06/sitting-with-sorrow-guest-post-by-ac-williams/) - How do you respond when someone you care about hurts? Do you immediately feel an intense desire rise up to to fix their situation and in some way to alleviate their pain? That's a tendency I'm learning to fight. I'm trying to get better at remaining present when those I love are experiencing pain. That's
- [Walking In the Wilderness](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/09/29/walking-in-the-wilderness/) - (The below first posted in the summer of 2016.) Don't Despise the Wildnernessby Julie Arduini It was 2003. I lived in Upstate NY and the financial consequences from 9/11 hit our small city hard. The main corporation in town, Corning Inc., let go 20% of their workforce. At the time, their stock
- [When we can't break free from bitterness](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/09/22/when-we-cant-break-free-from-bitterness/) - Some time ago, a young adult struggling with some significant hurts said, “I’m not like you. I can’t just forgive.” As I considered his words, I immediately thought of numerous times when this was far from true. When I held grudges, harbored bitterness over an offense, and longed for vindication. There’d been a season when
- [The Modesty Debate--Going Deeper](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/09/15/the-modesty-debate-going-deeper/) - (This first posted August 3rd, 2017) If you’ve seen me in my sweat pants and favorite tattered nightshirt, chances are we’re besties. You can tell how close we are by how I dress around you and how long it took me to doll myself up. Before Bible study or church or speaking engagements, I fix
- [Hope in Grief - Guest Post by Jessica Brodie](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/08/25/hope-in-grief-guest-post-by-jessica-brodie/) - Have you ever experienced a time of loss and sadness that is simultaneously also filled with deep joy? That was our family this week as we journeyed to Ohio to celebrate the life and mourn the passing of my husband’s grandfather. Grandpa Bob was 95 when he died, and what a man! A World War
- [Held by God When Afraid - Guest post by Penny McGinnis](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/08/18/held-by-god-when-afraid-guest-post-by-penny-mcginnis/) - I stood on the platform wearing a harness attached to a long, heavy cord. All I had to do was step off and fly through the air. Across the lake my daughter, Hannah, and husband, Tim, waited for me to glide across the zip line and meet them on the other side. I'd cheered Tim
- [Never Enough -- The Insatiable Hunger of Discontentment](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/08/11/never-enough-the-insatiable-hunger-of-discontentment/) - (This first published on Sept. 7, 2017.) What temporary filler has distracted you from the One who truly fulfills and, as a result, has deepened your ache and left you hollow? If we were to unpack greed and selfish ambition, I believe we’d find a host of fear, sorrow, insecurities, and emotional wounds beneath them.
- [Cultivating Sincere Love](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/08/04/cultivating-sincere-love/) - (This post first published on January 31, 2019.) (This post first published on Jan. 31, 2019) We can’t feed bitterness and simultaneously cultivate joy. We won’t experience the full to overflowing life Jesus promised if we cling to unforgiveness. And perhaps most importantly, we can’t display the beautiful, grace-giving love our world
- [Facing Your lurking fear - Guest post by  Shirley Brosius](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/07/28/facing-your-lurking-fear-guest-post-by-shirley-brosius/) - This is something we all battle from time to time. But may we always remember, we are not victims to our circumstances or our emotions. In Christ, we can stand strong and choose courage, even when we feel our legs will soon give way. Today's guest, Shirley Brosius, shares how. Facing and Chasing the Lurker
- [Intertwined, free for a limited time!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/07/26/intertwined-free-for-a-limited-time/) - Hey, all, I wanted to share some fun news. If you're looking for something to read, New Hope Publishers is currently offering the kindle version of Intertwined for free, now through the 29th. Grab your free copy HERE. From the back cover: Abandoned by her husband for another woman, Tammy Kuhn, an organ procurement coordinator
- [When you don't know what to do](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/07/21/when-you-dont-know-what-to-do/) - (Today's post is taken and adapted from the December 7th Your Daily Bible Verse episode titled Seeking God's Guidance in Times of Crisis. You can listen to that episode HERE.) But first, fun news! New Hope Publishers has made Intertwined, one of my backlisted titled, available for free via Kindle from July 25th-29th. Save THIS
- [Fighting Fear of Rejection With the Truth of Christ](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/07/14/fighting-fear-of-rejection-with-the-truth-of-christ/) - (This post first published in 2020.) Writers experience a great number of rejections, and some of those can be pretty harsh. Though I know to expect these “no thank yous,” seeing them stream through my inbox can leave me stunned. If I’m not careful, I can begin to question my abilities, my calling, and really,
- [Choosing to Praise](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/06/30/choosing-to-praise/) - Whatever we focus on tends to dominate our thoughts, and our thoughts determine our emotions. Is it any wonder then that our misery grows when we obsess over the issue or difficulty? And yet, when we choose to praise ... Today my sweet friend, photographer, and gifted devotional writer, Susan Aken shares some thoughts on
- [The Beauty of a Divinely linked team](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/06/23/the-beauty-of-a-divinely-linked-team/) - Many years ago, I felt God calling me to launch a ministry only to have it die less than two years later. That was a confusing and painful season where I questioned my ability to hear God. For surely, if the call came from Him, He would've kept it–and me–from failing. For a while, that
- [Becoming What God Desires](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/06/09/becoming-what-god-desires/) - I’m slowly learning how to be whom God designed instead of the person I thought I would be. I’m also learning, even in my broken places, I’m still the person I always thought I was. I’m broken and whole. Broken because of the path my life has taken, but whole because of the way Jesus has put me back together.
- [Overcomers in Christ](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/06/02/overcomers-in-christ/) - Notice, He didn’t say, because "I might overcome" or even "I’m going to overcome" but rather, "I’ve already overcome." He let His disciples know, before the resurrection, that the victory was already won. He had already overcome. His disciples, His beloved friends who belonged to Him, had already overcome as well. And just as surely as their victory had been already been won, in Christ, ours has also.
- [How Tenacious is Your Love](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/05/26/how-tenacious-is-your-love/) - Lately, I've been thinking about all the spiritual conversations I could've had but didn't, and therefore, all of the potential life change I could've witnessed, but didn't. The hurts that may never have occurred and the healing that could have, once Jesus got a hold of a person, and then a family, and then a
- [Shining Light in the Dark](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/05/12/shining-light-in-the-dark/) - (This first posted on September 14, 2017.) Every day is a battle—for truth versus deception. For relational intimacy versus isolation. For growth and godliness versus sin and self-destruction. Ultimately, for love toward God and others versus idolatry of self. This—the battle against self—is by far my greatest battle. This is what threatens to derail me
- [My Secret to Enduring Joy guest post by Carol McClain](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/05/05/my-secret-to-enduring-joy-guest-post-by-carol-mcclain/) - My Secret to Joy by Carol McClain Has life discouraged you? Does society seem strange? Have we normalized destructive behavior so that we’re confused if we can classify anything as right or wrong? If the answer to any of these is yes, I’m not surprised. We’re awash with bad news: war, disease, inflation … I
- [When those we reach out to ask us to leave them alone](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/04/28/when-those-we-reach-out-to-ask-us-to-leave-them-alone/) - (The below is a transcript, edited slightly, taken from an iBelieve video devotion.) We know God commanded us to love, right? Sometimes, the “how” related to that seems clear, like when we serve at a homeless soup kitchen, pray with a hurting friend, or prioritize relationships with friends and family. But what if the person
- [The Process of Becoming](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/03/30/the-process-of-becoming/) - (First published in 2018) If only we could grow without struggle. Today's guest shares a familiar analogy, but one I think we should all be reminded of periodically. I've heard it said, those things that are most worthwhile take the greatest amount of work and perseverance. This makes me think of 1 Timothy 4:8. "Physical
- [Focusing on Our all-powerful God](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/04/07/focusing-on-our-all-powerful-god/) - Have you ever created such a mess, you felt certain restoration would never come? Maybe years of arguing and manipulation destroyed the trust in your marriage or decades of addiction shattered the dreams you once held. Surveying the wreckage all around you, you feel stuck. Stuck in your mess, in your hurt, in the brokenness
- [When something in the Bible bothers you](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/03/31/when-something-in-the-bible-bothers-you/) - What do you do when something you read in Scripture offends you? When a passage or verse appears to contradict your perception of God and makes you question if He truly is good? In such situations, we tend to respond in one of three ways: We ignore that portion of text, halt any thoughts pertaining
- [Faith -- A Clear Sign to Hold Tight To](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/03/24/faith-a-clear-sign-to-hold-tight-to-2/) - (This post first published on March 14, 2019.) Church had become a painful place for our daughter. She loved Jesus and wanted to grow closer to Him, but she’d experienced deep hurt from His people. Hurts that initiated inner lies like, “I’m not good enough. This faith thing isn’t working for me. God must not
- [Freedom From Entitlement](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/03/10/freedom-from-entitlement/) - What happens when you lost a document? One you remember writing, reading to your husband, and setting aside to share here two weeks later, yet you can't remember its title nor seem to find it no matter how many times and ways you search your documents folder? You re-share a piece from ... 2017,
- [What does it mean to suffer well - guest post by Kelly Campbell](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/03/03/what-does-it-mean-to-suffer-well-guest-post-by-kelly-campbell/) - Honestly, I'm a pansy when it comes to suffering. This might be why I feel such admiration and respect for those like my sweet friend and team member, Kelly Campbell who've endured incredible and ongoing hardship with perseverance and grace. This is also why when women like her speak on this subject, I pay attention,
- [When Today's demands fight for every inch of our time](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/02/17/when-todays-demands-fight-for-every-inch-of-our-time/) - Looking at my to-do list, I hate to say this, but our agenda reveals what, or who, we love most and where we place our trust. This really hit me this morning as I read through a particular passage of Scripture. It came from Mark 9:30-31. It states: “Leaving that region, they traveled through Galilee.
- [The Danger of Quick-Fix Mentality When Sharing Truth](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/02/03/the-danger-of-quick-fix-mentality-when-sharing-truth/) - (This first published in September, 2018.) I can easily fall prey to our “fix-it-quick”, culture, tossing out truths that are, well, true, but fail to hit their mark. In fact, there’ve been times when I’ve caused more harm than good. When I’ve hurt others and damaged relationships. Usually my motives were good. I desperately wanted
- [I forgot to share my news!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/01/27/i-forgot-to-share-my-news/) - Hello, lovely loyal readers! In my post today, I forgot to tell you my fun news! My latest release hit the shelves on Tuesday. :) And because my husband is the adorable, supportive man that he is, he went and snagged a picture of himself with the book. Her Small Town Refuge: To secure the
- [What plotting, pushing, & striving reveal regarding our trust](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/01/27/what-plotting-pushing-striving-reveal-regarding-our-trust/) - Our response to setbacks, challenges, and attacks reveal how well we know and how deeply we trust Christ. When others come against us, do we truly believe He’s our defender? When someone or something threatens our job, will we trust He’s our provider? And what about when our boss gives someone else that promotion we’ve
- [Walking through life's hardships Guest Post by Chaka Heinze](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/01/20/walking-through-lifes-hardships-guest-post-by-chaka-heinze/) - In many of my conversations with those who are grieving or feel as if they're losing hope, I often hear self-condemnation. I hear them place judgment on their feelings and struggle, and this grieves me because I know how contrary this is to Christ's heart for them. I also know how much harder our journeys
- [God Among the Bullet Points](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2022/01/13/god-among-the-bullet-points/) - *Note: This post first published on January 11, 2018. Every birthday and New Year, I'm forced to take stock. Have I lived the past year well? Am I moving forward in faith? Can I reasonably recover from all my mess ups and mishaps and perhaps behave differently the next time around? Unfortunately, I fail much
- [Resolutions that will transform your life](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/12/30/resolutions-that-will-transform-your-life/) - Most resolutions fail because they focus on cleaning the outside of the cup (Matt. 23:25)—behavior modification—without dealing with the internal factors that fuel our actions. True and lasting change goes much deeper, to that which drives everything else—our good habits and bad, our acts of love and sin, and our fears and our faith. God
- [Holding tight to what's precious this Christmas](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/12/23/holding-tight-to-whats-precious-this-christmas/) - Sometimes in my most stressful moments, especially this season, I sense God asking me, "Why is this thing you're fretting over so important?" Have you ever paused to consider that question? When you're frustrated because your grocery store is out of fresh green beans and you'll have to buy frozen? Or maybe when you've searched
- [The God Who Sees Christmas Grinches](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/12/16/the-god-who-sees-christmas-grinches/) - By Jodie Bailey (This post first published HERE.) I clearly remember the Christmas when I was broken. When I felt like heaven was closed and there was no way God was thinking of me. It was the same Christmas that Jesus put me back together again and reminded me that He sees me. He sees
- [Finding Strength to Love Well This Christmas](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/12/09/finding-strength-to-love-well-this-christmas/) - (This post first published on December 5, 2019) Unfortunately, when I most need Christ’s strength is often when I’m least apt to seek it. When I most feel rushed and overwhelmed, somehow I deceive myself into thinking I can handle the situation and my responses. And perhaps, for a while I can, but the more
- [When the Bah humbugs Hit](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/12/02/when-the-bah-humbugs-hit/) - We’ve barely entered December, and I’m already tired. I’m suffering from a bit of the bah humbugs that probably come, at least in part, from the shorter, colder and drearier days. I’m tempted to coax through the holidays, and, honestly, to make them all about me. A time to rest, to watch movies and read
- [Happy thanksgiving!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/11/25/happ-thanksgiving/) - May your day be filled with laughter, great conversations, and all the turkey and pie your stomach can hold! And I’d love to praise God with you! What is one thing you’re most thankful for this year? If you’re looking to start your day with a nugget of truth, make sure to listen to the
- [Anchored in grace During a relationally tense thanksgiving](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/11/18/anchored-in-grace-during-a-relationally-tense-thanksgiving/) - For some of you, this first Thanksgiving after the global shutdown will be a time of joy and celebration as you reconnect with family you perhaps haven’t seen in years. Others of you are feeling anxious as you consider the relational tension certain to sour your holiday meal. Arguments over politics, mask-wearing, vaccinations … religion.
- [Beauty For Our Gloomiest Days: Guest Post by Amy Anguish](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/11/11/beauty-for-our-gloomiest-days-guest-post-by-amy-anguish/) - Beauty for Our Gloomiest Days by Amy Anguish Heading out into the rain to run errands is never my idea of a good time. But the weather doesn’t care when the milk and bread are gone. A few weeks ago, I loaded up my five-year-old and started out with a few stops planned. At the
- [Forgive and forget: Guest Post by Jennifer Henn](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/11/04/forgive-and-forget-guest-post-by-jennifer-henn/) - fear and trauma. Often, people in their life cause their pain. Our emotions are an intricate part of who we are. Some memories, especially traumatic ones, refuse to leave. We may not be able to forget a painful memory, but we can control whether or not we will dwell on it.
- [How Living in Grace Helps Us Guard Our Words](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/10/14/how-living-in-grace-helps-us-guard-our-words/) - (Please note: This piece originally posted on March 8, 2018.) My words have gotten me into a heap of trouble. I’ve initiated and meddled in arguments I shouldn’t have, fought to be right rather than understand, and wreaked destruction in the name of self-defense. Considering the consequences wrought from my careless, and often damaging, statements,
- [Love For Those Who Don't Understand It](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/10/28/love-for-those-who-dont-understand-it/) - (This post first published in April of 20-9.) How do you explain God’s love to someone with no concept of it? Someone who’s only known manipulation, conditional and temporary relationships, or partial acceptance coated with the threat of rejection? I asked that question to a church friend maybe ten years back, and she quickly responded,
- [God Works in the Waiting](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/11/19/god-works-in-the-waiting/) - When God doesn’t seem to answer my prayers as I like or according to my timetable, I can become anxious, discouraged, and frustrated. I’ve had times when I’ve become disillusioned. I can easily forget that He is always, always working out His glorious, life-giving plan, whether I see His hand or not. He works as
- [Preparing Your Heart for Thanksgiving](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/11/21/preparing-your-heart-for-thanksgiving/) - With Thanksgiving less than a week away and many feeling less than thankful, I thought perhaps you would find this reading plan helpful and encouraging. Read it HERE.
- [Christ Came for the Outcasts](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/12/03/christ-came-for-the-outcasts/) - This holiday season, I invite you to look at the Christmas story through, perhaps, a difference lens—not just of all God did in giving us the gift of His Son—the promise of salvation, the prophesies fulfilled, the abiding presence of God for all who would believe. All of those eternally glorious treasures came wrapped in
- [Calming The Storms in Your Life––Guest Post by Kathy Howard](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/12/10/calming-the-storms-in-your-life-guest-post-by-kathy-howard/) - Many of you have had a rough, exhausting, and frightening year. Some of you have been hit by one difficulty after another. You're entering the Christmas season with your galoshes on, barely coming out of one storm before entering another. And maybe, while feeling pummeled on every side, you're wondering where God is. If He
- [Lose Weight God's Weight-New Year's Resolution-Guest Post](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/01/06/lose-weight-gods-weight-new-years-resolution-guest-post/) - Whenever I set New Year's goals, a part of me knows I won't accomplish them. But I pull out that new planner anyway, think through all my plans and ideas, and analyze my areas of weakness. Then I summon my inner grit to actually put feet to plans for longer than, oh, I don't know,
- [When Relationships Are Inconvenient](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/01/21/when-relationships-are-inconvenient/) - In our rushed and often chaotic world, it’s easy to let relationships slide. At least, this is the case for me. I can become so wrapped up in my schedule and weekly to-do list, I begin to lose sight of my need for connection. I begin to take those relationships for granted, thinking I’ll have
- [Oops ... Now For This Week's Bible Reading Plan](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/01/21/oops-now-for-this-weeks-bible-reading-plan/) - To those who just received today's post via email, I hit publish before I had finished composing the content. I failed to include this week's reading plan passages. This week, I suggest reading new passages on day 1-4, then reviewing all of Luke on day 5, asking God to show you what He wants you
- [God Sees and Cares, Always](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/01/28/god-sees-and-cares-always/) - My family calls me Mama Bear for a reason. I love deeply and fiercely, especially when someone hurts those I love. I can also struggle with the ability to let go, long after the incident has passed. Something deep within me cries out for justice—for the offender to acknowledge and take responsibility for the damage
- [The History Changing Power of God's Love](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/02/04/the-history-changing-power-of-gods-love/) - Nothing—not foreign invasions, persecutions, not the challenges of today or the uncertainties of tomorrow can thwart God's plans. Our life-giving, faithful Father is always at work, consistently and persistently guiding and protecting the lives of those He loves and all that concerns us. Sometimes I lose sight of just how awe-inspiring the gospel truly is
- [When Our Perceived Morality Deceives Us](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/02/11/when-our-perceived-moralit-deceives-us/) - The deep needs that drew me to a local Southern California church twenty-some years ago were the very things that made it so challenging to walk into that building. I didn’t understand the depth of God’s grace and that I was in fact much closer to Him than I realized. My perception was skewed by
- [When Love Flips Table](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/02/25/when-love-flips-table/) - One man or woman of character, fully surrendered to God, can change the world. You and I can impact families, communities, for the good for generations to come. Will you and I, as God’s ambassadors, do that which is convenient? Maybe personally beneficial? Or are we willing, on occasion, to flip a table or two.
- [Staying Alert to the Harvest God is Preparing](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/03/04/staying-alert-to-the-harvest-god-is-preparing/) - Sometimes we can become so focused on where we wish God would work that we’re unable to see where He’s working all around us. We can become so fixated on trying to shove through a closed door, we miss a thousand other openings He’s prepared for us. About five years ago, my husband and I
- [When God Calls Us Back to Where We've Failed](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/03/11/when-god-calls-us-back-to-where-weve-failed/) - When calling us to a place of increased fruitfulness, often God first bring us to the very place we failed. Will we courageously step forward into all He has for us, or will past disappointments keep us stuck? I’ve stood with my feet anchored in cement, but I’ve also experienced the joy and freedom, and
- [Eternally Impactful Prayers](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/11/12/eternally-impactful-prayers/) - If our prayers reveal our hearts, our desires, than mine demonstrate that I've become overly entangled in today. Or perhaps more accurately, that I frequently lose sight of eternity. I ask God to alleviate my friends' and loved ones' pain, to protect them from harm, and to pour His blessings upon them. And while there's
- [Finding Joy When Our Kids Struggle](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/01/09/finding-joy-when-our-kids-struggle/) - When those we love hurt, often our first response is to try to fix things. Or, if we anticipate a potential threat, we may attempt to orchestrate things so that those we care about somehow remain pain-free. At least, that's how I'm tempted to respond. Until I take a step back and consider life through
- [Trusting God to Lead and Guide Through Closed and Opened Doors](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/07/25/trusting-god-to-lead-and-guide-through-closed-and-opened-doors/) - Sometimes I can spend more time questioning if something is God’s will than actually pursuing it. Granted, it’s good to seek clarity and to bring every thought and passion to Christ for His direction, or redirection, whichever the case may be. But often, when I’m reluctant to move forward, my hesitation comes more from insecurity
- [When Our View of God Clashes With Reality](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/08/01/when-our-view-of-god-clashes-with-reality/) - Sometimes our expectations lead to our greatest disappointments. They can hinder us from truly knowing one another. They can hinder us from truly knowing God as well. Have you ever had someone grow attached to the person they thought you were? Not who you were but an individual they’d conjured in their mind? I have,
- [](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/08/08/10459/) - The deeper the hurt or betrayal, the harder it is to forgive. There was a time when I viewed forgiveness as a self-sacrificing act of obedience. I've since realized, however, the enslaving power of nursed grudges and the incredible healing and joy that comes when we relinquish an offense. My guest today, Tamera Kraft, shares
- [When Hard Times Cause You To Question Your Faith -- Guest Post](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/08/15/when-hard-times-cause-you-to-question-your-faith-guest-post/) - Everyone has moments of doubts. Some of us have years and even decades of wrestling with deep truths and what we've learned about God. But as I often say, doubts don't so much cause the cracks in our faith as they reveal them. They show us false beliefs, misconceptions, and lightly held truths. In other
- [Help Me Celebrate Release Day!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/08/20/help-me-celebrate-release-day/) - We really should throw a party with lots of chocolate and coffee, of course. And maybe some goofy social media pictures. How about we all meet in our Walmart aisle for some impromptu story fun? I know, you live too far away for that. But I'd love to see your fun Hometown Healing sightings anyway!
- [When God's Yes Seem to Turn Into a No](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/08/22/when-gods-yes-seem-to-turn-into-a-no/) - What happens when you're certain God's leading you in a certain direction and you land in a dead end? That question becomes even more challenging and frustrating when it seems someone intricately involved in your decision pushes back. This was the battle my guest found herself in. Letting Go When God Says Yes By Jenny
- [Courageously Overcoming Fear](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/08/29/courageously-overcoming-fear/) - God knows we live in a dangerous world, and He knows our concerns are real. But more than that, He knows the solution to every problem we’ll face and is bigger than our every threat.
- [Creating a Culture of Grace](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/09/05/creating-a-culture-of-grace/) - Our response to other people's failures and mistakes matter. A lot. Grace isn’t overlooking sin or acting as if it’s acceptable nor is it diminishing its effects. Grace says: "I know you messed up here, and that stinks. But your actions won’t push me away. Instead, they motivate me to draw closer. Because I know
- [Embracing Our Weaknesses to Live in God's Strength by Victoria Mejias](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/09/12/embracing-our-weaknesses-to-live-in-gods-strength-by-victoria-mejias/) - Our culture tends to idolize strength. We love stories of the underdog who rose to the top despite seemingly impossible odds. But Scripture paints a different image of strength--one found through surrender and revealed through weakness. When I first met my guest, Victoria Mejias, I was instantly drawn to her sweet spirit, her authenticity, her
- [Filled to Overflowing](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/09/19/filled-to-overflowing/) - For years, I was a stale and stagnate Christian. Christ had deposited His living water within my sole, but it was more like a trickling creek than the gushing river He desired. I wasn’t thriving. In many ways, I was barely surviving. Then one weekend, I went on a women’s retreat and heard the account
- [Finding Significance Through Surrender](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/09/26/finding-significance-through-surrender/) - The Bible is filled with men and women who learned of amazing and history-changing assignments while performing mundane and humble tasks. We also see those who became obsessed with certain roles or opportunities, who put their desires for self-elevation and respect or prestige above their relationship with and worship of God, who lost it all.
- [Resting in God's Sovereignty and Infallible Wisdom](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/10/10/resting-in-gods-sovereignty-and-infallible-wisdom/) - When God guides us toward something, He always provides all we need to accomplish whatever He’s assigned.
- [Deepening our Knowledge--gnóseōs--of Christ through surrender](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/10/17/deepening-our-knowledge-gnoseos-of-christ-through-surrender/) - Our relationship with Christ begins and is sustained through surrender. With every crisis and uncertainty, as we close our eyes and, with boldness, relinquish our grip, we land firm and secure in our Savior’s hands. It’s then that we realize He truly is loving, faithful, all-powerful, attentive, and true. For most of my life, I
- [Other people's sin, our lives, and God's Sovereignty](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/10/24/other-peoples-sin-our-lives-and-gods-sovereignty/) - Where does man’s choice, most specifically, man’s sin, and God’s sovereignty, intersect? I suspect we’ve all wrestled with that question at some point. We understand that God is all-powerful, all-knowing, all-loving, faithful, and true. We believe the One who formed the stars from nothing and set our world into motion can easily orchestrate the details
- [Setting Aside Expectations to Love With Grace](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/10/31/setting-aside-expectations-to-love-with-grace/) - Sometimes I forget that transformation takes time. I’m not just talking in regard to my own growth, but this is especially true when I watch others. I can easily expect them to have reached a certain level and therefore to behave and think a certain way. The problem is, I have spiritual forgetfulness. I
- [How God Responds to Our Pain](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/11/07/how-god-responds-to-our-pain/) - If you want to catch a glimpse of God’s heart for you, simply watch a mother with her newborn. The hours spent walking the floor as she tries to soothe her little one to sleep. The energy sacrificed to care for her. The joy she feels when the child grows or laughs or simply breathes.
- [Christ's Glory Through His Death and What This Means For Us](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/11/14/christs-glory-through-his-death-and-what-this-means-for-us/) - We’ve all encountered someone who later turned out to be much different than we originally thought. Maybe they presented as the perfect, compassionate friend only to turn on us when we didn’t meet their expectations. Or perhaps the opposite occurred and we assumed someone was shallow or selfish or irresponsible, only to discover, when life
- [Grace for Our Imperfect Thanksgivings -- Guest Post](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/11/21/grace-for-our-imperfect-thanksgivings-guest-post/) - We've all probably allowed ourselves to get so caught up in the event of a thing that we've lost sight of that thing all together. I have. When I do, my stress climbs and my attitude tanks. But then God gently helps me shift my priorities back where they should be. Amazingly, when I do,
- [The Beauty of Hard Thanksgivings](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/11/28/the-beauty-of-hard-thanksgivings/) - For some of you, Thanksgiving will be hard. Painful. Maybe chaotic and surrounded by dysfunction. But God can bring such eternal beauty in the midst of your most challenging moments. In fact, the beauty can come precisely because of your hardship. One fall when we lived in Southern California, I wanted to teach our daughter
- [Retaining Our Power of Choice Each Day](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/12/12/retaining-our-power-of-choice-each-day/) - (Taken from a lesson cut from Wholly Loved's Unshakable, Unbreakable Joy study, releasing soon.) I often decide, before my feet hit the floor, how my day will go. Will I be disappointed and frustrated or at peace and fulfilled? Will I be self-obsessed and therefore prideful or insecure or will I sift everything through a
- [New Year's Resolutions Worth Making and Keeping](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/01/02/new-years-resolutions-worth-making-and-keeping/) - On New Year’s Eve, as I sat across from the love of my life and, together, we reminisced on all of our successes and failures, some patterns emerged—patterns of beauty, of growth, of healing. Of heart-purging and filling, adding clarity to my days ahead.
- [Growing Through Relational Conflict](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/01/23/growing-through-relational-conflict/) - My friend was struggling. She’d been hurt deeply, unjustly, and by someone she’d once been close to. Worse, past experience told her this individual wouldn’t likely handle the situation in a godly manner. Rather, she’d spew her anger and her slanted representation to all who would listen. My friend worried her social group and faith
- [Faith Over Fear is Now Live](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/02/25/faith-over-fear-is-now-live/) - We've been waiting, or at least, I've been waiting. Salem Web Communications has released the first two episodes of my Faith Over Fear podcast. God showed up so much in my life as I worked through this podcast series, and He's created a beautiful movement of freedom. As I researched each topic, He sparked such
- [Fear of Missing Out--Finding Faith in God's Leading](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/03/05/fear-of-missing-out-finding-faith-in-gods-leading/) - Thirteen years ago, as we packed our minivan from top to bottom to move literally across the country, I felt as if I was losing myself. I thought my dreams, which God had slowly birthed within me as I served in a close-knit Southern California church, would languish then die. Ten years later, when one
- [Fear No More–Finding Eternal Significance in Christ](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/03/12/fear-no-more-finding-eternal-significance-in-christ/) - In my young adult years, I wasted so much energy, so much peace, trying to prove my worth. Driven by a hidden fear of insignificance, I chased after one goal after another and defined myself by external and subjective standards. As a result, I developed a rather shallow sense of purpose and believed the lie
- [Letting Go of the Need to Control – Guest Post](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/03/19/letting-go-of-the-need-to-control-guest-post/) - Lately, our world seems completely out of control. When I focus on all the chaos, I worry about our economy, about loved ones, about my daughter and son-in-laws college classes ... in short, about a lot. But then I remember truth, and that truth grounds mean. If you find your thoughts pinging in a thousand
- [Risking Failure to Become All God Created You to Be](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/03/26/risking-failure-to-become-all-god-created-you-to-be/) - How many opportunities have you avoided, how many dreams have you never pursued, for fear of failure? Or perhaps you embraced that new challenge but then spent countless sleepless nights fretting over what might happen or what others might think when you didn’t measure up or succeed? The summer before our daughter’s senior year
- [How Grace Shatters Shame and Sin](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/04/02/how-grace-shatters-shame-and-sin/) - You might not have recognized me, might even have tried to avoid me, had you met me in my teen years. I was a foul-mouthed, often drunk, angry and self-destructing kid. Then God began reaching deep into my heart, transforming and healing me bit by bit. But though He shattered my chains of sin and
- [Extending Grace to Save Our Relationships](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/04/09/extending-grace-to-save-our-relationships/) - When I say or do something unkind, I love to claim grace for myself. But what about when others hurt or mistreat me? What about those moments when others behave as, well, flawed people in need of Jesus? How can I show them the same truth-and-grace-based love that Jesus shows me? My guest today tackled
- [Hiding in the Shelter of God's Wings Until the Danger Passes](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/04/16/hiding-in-the-shelter-of-gods-wings-until-the-danger-passes/) - What happens when life pummels us from every side, relentlessly? When the dangers seem much larger than we can bear? We hide ourselves deep within Our Father’s embrace. We hide ourselves in the shelter of His wings. A couple Sundays ago, my daughter was in a car wreck. She called us in tears, and
- [No More Leftovers: A Gift For My God by Guest Blogger Jessica Brodie](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/04/23/no-more-leftovers-a-gift-for-my-god-by-guest-blogger-jessica-brodie/) - Our trust in God is often most clearly seen in our checkbook. Our finances are also often the hardest areas to surrender, because we're apt tie our sense of security to our paycheck more than we do to our Lord. At least, that's my tendency. Unless I regularly guard against this, I can easily make
- [When God Speaks--Our Role](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/05/07/when-god-speaks-our-role/) - God is always speaking to His children, always guiding us toward His very best, but sometimes His voice grows faint amid the noise and confusion all around us. Early in my parenting days, I was probably the most insecure, and often confused, mother around. I felt bombarded by advice, warnings, and contradicting tips from so-called
- [Join Me on Armida Miranda's Deeper Connection With God Podcast](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/05/09/join-me-on-armida-mirandas-deeper-connection-with-god-podcast/) - Hello, friends! A while back, a podcast host contacted me, asking me to share some of my journey with Christ and how He's led me to experience a deeper connection with Him. And, well, I love talking about the freedom I've experienced through God's grace, so I was thrilled to except the invite. I'm also
- [When Grief Makes it Hard to Hear God](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/05/14/when-grief-makes-it-hard-to-hear-god/) - Sometimes God's voice seems so clear. Other times, and maybe even when we are most desperate to hear God, He seems silent. When that occurs, how do we respond? While we all have different journeys, we can trust that God will speak to us, in His way and His timing. He will speak to us
- [Ordinary Conversations With Our Loving God –– Guest Post](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/05/21/ordinary-conversations-with-our-loving-god-guest-post/) - “I heard God tell me that just the other day.” A sentence during a seemingly normal conversation pulled me out of my reverie and I stared at the speaker. “Could she have heard from God about something as mundane about her grocery choices? That seems a bit ordinary for God to stoop to let us
- [Our Only Objective Source of Identity](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/05/28/our-only-objective-source-of-identity/) - I’ve tried to define myself a lot of different ways—to nail down who I am, or at least, who I’m supposed to be. But I always came up short. Initially, I tried to prove myself through education. I’ve attended eight different colleges in five different states and have pursued—not completed, mind you, but pursued—nearly as
- [Identity Theft––Combating the Fear of Insignificance: Guest Post](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/06/18/identity-theft-combating-the-fear-of-insignificance-guest-post/) - Can you imagine the confidence and impact we'd have, the "offense" we'd avoid, the ministries we'd launch and opportunities we'd embrace, if we learned to live in who we really are? Who God says we are? And if we fully grew in to all He created us to be? I'm pretty sure we all struggle
- [Blessed Obedience –– Guest Post](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/06/25/blessed-obedience-guest-post/) - If God told us ahead of time, where our steps of obedience would lead, I'm certain we'd surrender to His leading. Well, assuming everything turned out as we hoped. But then, therein lies the problem, right? We know God is good, loving, faithful, and true, and we know He will ultimately work all things out
- [When Our Best Effort Isn't Good Enough –– Guest Post](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/07/23/when-our-best-effort-isnt-good-enough-guest-post/) - What happens when you work towards something, maybe even for decades, try your best, and don't receive the results you hope for? My guest today, Hope Bolinger, shares such a time, and how God used it to bring her to a place of increased freedom. When Our Best Efforts Aren't Good Enough By Hope Bolinger
- [Are We Proclaiming a False Hope](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/07/30/are-we-proclaiming-a-false-hope/) - Our world aches for a soul-reaching peace that transcends all that’s frightening and hard, for unshakable hope, and the promise that life won’t always feel so painful. That good awaits. People long for—need—everything we have in Christ, but I wonder if we convey these truths accurately, fully, and often enough. Or do our words, to
- [Unstuck: Yielding to God's Personal Growth Plan](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/08/13/unstuck-yielding-to-gods-personal-growth-plan/) - What feels most tedious to you? Perhaps repetitious and unnecessary? I may be dating myself here, but whenever I consider God’s training, I’m reminded of the movie the Karate Kid. His coach actively invested in him, not by giving him great feats to overcome but rather training him through monotonous, ordinary tasks—washing and waxing a
- [Revealing What's in Our Hearts This Election Season](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/08/20/revealing-whats-in-our-hearts-this-election-season/) - If you want to know what’s truly in a person’s heart, what they believe and value most, simply scroll through their social media feed. Especially during election season or a global pandemic. This holds true for all of us, myself included. My Facebook engagement reveals where I’m placing my trust. In a political system driven
- [When Life Challenges Our Productivity and Peace](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/08/27/when-life-challenges-our-productivity-and-peace/) - Why is it, the times we most need energy, we tend to feel most fatigued? Or those days, when our increased, perhaps even “urgent” responsibilities necessitate efficiency, all becomes chaotic? Is that ever true for you? Do you ever live in that tension of what you “must do” tempered by what you feel you can?
- [Five Statements Conflict Avoidance Make](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/09/03/five-statements-conflict-avoidance-makes/) - Our response to conflict can either lead to healing and deeper connections or ugliness. I've experienced both. Honestly, I've caused both. I've had times where fear motivated me to remain quiet when I knew God was calling me to speak. I've also blurted way too many statements I came to regret, many times moments after
- [Finding God Amid Our Uncertainty](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/09/17/finding-god-amid-our-uncertainty/) - Imagine having deep, soul-quieting peace, regardless of the circumstance. Imagine being so rooted in Christ and His will, every step on a foggy and unclear path felt certain. Imagine experiencing deep peace even in the middle of great uncertainty. I’m convinced this is where God wants to take us, and He does so, primarily, by
- [Trusting God's Timing](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/09/24/trusting-gods-timing/) - In my rush to "fix things" I have landed in numerous messes. This is especially true when I'm feeling anxious about something. Then every moment feels like an hour and every hour like a day. Have you been there? During Bible study or small group discussion, I can talk quite confidently about how God's timing
- [When Hurts Come––Guard Your Inner Spark](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/10/01/when-hurts-come-guard-your-inner-spark/) - The heart is a fragile yet powerful organ. Nurture and feed it well, and life and health follows. When we neglect it, allow hurts to sink deep and then fester, bitterness begins to invade every crevice, strangling our joy and peace. That’s not to say we should ignore, suppress, or deny our hurts. In fact,
- [Walking Closely With Jesus -- Guest Blogger](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/04/25/walking-closely-with-jesus-guest-blogger/) - Walking Closely with Jesus By Jo Massaro Years ago, I asked a life-changing question, "How could a woman who had an abortion, multiple marriages and a traumatic brain injury, have a relationship with Jesus?” This forced me to face the hurts, habits, and pain hidden away and never dealt with. I wore a smile, but
- [Keeping Our Eyes on the Call and the God Who Calls](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/05/16/keeping-our-eyes-on-the-call-and-the-god-who-calls/) - Sometimes I feel bombarded by a world of takers and, when my eyes land on them instead of my Savior, I begin to feel discouraged. Frustrated. Taken advantage of. I know God calls me to serve Him above all else and to follow His will. In other words, to concern myself with obedience and nothing
- [When Life Hits Hard, Remembering the Journey and the Mission](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/06/27/when-life-hits-hard-remembering-the-journey-and-the-mission/) - About ten years ago, a major upheaval initially leveled me, but then God used it to bring about incredible healing and growth. Ultimately, He shifted my focus off of myself and onto others and His redemptive mission. He showed me He wanted to use me, right then and there, in the middle of our difficult
- [Balance and Our Sure Route to Peace -- Guest Blog](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/06/13/balance-and-our-sure-route-to-peace-guest-blog/) - We weren't meant to live stressed out, depleted lives. We all must manage difficult and demanding responsibilities on occasion, but our seasons of busyness should be precisely that--seasons. If we're constantly rushing about, always checking and rearranging our to-do lists to squeeze one more task or one more minute in our days, and especially if
- [Finding Emotional Health Through Daily Scripture Reading](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/07/19/finding-emotional-health-through-daily-scripture-reading/) - God created us to live in freedom and deep connection with Him and others. Unfortunately, life experiences often hinder our ability to fully experience the abundant, beyond expectation, life Jesus died to give us. Many of us are hurting, struggling with insecurity, and tiptoeing through our days as we attempt to navigate the chaos. Still
- [Are You Trying to Market God?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/03/02/are-you-trying-to-market-god/) - Sharing our faith is tough. We want to be sensitive to our listener, and more than anything, we long to see them experience the deep love of Christ. But so often, our efforts are filtered through a heavy lens of self. This can result in an effort to market God and to love others on
- [When Our Mess Reveals Our Blessings](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/11/02/when-our-mess-reveals-our-blessings/) - Chaos and confusion make me nervous. I like Well-orchestrated plans, and when those plans actually happen. When things appear to come unraveled, I go running for my to-do list, anxious to manage the mess. Unfortunately, life is not always that easily contained or cleaned up. But as my sweet friend Shannon Taylor Vannatter shares, sometimes
- [Empty Handed and Expectant; Full Pockets and an Empty Heart](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/11/09/empty-handed-and-expectant-full-pockets-and-an-empty-heart/) - One came empty handed, expectant, and left blessed. Full. The other came with full hands but a depleted heart, and left empty.
- [Bible Reading--Moving From Obligation and Defeat to Love](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/11/16/bible-reading-moving-from-obligation-and-defeat-to-love-and-joy/) - It's mysterious. Powerful. Intimate. It holds the keys to life in all its fullness. It provides guidance in the most obscure and confusing situations, helps make the most difficult decisions clear, and for many ... is a source of frustration, guilt, and regret. If you identify with the latter, then keep reading. I think you'll
- [Has the Hustle Stolen Your Joy This Christmas?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/11/30/has-the-hustle-stolen-your-joy-this-christmas/) - This is the notoriously most stressful, and for many, most depressing season of the year. The pressure to buy that best gift, to create that perfect evening or morning for our loved ones, the urge to spend, to do, to plan ... Then there's' the sting of unmet expectations or painful memories. In all that
- [Squelching Our Inner Martha This Christmas](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/12/07/squelching-our-inner-martha-this-christmas/) - Messages encouraging us to slow down this Christmas abound, but without a game plan and the courage to follow through, those inspiring posts and articles lead to little more than guilt. We know we need to focus on what's truly important and most fills our heart and soul ... but how? It's one thing to
- [How Miss Perfect Stole Christmas](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/12/14/how-miss-perfect-stole-christmas/) - There's only one way to introduce today's guest and her post ... Y'all, meet my sweet, hilarious, much-too-talented friend Tara Johnson: And now, read her (real life) tale of how Miss Perfect Stole Christmas. by Tara Johnson I’m a beautiful mess this time of year. And I’ve learned that’s okay. For years I lost precious
- [God Revealed Through The Gift](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/12/21/god-revealed-through-the-gift/) - Wrapped within the tinsel, lights, and candies of Christmas, there's a thread of anticipation as, daily, children eye the presents tucked beneath the tree, daydreaming about what might be hid inside. They shake the boxes, test their weight, analyze their shape, hoping that special toy or gadget lies inside. Ever since paradise was shattered, mankind
- [For the Joy That's Coming](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/12/28/for-the-joy-thats-coming/) - I’m not a fan of long car rides filled with squished and soggy sandwiches that fell to the bottom of our cooler. I never enjoyed listening to our daughter ask, a thousand times: “Are we there yet?” And I don’t like traffic or long stretches of highway with no rest areas in sight. And yet,
- [Dealing With Grief](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/01/18/dealing-with-grief/) - Grief has no timetable and doesn't follow a predictable journey. It can hit unexpectedly, years, decades, after a tragic loss and can come in waves that leave the mourner incapacitated. Birthdays, holidays, anniversaries, and other shared moments that once initiated joy can bring one to tears once their loved one has left. Because the sorrow
- [The Fruit of an Obedient Heart--How God Makes Much of Our Little](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/02/08/the-fruit-of-an-obedient-heart-how-god-makes-much-of-our-little/) - I felt ill-equipped and insufficient. Actually, I wasn’t supposed to be there at all. I planned to pop in, make sure all the volunteers had arrived and were good to go, then head off to another project I’d set up for the weekend. But God had other plans, and it started—and perhaps ended—with my lack.
- [Being a Friend Who Stays](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/02/15/being-a-friend-who-stays/) - Relationships are hard, messy, and at times, utterly frustrating. But they are also necessary. But as my guest, Nike Chillemi shares, we all need friends who will stay. Our friends that need that from us. Being a Friend Who Stays by Nike Chillemi To live of life filled with happiness, women must find and keep
- [What God Does in Our Waiting](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/02/22/what-god-does-in-our-waiting/) - Waiting on God--for an answer, guidance, or perhaps fulfillment of a dream or promise--can be frustrating and unsettling. It can test our faith and our perseverance. But as my guest today shares, it's often in the waiting that God does some of His most beautiful, necessary, and delicate work. What God Does in Our Waiting
- [Erecting Altars to Bolster Our Obedience](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/03/01/erecting-altars-to-bolster-our-obedience/) - My life has been punctuated by a series of, “Are you serious, God?” moments—times when I want to pretend I didn’t hear Him, when I’m convinced He couldn’t possibly have uttered the command I’ve sensed. And there have been times, way too many, when I’ve been tempted to cloak a disobedient heart in excuses and
- [Heart Gunk -- Making a Clean Break](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/03/15/heart-gunk-making-a-clean-break/) - Though my house has never reached hoarding capacity, there've been times my heart has. Sadly, I've been known to harbor offenses when God calls me to forgive, to rehash old hurts when God beckons me to heal, and to nurse all those ugly heart-cluttering sins like pride and selfishness when the Spirit works to purge
- [Revealing a Faith That Stands](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/03/22/revealing-a-faith-that-stands/) - Moms, what you do each day matters. How you live your faith, it matters. When you pray, turn to praise music, or simply power through—it matters. They say children learn more about faith from watching us than they do from anything we might tell them. And though I think that’s probably true, I hope it’s
- [When God Says Give Up](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/03/29/when-god-says-give-up/) - I've tried running my life, and it landed me in a mess. The more I fight for control, the more that which I'm fighting for begins to control me. But surrender ... My guest today, novelist and pastor Nathan D. Maki, shares how God called him to give up something he held dear, and what
- [Creeping, Pestering Sins](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/04/12/creeping-pestering-sins/) - Some sins are blatant and appalled by all, but others seem to be much more tolerated, perhaps even welcomed. Until we see the destruction they cause. Unchecked, these sorts of pests tend to multiply as one white lie bleeds into another, one casually spoken gossip expands to a story, and that pride that, initially, went
- [Choosing to Focus on Our True Beauty](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/04/19/choosing-to-focus-on-our-true-beauty/) - Social awkwardness finds me. In fact, the more I try to avoid it, the more inevitable it is to come. I’m the girl who packs my daughter’s shoes instead of mine to a weekend writer’s conference, only to discover they’re about half a size too big—enough to cause them to slip, very unglamorously, with every
- [Drawing Near to God](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/04/26/deepening-our-relationship-with-christ/) - Relationships take work. The more effort and time we put in, the greater our emotional intimacy with our friend, spouse, and ... God. Many of us know this, and yet, if you're like me, you allow so many lesser things to crowd God out. I know intellectually, when I'm busiest, I need Christ most, and
- [Those Hidden, Seemingly Innocuous Sins](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/05/03/those-hidden-seemingly-innocuous-sins/) - When do you find it most difficult to live with integrity? And where's the line? Do you view some behaviors, like "borrowing" a hand towel from the hotel room or perhaps snatching a few boxes of staples from work, as being harmless? What if the drive through cashier accidentally gave you $10 extra change? Would
- [Avoiding in Your Face Evangelism](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/05/10/avoiding-in-your-face-evangelism/) - We're often called weird, intolerant, and out of touch. We long to share words of life with others, to point them to the only source of hope, but our fear of rejection or backlash can hold us back. Stepping out with courage and intentionality can be extra hard for the shy introverts. But though it
- [For the Joy That's Coming](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/05/17/for-the-joy-thats-coming-2/) - I’m not a fan of long car rides filled with squished and soggy sandwiches that fell to the bottom of our cooler. I never enjoyed listening to our daughter ask, a thousand times: “Are we there yet?” And I don’t like traffic or long stretches of highway with no rest areas in sight. And yet,
- [Using Truth to Expel Fear](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/05/24/using-truth-to-expel-fear/) - We don't have to live enslaved to fearful thinking. God's given us everything we need to trust in Him and walk in faith. According to Romans 12:2, we can renew our mind, and Phil. 4:8 tells us how.
- [How an OCD Christian Grabs Hold of Peace](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/05/31/how-an-ocd-christian-grabs-hold-of-peace/) - My obsessive, OCD mind tends to latch on to the frightening, the hard, the disappointing. The offensive or unkind. And the more I fuel negative thinking, the more miserable, anxious, and insecure I become. How can I have the peace of God if I’m constantly stressing over what ifs or rehashing old hurts? The night
- [The Power of a Life Lived Well](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/06/07/the-power-of-a-life-lived-well/) - When all the violence, uncertainty, and hatred in the world bombards me, I have to remind myself I’m much more than a hopeless bystander. I possess great power—the power to impact lives, perhaps even entire communities, for good. Do you remember the Saved by the Bell Days? When cartoons weren’t filled with sexual innuendo? When
- [Moving From Rejected to Deeply Loved](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/06/22/moving-from-rejected-to-deeply-loved/) - Her greatest strength, the one that had enabled her to overcome incredible challenges, was not only being called into question but was condemned. It was our daughter’s first real job, her first time out of state, on her own. Really, her first steps into the world of adulthood. But a critical roommate turned what God
- [For Those Struggling This Father's Day--Finding Then Living as a Godly Example](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/06/14/for-those-struggling-this-fathers-day-finding-then-living-as-a-godly-example/) - Our family's brief venture into fostering resulted in colossal failure. Daily, we felt ill-equipped and overwhelmed. We'd gone into the endeavor with such hopes. We'd reveal Christ, bring healing, and ultimately point every kiddo that came into our home to eternal life. We didn't do any of that, at least, not nearly as consistently as
- [The Dangers of Pain Avoidance](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/06/28/the-dangers-of-pain-avoidance/) - Pain avoidance can lead to devastating, enslaving, and life-squelching results. No one enjoys pain, whether physical, mental, or spiritual. In fact, most of us will go to great lengths to preserve our comfort level—many times, unfortunately, to our own harm. Admittedly, I’m likely more pain adverse than most. My husband and I became engaged in
- [Grace For When Our Speech is Less Than Gracious](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/07/05/grace-for-when-our-speech-is-less-than-gracious/) - I've said things I've quickly regretted many times. The less time I spend in God's presence, resting in His grace, the higher the likelihood ungracious words will come out of my mouth. But living daily, deeply, in God's grace, as my guest today reveals, changes everything. Grace For When Our Speech is Less Than Gracious
- [Courageous Impact](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/07/12/courageous-impact/) - Throughout Scripture, and often before miraculous events, God issued the command: Do not be afraid. Each day, He calls us to live on mission and empowers us to do so, but we tend to be a fearful bunch, and sometimes we can feel as if we're caught in the middle of a tumultuous river with
- [If Our Life is Our Worship, How Beautifully Tuned is the Music it Plays?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/07/19/if-our-life-is-our-worship-how-beautifully-tuned-is-the-music-it-plays/) - Most of us can sing "loud and proud" as my husband would call it, during worship service, but if, according to Romans 12:1, our life--how we live and love--reveals presents our true and most meaningful worship to Jesus, and, I'd add, a proclamation hymn to a watching world, than how beautifully tuned is the music
- [Sharing God's Love in the Face of Fear](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/08/09/sharing-gods-love-in-the-face-of-fear/) - Fear is a destructive, enslaving emotion that, when fed, pushes us farther from the life God desires for us. The more we give in to it, the uglier and more selfish our behavior becomes until we bear little resemblance to our generous and loving Savior Jesus Christ. We all remember the Great Recession of 2008
- [Our Need For a "Tribe"](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/08/16/our-need-for-a-tribe/) - If you read my recent article on Crosswalk, you know almost half of Americans struggle with deep loneliness. We long for connection. We were created to live interdependently. But in our busy, selfie-taking, and increasingly disconnected culture, it can be crazy-hard to find and cultivate healthy, thriving relationships. My guest today discusses this universal need,
- [When Life Feels Stressful--Playtime With God](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/08/23/when-life-feels-stressful-playtime-with-god/) - Do you constantly feel pressed for time? How easy is it for you to relax? When you lie down at night, does the next day's to-do list run through your mind? My guest today, Edie Melson, author of Soul Care, is perhaps the most productive and efficient woman I know. She writes, directs conferences, speaks
- [Pursuing Intentional Growth](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/09/06/pursuing-intentional-growth/) - Unless we fight against it, entropy will get us every time. Inactivity, laziness, choosing what's convenient over what's beneficial ... Those habits may satisfy in the moment, but ultimately leave us weak and, potentially, diseased. My guest today shares how a 22-day challenge motivated her to change and what God showed her through that. But
- [Learning to Move Past Shame](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/09/14/learning-to-move-past-shame/) - God doesn't want us to live in shame. He died to free us from sin and it's pervasive effects like self-defeat, self-loathing, and guilt. If we've trusted in Jesus for salvation, our past, regardless how sinful, no longer defines us. He does! The old is gone, dead and buried and the new has come. This
- [Discovering Who God Created Us to Be](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/11/01/discovering-who-god-created-us-to-be/) - Our purpose, infused into our hearts before we took our first breath, is universal and will never change--to know God and make Him known. How we express that purpose, however, is unique to all of us. We'll never truly feel fulfilled until we discover and live out who Christ created us to be. My guest
- [The Debilitating Fear of Failure](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/10/11/the-debilitating-fear-of-failure/) - Fear of failure can paralyze the most gifted writers, singers, artists ... (insert any other field) perhaps more than anything else. Here's the ironic part--it is this fear, not any failure we may experience, more than anything else that gets in our way. One of these days, I really want to unpack this common and
- [Where or in Whom Are You Placing Your Trust](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/10/18/where-or-in-whom-are-you-placing-your-trust/) - Trust comes hardest when we feel our lives or livelihood is threatened. I like to think I’m a risk taker, that I’d willingly go wherever and whenever God leads, but sometimes I struggle simply sharing my faith with a neighbor or friend or speaking truth when others oppose it. Needless to say, if I’d been
- [When Love Involves Risk](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/10/25/when-love-involves-risk/) - Relationships can be messy and confusing. We long to build bridges, to point others to Jesus, and really, to love others well. But sometimes it can feel crazy hard to live that out. If only Scripture provided a clear road map: When they say X, respond with Y. I felt the tension between grace and
- [The Power of Living, Daily, in Grace](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/11/08/the-power-of-living-daily-in-grace/) - Sometimes I want to tack sticky notes to my forehead declaring: I acted like a jerk today. Or, I chose fear instead of faith, or selfishness when God called me to give. Not because I enjoy self-degradation but because I encounter too many Christians who continue to live in guilt and shame. They praise God
- [When Life Hurts, You're Not Alone](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/11/15/when-life-hurts-youre-not-alone/) - There is no pain quite as deep and dark as that which is experienced in isolation. You may know this first hand. Hopefully, you've also experienced the converse--the strength and encouragement of having someone to lean on when it felt as if your legs might soon give way. As my guest, Julie Holmquist shares today,
- [Giving Thanks](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/11/22/giving-thanks/) - I'm thankful for grace. I don't have to strive or stress or try to be enough--because Christ is enough in me. I'm thankful God's sovereign. No matter how crazy the world seems, He's still in control. He still has a plan--a good and hope-filled plan, and He's working everything out according to His perfect wisdom.
- [A Clear Measure of Our Trust](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/11/29/a-clear-measure-of-our-trust/) - My trust is most revealed in how readily I respond to God’s guidance. I’m quick to talk about His power, love, and sovereignty. But too often, my daily actions demonstrate my heart hasn’t truly owned those biblical truths. When I hesitate to respond to God’s prompting or flat-out disobey, I reveal a deep layer of
- [When God Uses Christmas to Point us to Something Bigger](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/12/06/when-god-uses-christmas-to-point-us-to-something-bigger/) - 2002 started as a guilt-ridden Christmas but resulted in one our family will always cherish. A month before the holidays, we feared our daughter would suffer the consequences of our bad choices. After years of careless spending, we’d depleted our savings and maxed out our credit cards. We knew we needed to make drastic changes
- [When Our Soul Feels Its Worth](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/12/13/when-our-soul-feels-its-worth/) - And the Soul Felt Its Worth By Hallee Bridgeman The Christmas season has gotten so loud! Starting sometime in mid-August, the Christmas decorations in stores start coming out. The closer to Thanksgiving we get, the noisier it gets. Sales! Music! Lights! Everywhere you can turn, there is some reminder of the winter holiday filled with
- [Christmas dysfunction—or growth and peace. Your Choice](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/12/20/christmas-dysfunction-or-growth-and-peace-your-choice/) - If my Christmas feels out of control and produces more anxiety than joy and peace, I’m probably to blame. Nine times out of ten, when I honestly evaluate those things that cause me the greatest stress and anxiety, it’s my fault. I’ve failed to establish and maintain clear boundaries, have given other people’s behavior and
- [Making Room for the New Stuff God Has in Store](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2018/12/27/making-room-for-gods-best/) - Do you feel as if you're continually fighting against negative behavior patterns and attitudes? As we approach a new year, and thus a chance for each of us to begin afresh, my guest today, author and speaker Donna Jones, suggests some ways we can make room for the good God desires to display in our
- [Growing in Grace](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/01/03/growing-in-grace/) - Imagine the peace and growth we'd experience if we truly learned to live in grace. If, instead of wallowing in self-condemnation, we moved forward in the hopeful anticipation birthed in intentional growth. Imagine if we viewed every failure, setback, and step forward through God's eyes. Growing in grace By Matthew Romano “And we all, with
- [Fun News!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/01/10/fun-news/) - You know that feeling when something you've worked long and hard for finally begins to come together? Or what about when, after you've invested hours upon hours into something, you catch glimpses of how God might use it? That's been my week, and now I get to share the fun with you. First, for those
- [What Your Heart Needs For Today](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/01/24/what-your-heart-needs-for-today/) - It's easy to neglect but imperative to guard. Each day, we're either caring for or starving our hearts, and the results of each necessarily follow. As my guest Mirachelle Canada shares below, when we put first things first and allow Christ to nourish our deepest depths, life follows. Abundant, filled to overflowing life. What
- [How Jesus Responds to Our Doubts](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/02/07/how-jesus-responds-to-our-doubts/) - What happens when God doesn’t intervene? When circumstances grow worse, doors close, and illness lingers? Is He still good? Does He still love us? Intellectually, we know sometimes bad things happen to good people, but sitting in the middle of chaos and catastrophe, doubts take hold. A couple years ago, while on her first college
- [When Life Hits Hard--Where Joy is Found](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/02/14/when-life-hits-hard-where-joy-is-found/) - Some of my darkest periods have occurred when I’ve appeared to have every reason for joy. And I’ve experienced deep joy during difficult and painful situations. About ten years ago, after a series of moves and job shifts, our family landed in a small town northeast of Kansas City, MO. I homeschooled at the time,
- [When Others Hurt Us](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/02/21/when-others-hurt-us/) - My friend’s comments and attitude stunned me and left me clamoring for a reply. At first, I had none. An evening excursion I’d anticipated with joy, that I’d set aside time for, paid money for, was quickly turning to regret. The words tumbling out of my friend’s mouth weren’t only hurtful, they were unjustified. It
- [Healing in the Hands of the God Who Sees](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/02/28/healing-in-the-hands-of-the-god-who-sees/) - I spent most of my adult life hiding while presenting an image to others of the person I wanted them to see. The woman I hoped to be but quite frankly, didn’t see myself as. If asked, I would’ve readily admitted I had an unhealthy fear of rejection. I knew I overemphasized other’s opinions, but
- [When Ministries Die](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/03/07/when-ministries-die/) - Imagine forsaking your way of life to answer a call, pouring your life into following God, however He leads, only to learn, at the end of a long, difficult journey, your efforts will eventually come to naught. Those people you prayed for will turn away from God. Those relationships you fought for will fall apart
- [Faith -- A Clear Sign to Hold Tight To](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/03/14/faith-a-clear-sign-to-hold-tight-to/) - Church had become a painful place for our daughter. She loved Jesus and wanted to grow closer to Him, but she’d experienced deep hurt from His people. Hurts that initiated inner lies like, “I’m not good enough. This faith thing isn’t working for me. God must not be pleased with me.” Every time she entered
- [When We Questions God's Leading](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/03/28/when-we-questions-gods-leading/) - When life becomes hard, the road ahead uncertain or steep, it's tempting to pull back and begin searching for an easy, perhaps "guaranteed" route. But no matter where our steps lead, our heart will be most fulfilled when they are aligned with those of our Savior. He truly does have our best in mind, always,
- [Rising Above the Negativity to Sludge to Live in the "Heavenlies"](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/04/04/rising-above-the-negativity-to-sludge-to-live-in-the-heavenlies/) - Scripture tells me I’ve been “seated in the heanvenlies” but I often allow myself to get caught up in the sludge of negativity. Of anxiety and uncertainty. Of pride and selfishness. I can become so consumed with all the chaos and noise around me, I forget I was redeemed to rise above. When this happens,
- [Unclogging Our Spiritual Heart Valves](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/04/18/unclogging-our-spiritual-heart-valves/) - For years, I chose misery over life. I tended to magnify the negative and completely overlook the good. Not only did this strangle the joy, peace, and vitality from me, birthing in their place bitterness and agitation. It also routinely distanced me from Christ. I often felt disconnected from Him, confused regarding His guidance, anxious
- [Life Change on the Other Side of a Storm -- Guest Post](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/05/02/life-change-on-the-other-side-of-a-storm-guest-post/) - No one enjoys hard lessons, and yet, they seem to be my most certain routes to growth. In fact, my greatest healing, steps toward freedom, and perspective shifts have occurred during my most challenging and uncertain periods. I suspect most of us could say the same. When the false securities we cling to turn shaky,
- [You Get to See it First--Cover Reveal!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/05/03/you-get-to-see-it-first-cover-reveal/) - Hello, lovely blog subscribers. Some of you have been with me for over ten years now, long before I received my first book contract. Some of you (SandyT, waving!) have prayed with and for me as I've sought to follow God's lead on this crazy, fun, hard, and sometimes confusing journey. So, it only seemed
- [Building Redemptive Relationships](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/05/09/building-redemptive-relationships/) - I’m forty-four and I’m still learning how to create and maintain healthy relationships, really to be an instrument of love and grace. In this, God recently sparked a major mind-shift, one that arose smack in the middle of tension, confusion, and heartache. But resulted in incredible hope and peace. I’ve learned and grown the most
- [Update on Keep Your Eyes on the Call Post](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/05/16/update-on-keep-your-eyes-on-the-call-post/) - Hey, y'all, Sorry for the double post this morning, but I updated the previous (find it HERE) to include a Bible reading plan and didn't want those of you who receive my posts in your inbox to miss it (as I don't believe you receive posts a second time when they're revised). As I almost
- [The Kingdom of Me and the Joy of Christ](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/06/06/the-kingdom-of-me-and-the-joy-of-christ/) - Often, it’s the good things, the “God things” that most keep me from Him. It’s sad how easily my heart becomes swayed. One would think I’d learned by now, that I’ve become adept at putting effective guardrails in place and being extra diligent to guard my heart. But so often, busyness and pride and selfishness
- [Everyone and Every Role Has Eternal Significance](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/06/20/everyone-and-every-role-has-eternal-significance/) - There are no inconsequential roles or people. We all have the capacity to create a lasting, Christ-centered legacy. To be used by God to change lives and communities. When our daughter was young, I often felt insignificant. I stayed home, spent most of my time changing diapers, wiping snotty noses, cleaning spilled and splattered food
- [Reaching Out When Rejection is Certain](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/07/04/reaching-out-when-rejection-is-certain/) - Have you ever sensed God asking to reach out to someone, to initiate reconciliation, knowing with near certainty they'd reject your attempts? About a week ago, this happen to my husband, and watching, I felt as if my heart were shredding. I had just finished reading about the sharp disagreement between Paul and Barnabas, revealed
- [When God Opens Your Eyes and Touches Your Heart -- Guest Post](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/07/11/when-god-opens-your-eyes-and-touches-your-heart-guest-post/) - The longer we've been a Christian, the more apt we are to forget just how desperately we need grace. We can lose sight of the moment we first received salvation and who we were prior. When this happens, it's easy for an inner Pharisee to rise up. But as Delia Latham, my guest today shares,
- [How Prayer Quiet and Calms Us](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2019/07/18/how-prayer-quiet-and-calms-us/) - If God is sovereign, why pray? If He already knows precisely how everything in all the world, my life included, will play out, what’s the purpose in laying my requests before Him? Why not simply bow my head, say, “Thy will be done,” and move on to more productive matters like serving in soup kitchens,
- [](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/01/14/wordsmatter/) - Never under estimate the power of even the smallest acts of grace. A smile given to a lonely old woman, a five minute conversation with the cashier at the pharmacy, an unexpected compliment to your spouse. Many of you are probably familiar with TobyMac's song, "Speak Life." You can listen to it here: Today's guest,
- [4 Relationships God Wants Us to Cultivate: Part One](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/03/10/4-relationships-god-wants-us-to-cultivate-part-one/) - Relationships are hard work. I don't know about you, but there are times when I get so tired, all I want to do is squirrel away by myself and ignore what should be done. However, relationships can't be ignored or neglected. And shouldn't be. Today--and tomorrow, a treat!--Tanya Eavenson talks about the four relationships we
- [Loving Fiercely](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/03/31/loving-fiercely/) - Their love is fierce, in the passionate moments and in the conflict, and though I know they'd rather skip the fighting all together, they've learned how to hold on. Tight. Love isn't always flowers, date nights, and long, intimate conversations. Even the best of marriages have teeth-gritting, foot-stomping moments. Those moments can absolutely shatter your
- [Pulling Back the Veil on Christian Love](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/07/07/pulling-back-the-veil-on-christian-love/) - Scroll through social media long enough, and chances are you'll read a few (or more) negative posts regarding Christians and Christianity. Some say we're intolerant, others that we're hateful, close-minded, or out of touch, or whatever. Find a negative adjective, and I'm pretty sure you can find a statement connecting it to Christ-followers. Granted, there
- [Trusting God With Our Children Part II](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/02/09/trusting-god-with-our-children-part-ii/) - When did our children's behavior become an extension of ourselves? Or am I the only one who seems to have a difficult time recognizing that my child is autonomous, able to make her own decisions and mistakes? When I speak to parents, especially those raising prodigals, I encourage them to analyze the parable Jesus told of
- [Waiting Well](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/02/16/waiting-well/) - We all have struggles. Challenges we must face, uncertainties we must embrace. And sometimes, in the pressing forward and the waiting, it can feel as if God isn't listening. And in the silence, we may be tempted to think He doesn't care. But as my guest shares in the following post, He does, and He's
- [Safety Net](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/02/23/safety-net/) - Life is a lesson in trust. In choosing to fix our thoughts on God's promises or obsess over our fears, concerns, and anxieties. We may feel as if we're free falling, but as you'll see when you read my friend, Toni Shiloh's post, we never are. We've got a strong, sure, unmoving safety net. So
- [What's Your Motivation?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/03/16/whats-your-motivation/) - It's a word we use often, a phrase I myself have uttered countless times. It's occupied songs and prayers for generations, but do we truly understand what it means to "confess Jesus as Lord" (Romans 10:9)? More importantly, do we live that out? Today, Alexis uses one of my loves--storyworld--to show us how to live under
- [](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/04/13/8862/) - Why is it, the moment we start to pray, our mind jumps to a thousand other things? Why does an hour in church service launch launch thoughts of our to-do list? These questions arose as I read my guest blogger's post this morning. Fellow ACFW writer Sue Barr shares a comical yet thought-provoking analogy below, from a writer's
- [Lying and Integrity--What We Say Matters](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/05/11/lying-and-integrity-what-we-say-matters/) - Our culture says certain lies are okay, that motive rather than content matters, and, well, everyone fibs once in a while. But God doesn't take our words quite as lightly because truly, what we say matters. As believers, we're telling some pretty outlandish stories. We know this Guy who died then rose again. This same
- [When His People Pray--Watching God's Faithfulness Unfold](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/05/18/when-his-people-pray-watching-gods-faithfulness-unfold/) - Perhaps, like me, you've wrestled with thoughts like, "If God's sovereign, why pray?" Or maybe you've been frustrated when your prayers don't get answered like you've hoped. When I first got sick, my prayer life suffered. I couldn't understand why a loving, faithful, all-powerful God would choose not to heal me. For maybe a year,
- [When--and How--God Guides](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/05/25/when-and-how-god-guides/) - It's a question that dominates the thoughts of believers worldwide: How can we know if this thing, this opportunity, this action or whatever, is God's will? How can we discern His voice among all the other "voices" bombarding us each day? I believe learning to discern God's voice is a process that comes from drawing close
- [Growing in Love--a 1 Timothy Bible study](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/06/08/growing-in-love-a-first-timothy-study/) - Follow the fruit--I read that statement during a time when my life seemed to contradict it. Or at least, when my circumstances left me confused and uncertain. I knew God was up to something, I could sense it deep within, but I hadn't a clue what that was. Lots of opportunities seemed to come my way, and
- [When We Say No--Missing Out](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/06/01/when-we-say-no-missing-out/) - It's weighed heavy on my mind and heart for over fifteen years now--the day I said no. I was working out, minding my own business, in a crowded (and slightly smelly) Southern California gym. I went often, most every afternoon, as did a middle aged, disabled gentlemen. I don't know his story, I didn't even
- [The Birth of a Story](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/06/15/the-birth-of-a-story/) - I sure spend a lot of time clinging to my safety nets, for one who talks so often about living God's great adventure. Although, I do eventually drop them, and take that next step, and then the next, though my hands might be clammy and my legs may quiver every step of the way. This
- [Counting Down to Our Study](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/06/29/counting-down-to-our-study/) - So soon to launch day! July 11th! I'm excited! I learn so much dialoguing with other women! Not to mention, I cherish the relationships I develop when I "sit" (online or in person) and study God's Word, the Bible. There's something unifying, something incredibly nourishing and fulfilling, some peace-ensuing, about soaking in God's timeless truths.
- [Choosing What Ball to Drop](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/07/06/choosing-what-ball-to-drop/) - I drop a lot of balls. I'm fairly certain I routinely disappoint a lot of people. I'm late responding to text messages, my house is rarely clean, and there are times when I go to cook dinner and find the fridge empty. Each day, there are things I choose to ignore, and other things that
- [The Love That Destroys -- a 1 Timothy Study](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/07/13/the-love-that-destroys-a-1-timothy-study/) - It brings out the ugly in me. It makes me fight to be right, to elevate myself, and seek temporary fillers like accolades and admiration that feed my pride but fail to feed my soul. This thing lurking within my heart causes me to avoid difficult conversations and engage in those I shouldn’t. But worst
- [God's Grace Revealed in Us](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/07/20/gods-grace-revealed-in-us/) - My hands were shaky, my stomach queasy. I’d been to the bathroom five times in maybe twice as many minutes as my jumble of nerves worked against my courage to obey. Having given my word, committed to this thing, I knew I couldn’t back out. Though the thought had crossed my mind over a dozen
- [For Those It's Hard to Pray for](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/07/27/for-those-its-hard-to-pray-for/) - When life gets crazy and hard, when I’m afraid and feel threatened, and especially when I sense those I love might be hurting or in danger, I become diligent—fervent!—in prayer. I beg God to intervene and rescue me or those I care about. The last thing I want to do is pray for the offender.
- [The Danger of Words](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/08/10/the-danger-of-words/) - It’s interesting how vehemently the Christian community come against some sins while others are tolerated. Almost expected. Entertained even. When we lived in Southern California, our church went through an ugly split. I wasn’t sure why, but I knew people were hurt. I could hear it in our pastor’s voice, when he spoke to the
- [Why Spiritual Training is Necessary](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/08/17/why-spiritual-training-is-necessary/) - You know those people who absolutely love running? Who can’t wait to lace up their shoes, hit the pavement, and usher forth that endorphin-saturated runner’s high? That’s not me. I’m more of the cringe inwardly and outwardly type of gals who fights an internal battle every time I go for a jog. In fact, there
- [Living as an Example](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/08/24/living-as-an-example/) - Perhaps it’s because I’m a child of the seventies (or a product of the 21st century), but I can be incredibly stubborn. I tend to think I’ve got all the answers, and when I don’t, I’d much prefer to figure them out myself. Though I’ve gotten better with age, when my husband and I were
- [The Importance of Knowing and Teaching Truth](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/08/31/the-importance-of-knowing-and-teaching-truth/) - It’s the one area I was most concerned about. I knew I’d make countless mistakes as a mom, but this was something I needed to excel in! Though numerous other things my husband and I sought to teach our daughter were important, this was the only one with eternal implications. I knew, regardless of how
- [The Blessings That Come With Obedience](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/09/28/the-blessings-that-come-from-obedience/) - Sometimes obedience comes easily, other times it can take every ounce of strength and courage to push forward and step out. But when we surrender to Christ and allow Him to love others through us ... Today my guest Clarice James, author of Party of One and Double Header, shares how God used her obedience
- [The Faithfulness of God in the Middle of Our Uncertainty](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/10/05/the-faithfulness-of-god-in-the-middle-of-our-uncertainty/) - I know fear. I know uncertainty. I know the desire to cling to and remain in my comfort zone, and I've seen what happens when I follow God and step out, whether that means walking across the street to engage with a neighbor, joining a ministry, maybe galavanting across the nation--as I happen to be
- [Acceptable to the One Who Matters Most](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/10/12/acceptable-to-the-one-who-matters-most/) - In our appearance-and-achievement focused world, it's easy to feel less than. Insufficient. Unvalued. Unimportant. For moms, there's often the added pressure to raise impeccable, pleasant, and well-behaved high achievers. Scratch that; that's no longer good enough. Today's children must be over-achievers (and as a result, over-stressed!), those who can juggle five hundred activities while learning
- [Living With Wisdom](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/02/living-with-wisdom/) - Today's reading: Proverbs 2 Today's focus: Seeking Wisdom From God's Word Wisdom is more than accumulating a headful of knowledge. Wisdom is living wisely, or, in essence, living out God's Word--reading it, praying on how God wants us to apply it, then living it out. This week's memory verse: (I must apologize. Yesterday, early in the
- [Cherishing What Matters](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/11/25/cherishing-what-matters/) - Sometimes I approach Thanksgiving with a bit of a hum-bug spirit, thinking of all the to-dos and obligations. Other times, like this year, I toss those to-dos and self-imposed expectations aside to simply be. To enjoy time with family, the colors of fall, the smell of roasting turkey. This year feels especially significant as it's
- [Unpack Your Talents](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/12/03/unpack-your-talents/) - “To not use a talent to the best of your ability is to stifle the thing that makes you most special. It is like plucking the wings off a butterfly.” ~Fennel Hudson, A Writer's Year -- Fennel's Journal, No. 3 I met Vanessa Fortenberry at last year's Catch the Wave Christian Writers Conference in Atlanta.
- [When Faith Grows Strongest](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/12/05/when-faith-grows-strongest/) - Those who know me well are familiar with my slight obsession with music. If a song touches or tugs on my heart, I'll listen to it over, and over, and over. It's interesting, in a round-about way, that through a certain song that's landed on my replay list and Scripture verses read each morning, God
- [](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/12/10/christmas-beneath-the-tinsel/) - I'm becoming increasingly aware of how difficult the holidays can be for so very many of you. Some of you have lost loved ones, others feel disconnected from those they long most to connect with, and still others are completely overwhelmed by everything the holidays bring. Life is hard, and the hard doesn't go away
- [Your Superhero Powers](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/12/17/your-superhero-powers/) - "Keeping our spirit in tune with the Father’s heartbeat trains our eyes to see things we’d normally miss." ~ Maria Morgan Such a beautiful, necessary, and truth-filled statement. I shared the song last week, and due to copyright laws can't really share the lines I love here, without sharing the song again. But the first
- [A Nostalgic Christmas](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/12/23/a-nostalgic-christmas/) - First, to all my lovely and faithful readers: Merry Christmas! Some of you have been with me since way back in 2009, long before I signed my first book contract. Thanks for standing beside and behind me! I'm soaking up every drop of your support. :) And I'm so very thankful for you! I hope
- [Focusing on What Lies Before You](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/12/31/focusing-on-what-lies-before-you/) - The older we get, the less time we seem to have and the faster moments appear to zip by. It's intriguing to me how easy it is to waste time without realizing it. And even when utilizing every moment, it's easy to spend our time on things that aren't assigned to us. With the New Year approaching,
- [Living as a Gift](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/01/07/living-as-a-gift/) - How many challenges and setbacks can an individual encounter before he decides to give up? I hate to admit it, but if I’d experienced even half of what Dr. Ohaju, director of St. Joseph’s trauma center endured, I fear I may have retreated. Thrown my hands up in defeat and turned down an easier path. I
- [Discount Alert](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/02/02/discount-alert/) - How's that for a blog post title? Not my usual, nor is this my normal day to post, but I never know how long an Amazon deal will last, so... For a limited time, Amazon has marked down the kindle version of Intertwined to under $3! If you haven't bought a copy yet, or if
- [Get Satisfied](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/02/18/get-satisfied/) - "But godliness with contentment is great gain" (1 Tim. 6:6 NIV). And discontentment? That will make you plain miserable. When I encounter the same theme again and again, I start to take notice, because chances are, God's trying to teach me something. If we're connected on Facebook, you likely saw my Internet Cafe post yesterday
- [Learning to Follow](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/02/25/learning-to-follow/) - Strength is great, until it turns to pride. Determination is great, until it becomes stubbornness. How was it my most admirable traits quickly worked against me? Against us? I was a young bride. Naive, incredibly self-centered, and at times, self-righteous. And insecure. And, as a new mom, utterly terrified. Maybe that's where our marital problems
- [Because You Both Can't Lead](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/03/03/because-you-both-cant-lead/) - It's the word that makes nearly every woman cringe, grit her teeth, stomp her foot and clench her fists. Probably because someone they've encountered has used this word to oppress and dominate, which is so far from God's intention. But isn't that just like Satan to twist something God meant for good into something burdensome and repulsive?
- [4 Relationships God Wants Us to Cultivate: Part Two](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/03/11/4-relationships-god-wants-us-to-cultivate-part-two/) - As I mentioned yesterday, relationships are hard. Tanya wrote about two relationships God wanted us to cultivate--our relationship with Him, and our relationship with our spouse--and how we can do that. But there are two more relationships we must nurture: our relationship with...well, read on to see what Tanya says. 4 Relationships God Wants Us to Cultivate: Part
- [Wayward Teens--Their Parents Left First](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/03/14/wayward-teens-their-parents-left-first/) - This isn't a relational law, and obviously, exceptions always abound, but from my observations, when one takes a big picture look at the life of a wayward teen, they'll discover, more often than not, the parents left first. I don't mean they bailed or cut off all ties, but emotionally and in terms of accessibility, parents began
- [What Submission Looks Like in Modern Marriage](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/03/17/what-submission-looks-like-in-modern-marriage/) - I'm a strong-willed, bull-headed, opinionated, outspoken modern woman married to a man who continually challenges me to pursue my dreams and make an eternal impact. And yet, I take Ephesians 5:22-23 literally, which says, "For wives, this means submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ
- [Team-Mentality Parenting](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/03/28/team-mentality-parenting/) - Does your child know you're on her side? That every time you ground them, take away their iPad, and ask them to clean their room, you truly do have their best in mind? Or have they begun to see you as the enemy? When our daughter was young, I felt like I was in constant correction
- [Forgive, Laugh, Pray](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/04/07/forgive-laugh-pray/) - It's incredibly painful to live with a stranger you once called your best friend. It's the kind of feeling that causes your heart to literally ache and your gut to knot. I remember, and may I never forget. Those of you who've been following my blog for any length of time know it's only by
- [Leaving a Legacy by Understanding What Really Matters](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/04/11/leaving-a-legacy-by-understanding-what-really-matters/) - How do you want your children to remember you once you're gone? What kind of legacy will you leave? Because every word, action, hug, and prayer matters. A lot. May we be intentional to "understand [and focus on] what really matters" (Phil. 1:10) so that we can faithfully parent these precious lives God had entrusted
- [Parenting With the End in Mind](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/04/18/parenting-with-the-end-in-mind/) - Parenting is a long, terrifying, rewarding, heart-breaking journey, one we won't see truly see the fruit of for years to come. And in the interim, as we chase after naked babies, clean vomit from furniture, and bruise our knees--literally--through the teen years, it's easy to get bogged down in the tedium of it all. To lose
- [Looking Back and Moving Forward](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/04/21/looking-back-and-moving-forward/) - You may have heard the expression, you can't move forward when you remain fixated on the past. When our thoughts are consumed with old hurts or successes we've experienced. We may even begin to wonder if God is through with us, but friend, Christian's don't have shelf lives. If you're breathing, God has a plan
- [An Unexpected Literary Challenge](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/04/20/an-unexpected-literary-challenge/) - I've been keeping this quiet since finding out last week, but I recently learned Breaking Free was selected for Clash of the Titles March clash off. The winner will be selected by popular vote (which makes me just a wee bit ... er ... lotta bit nervous). If you've read the novel and would like to
- [When Mama Needs a Time Out](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/04/25/when-mama-needs-a-time-out/) - We've all done it--lashed out at those we love most. When we're overtired, stressed, pressed for time, or simply having a pull-your-hair-out kind of day, it can be incredibly hard to maintain self-control. That's why we need to be alert to our emotions when we first sense them rising. How is it our children can be
- [Light Bulbs](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/04/28/light-bulbs/) - Reactions are just that: reactions. Sometimes we react without thinking...and it doesn't turn out so well. When those reactions are more intense than the situation warrants, pay attention. Chances are, a deep, long-hidden wound is festering within. My guest today, Lighthouse Publishing of the Carolinas author Shellie Arnold, shares a moment when she literally lost it,
- [Four Reasons Boredom is Good For Your Child](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/05/02/four-reasons-boredom-is-good-for-your-child/) - It's the phrase that makes nearly every mom cringe, and with summer approaching, it's one most of us will hear a lot of soon: "I'm bored." In our fast-paced, action-packed, activity-centered world where kids as young as seven are given cell phones and spend hours a day watching television, we can easily keep our children
- [Your Opinion Matters!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/05/23/your-opinion-matters/) - Oh, the dangers of the Internet, where those with popcorn brains like mine (think kernels exploding from a hot pan) have access to ... surveys! This will be fun ... right? You've probably noticed, my blog has gone through some teensy-itsy-bitsy changes of late, and I've narrowed my focus to marriage and parenting. And you
- [Little Ones](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/05/30/little-ones/) - Imagine what the world must look like, feel like, smell like, to an infant experiencing wind, sunshine, and the melodious chirping of birds for the first time. What must be going through the mind of a toddler the first time they taste ice cream? What drives them to push onto their tiny, fat feet, again
- [Defusing Conflict in Your Marriage](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/06/02/defusing-conflict-in-your-marriage/) - Early in our marriage, it seemed Steve and I spent more time fighting than talking, and with every argument, our hearts grew a little harder and the distance between us widened. More than that, we developed a pattern of behavior and a completely skewed perception of one another. It's amazing how quickly negative behavior patterns
- [Taking Steps Toward Change](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/06/09/taking-steps-toward-change/) - It really stinks when we blow it. It stinks even more when we blow it repeatedly, and yet, if you're like me, you keep fighting the same battles again and again. But Scripture says we're made new (2 Cor. 5:17) and that we have everything we need, in Christ, to live godly, Spirit-led lives (2 Peter 1:3).
- [Deal Alert--Book Addicts Take Note!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/06/13/deal-alert-book-addicts-take-note/) - Have I mentioned my husband put me on a book-buying budget? And that he instituted said budget when my daughter and I were perusing a used bookstore? Considering my husband may is the most generous man I know, considering he takes me shopping routinely (yes, ladies, my man enjoys shopping with me! I know, I
- [Taking Comfort in God](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/06/16/taking-comfort-in-god/) - Job loss, hurting children, struggling marriages, feelings of helplessness. These issues are real and painful, and often leave us feeling lonely. But how timely is our Lord? Last week, I talked about having confidence in God during uncertain times. Read on as Lisa talks about taking comfort in God. Cup of Comfort by Lisa Flickinger The garage
- [Learning Through a Child](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/07/14/learning-through-a-child/) - I admit it, I'm a needy Christian. I crave need and crave constant attention from my heavenly Father, especially when He's nudging me into a new area. I want to be reminded of things He's told me a thousand times, and more than anything, I need to know He's always there, to feel His presence
- [Making Marriage Work](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/07/28/making-marriage-work/) - How can a couple go from googly-eyed in love to utter hatred within a few years? Why is it so many adults who once pledged to love and cherish their spouse "till death do we part" stomp on their vows, toss in their wedding ring, and walk away? Maybe the better question is, what does
- [Dealing With Crisis](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/08/04/dealing-with-crisis/) - He was about to die--to be executed on the emotional whim of a cruel and oppressive ruler. Talk about landing in a major crisis! One wrong move, one wrong word, and he and his friends, and all of his colleagues, would be slaughtered. More than simply slaughtered--torn "limb from limb." And there seemed to be
- [Peace In the Storms of Life](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/08/11/peace-in-the-storms-of-life/) - Rescue doesn't always come, and we don't always get those things that we desperately ask for. Why would God withhold something from us, when it'd be such an easy thing for Him to grant? If He's all powerful, why does He leave us in our crisis? Does He not care? Can't He hear us? We
- [Fully Known, Deeply Loved](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/08/27/fully-known-deeply-loved/) - They say never treat your blog like a journal, well, unless it is in fact your journal. If that's the case, chances are, it's password protected so that your deepest thoughts don't spill out into cyberspace. They also say be consistent. Meaning, if your readers have come to expect posts to hit their inbox on
- [For the Love -- an Online Bible Study](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/09/01/for-the-love-an-online-bible-study/) - When a biblical character hits me, stays with me for months, and fills me with questions that draw me, daily, deeper into Scripture, I've learned to take notice. And to hit my knees, because often, God is about to do something. This happened six or seven years ago, when I became fascinated with Joseph (from Genesis), and
- [When it Feels as if God Isn't Listening](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/09/15/when-it-feels-as-if-god-isnt-listening/) - We've all been there--in a place of desperation, crying out to God, only to experience ... nothing. No change. No response, nothing but silence. That diagnosis remains. We don't get the job offer we'd hoped for. And that precious child, your child, is still in crisis. This morning, my sweet friend Chaka Heinze shares what it
- [Will You Believe the God of the Impossible?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/09/19/will-you-believe-the-god-of-the-impossible/) - We know intellectually that nothing is impossible with God, and yet, when trials hit or dreams are sparked, it can be hard to live in that knowledge. Maybe because, though we say it, we don't really believe it? Today, continuing with our For the Love study, my sweet friend Maria Morgan shares how, when facing
- [When the Wait Is Over](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/09/22/when-the-wait-is-over/) - The pain of infertility runs deep and cannot fully be understood unless one has experienced it. I suppose that's true of anything we face, be it tragedy, joblessness, illness ... Last week in For the Love Bible study, we talked about how to stay strong when it feels as if our prayers fall on deaf
- [Raising Children Who Reveal Christ](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/09/29/raising-children-who-reveal-christ/) - I had a very difficult pregnancy, one characterized by the constant fear that I would lose the precious child I'd prayed for, that I'd grown to love so deeply, from the moment I knew she existed. One night in particular, everyone--myself, my husband, our doctor--was certain I had. I was awakened in the middle
- [Loving the Weird in Our Kids](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/10/06/loving-the-weird-in-our-kids/) - I must have mortified my parents on numerous occasions. I was the kid who walked into walls, got lost in elaborate daydreams I spoke about as if they were true, and chose to wear a big old clunky feather in my combed-frizzy hair for school picture days. Seriously, folks, I was strange. But on a
- [No Longer Alone](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/10/13/no-longer-alone/) - We're taking a brief break from our For the Love series to center ourselves in Christ. I've heard it said one doesn't truly understand that Christ is enough until He is all that they have. When Jenna Victoria's world came undone, God showed up. Read on to see how, and may her story encourage
- [What Do Your Actions Say About Your Integrity](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/11/03/what-do-your-actions-say-about-your-integrity/) - Integrity speaks. Loudly, and most often, when we're completely oblivious as to who's watching. But the truth is, someone is always watching, and if you're a follower of Christ, this is a big deal because we are Christ's representatives. This means, others will catch a glimpse of who Christ is by what we do and
- [What Is To Come](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/12/01/what-is-to-come/) - As death grew closer for my sweet friend, Iris Peters, a woman who valiantly battled brain cancer, our conversations turned increasingly toward heaven. She had so many questions, and as she and I wrestled with this heavy and pressing topic, we realized it wasn't often addressed in the evangelical community. Why is that? It can be hard
- [Choosing to Rest in the Chaos](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/01/05/choosing-to-rest-in-the-chaos/) - It's that time again--when my already busy schedule feels squeezed, my calendar is packed full of obligations and author interviews, and amidst it all, my brain determines to take a brief vacation. Leaving me with two choices: Try harder and chain myself to my computer, or take a hiatus. I've decided to do the latter,
- [Marked With a Seal](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/01/11/marked-with-a-seal/) - For years, I spiraled into self-destruction, ultimately ending up homeless. Well before my eighteenth birthday. I don't know the statistics, but I do know the probability of one climbing out of that mess aren't high. But God. If not for Him, if not for His grace, and honestly, if not for a sweet woman named
- [Four Book Sale!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/01/13/four-book-sale/) - I know I usually post on Thursdays. (Unless I’m a day off and think Wednesday is Thursday, then Thursday is Friday … This morning was quite a let down, when I realized it wasn’t Saturday yet! heehee.) But, I had to share some fun news. All my previous books are on sale! (e-versions) How fun
- [Focusing on Those Traits That Will Help Our Kids Succeed](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/01/19/focusing-on-those-traits-that-will-help-our-kids-succeed/) - Book learning won't amount to much if the heart of the reader is weak. Lazy. Entitled. One can excel at tests and utterly fail at life. And parents can run their kids from one activity and class to the next in the hopes of helping them gain a leg up in life and, in the
- [While We Wait For Guidance](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/01/26/while-we-wait-for-guidance/) - God always answers us, and often in unexpected ways. I have found myself, once again, in a position of awaiting divine guidance. I've been praying throughout the day, asking God to direct my heart and to turn my will from mine to His. As I sit with my coffee, my Bible, and my journal each morning,
- [Trusting God With Our children ~ Guest Post by Robin Patchen](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/02/02/trusting-god-with-our-children-guest-post-by-robin-patchen/) - My mentor always says parenting will test and grow our faith like little else can. Each year, as my daughter gets older, and the stakes inherently rise, I agree more and more. I, like today's guest Robin Patchen, once thought if parents did A and B, C and D would necessarily occur. But then I
- [God's Never Changing,  Unfailing Love](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/03/23/gods-never-changing-unfailing-love/) - Change can be uncomfortable; uncertainty, even more so. If we're not careful, we can allow the uncertainties of change to paralyze us and keep us from experiencing the abundant life God promised. But no matter how often our circumstances shift, no matter what hurdles or roundabouts life throws our way, we can rest assured and move
- [](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/05/06/8892/) - I've heard it said, "Identity determines behavior." Based on this logic, it follows that believers should be known for their confidence. And yet, how often, do we live in bondage to our fears and insecurities? And all because we aren't fully embracing who we are in Christ. My guest today uses a fun story to
- [Lives Intertwined](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/08/06/necessary-community/) - I've shared in previous posts how difficult our move to Nebraska has been for all of us. It has been less than two months now, but a blip, and yet, already we feel at home. Why? Because God placed us in a community of believers that opened wide their arms and have accepted us
- [Belief or Trust](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/12/10/belief-or-trust/) - Do you have faith? How deep? Does your faith extend beyond your head-knowledge--what you believe to be true--to your full surrender? That's the measuring line, isn't it? Being able--willing--to stake all we have and all we are on what we claim to believe. Even when everything around us points to the contrary. Today Staci Stallings,
- [Win a copy of Jewels for the Kingdom](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/12/14/win-a-copy-of-jewels-for-the-kingdom/) - I'm excited to announce, Delia Latham, my guest yesterday and author of nine wonderful books, is giving away a copy of her latest release, Jewels for the Kingdom. To be entered in the drawing, simply leave a comment on yesterday or today's post. Jewels for the Kingdomis the first of four separately authored Heart’s Haven e-Books:
- [When Current Reality Contradicts Our View of God...](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/12/18/when-current-reality-contradict-our-view-of-god/) - Innocence stolen, security shattered, hearts wrenched. In one moment, lives were changed forever--some snatched, others left behind, wondering how they would go on once their treasure--their child--was violently ripped from them. And for many, for most, even those with the strongest faith, one question rages: why? Why would God allow such a horrendous act to
- [Strolling Through Proverbs ~ Day One](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/01/strolling-through-proverbs-day-one/) - Today's Reading: Proverbs 1 Today's focal verse/passage: These are the proverbs of Solomon, David's son, king of Israel. Their purpose is to teach people wisdom and discipline, to help them understand the insights of the wise. Their purpose is to teach people to live disciplined and successful lives, to help them do what is right,
- [Take Time to Remember](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/04/take-time-to-remember/) - Today's reading: Proverbs 3:1-8 Today's focal verse: Proverbs 3:1 Today's focus: Remembering what we've learned This week's memory verse: This morning, as I was thinking over my spiritual goals and what I've learned through Proverbs 1-3, I was tempted to add more to my goal list. After all, if I'm developing a habit for Scripture
- [Choosing to Trust](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/05/choosing-to-trust/) - Today's reading: Proverbs 3:1-8, Psalm 139 , James 1:2-8 Today's focal verse: Proverbs 3:5 Today's focus: Choosing to trust This week's memory verse: This has been an interesting year for me. I've seen healings I've fervently prayed for not come to pass. I've seen a family with young children lose their mother to brain cancer. I've
- [Following With Your Whole Heart](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/06/following-with-your-whole-heart/) - Today's reading: Proverbs 3; Luke 5:1-11 Today's focal verse: Proverbs 3:6 Today's focus: Following God's Will This week's memory verse: Today, Beth Farely shares her walk with God--how He called her to make some drastic changes, and the challenges she faced to do so. Yesterday's focal verse reminded us to trust and lean not on
- [Learning to Rest](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/08/learning-to-rest/) - Today's reading: Proverbs 3; Psalm 23 Today's focal verses: Proverbs 3:24-25 Today's focus: Resting in Christ Once again, thanks to Proverbs Bible Study member and our group's prayer coordinator for today's beautiful post. As I prepared today's devotional, I thought of those special nights when my daughter was young, and I rocked her to sleep. As
- [Remaining Attuned to God from Start to finish and every moment in between](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/09/16/remaining-attuned-to-god-from-start-to-finish-and-every-moment-in-between/) - I have a tendency to run ahead of God. I’ll sense a call to action and a surge of His Spirit within, then race ahead, without divine clarity on the how. Do you ever do that? Do you ever assume that first nudge is all you need, only to discover, once you’ve landed in a
- [A Dry Well - Guest Post by Shannon Taylor Vannatter](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/09/30/a-dry-well-guest-post-by-shannon-taylor-vannatter/) - Lately, my creativity has been at a standstill. It started in March 2019 when I rushed my husband to the ER with severe abdominal pain. My brain stopped when the doctor said cancer in his intestine and liver. A few days later, they removed a golf-ball sized tumor and re-sectioned his small intestine. The doctor
- [Healing from church hurts](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/10/14/healing-from-church-hurts/) - Unfortunately, a good number of people raised in church have left the church, and most often, not because of theological disagreements but rather because they've been deeply hurt. They've been told they're too much or not enough, and have been shut down when they honestly express their emotions and struggles. Others have experienced the toxicity
- [When God Sends a Detour - Guest Post by Kathy Harris](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/10/21/when-god-sends-a-detour-guest-post-by-kathy-harris/) - What happens when you are certain God is leading you in one direction only to feel as if He's asking you to take a hard left? Or, when you find yourself on a long dirt road that appears to be leading ... nowhere? If that's where you find yourself now, I hope you'll find my
- [Finding the Courage to Speak Truth](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/06/17/finding-the-courage-to-speak-truth/) - As a writer and speaker, I’m constantly battling my people-pleasing tendencies and its underlying fear of rejection. One would think this would get easier with the more content I share, and in some ways it does. But in other ways, this inner struggle between self-protection and unhindered obedience seems to have gained momentum. Perhaps because
- [Embracing the Impossible](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/06/24/embracing-the-impossible/) - The person who lives completely yielded to Christ will often find themselves taking on tasks that feel utterly beyond them. Or perhaps to put it another way, we can’t live Spirit-empowered in our comfort zones. God continually calls us to step outside of those nice, safe walls we’ve positioned around ourselves, and into the area
- [The Bread of Life and the Hungry Soul - Guest Post](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/07/01/the-bread-of-life-and-the-hungry-soul-guest-post/) - Guest Post by the Heroes 2 Team In a world of rush, will we still be able to find what really matters? I grew up in a family with high regard for education. My parents told me this was our key to success and the only inheritance they could give us. But there were no
- [Steadfast Prayers for Those Far from God](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/07/08/steadfast-prayers-for-those-far-from-god/) - What do we do when our loved one has barricaded themselves from God? When, despite our desperate prayers and all the times and ways we’ve tried to reach out, they slip further from Him and into greater deception, greater sin, and greater emotional and spiritual slavery? In those situations, when decades pass with no hint
- [Annihilating Our Greatest Enemy](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/07/29/annihilating-our-greatest-enemy/) - The hungry and neglected heart will always find a way to justify sin. To deceive itself into believing that forbidden act is life-giving and that the ways of God lead to death. Death of joy, of freedom, of peace. Every compromising step gains strength, feeding the lies slowly strangling our souls, convincing us that God
- [the Two Sides of Pride and the Love of Christ](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/08/05/the-two-sides-of-pride-and-the-love-of-christ/) - Before I launch into today's post, question: How many of you are enjoying my following chronologically through the New Testament? Were you aware that's what I've been doing? (For example, today's post covers the reading passage for day one of week 31.) I ask because this has been super challenging, y'all! If you're enjoying this
- [Life With Jesus: Traveling Light With Arms Linked](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/08/19/life-with-jesus-traveling-light-with-arms-linked/) - If the past two years have taught us anything, it’s this: Life will be tough, and you can’t plan for everything. We can wear ourselves out trying, fill our brains with all sorts of information we hope will help us stand firm through the next recession or global pandemic. Or we can travel light and
- [Just How Salty Are You?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/04/08/just-how-salty-are-you/)
- [Going to Church Despite the Church: Jesus and Women](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/05/06/going-to-church-despite-the-church-jesus-and-women/) - Jesus routinely elevated, honored, and welcomed those society pushed to the fringe or rejected outright. Can you imagine the emotional healing He must’ve brought to those individuals? The message of love and grace that He sent them? Over the past few weeks, I’ve watched one young woman in particular experience a similar journey. For years,
- [Ditching Our External Polish to Live in Spiritual Freedom](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/05/13/ditching-our-external-polish-to-live-in-spiritual-freedom/) - Trying to live a God-honoring life in our own strength is like spring cleaning with our hands zip-tied and strobe lights flashing. Bound and vision distorted, we may be able to knock some cobwebs out of our way, but we’ll remain oblivious to the spiders forming them. We may, in fact, help hide and thus
- [Take Heed How You Hear: How We Can Hinder Our Ability to Hear God](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/05/20/take-heed-how-you-hear-how-we-can-hinder-our-ability-to-hear-god/) - If we ignore God’s voice, we might lose our ability to hear Him. That’s a dark, frightening, and dangerous place to be, which is why Jesus said, in essence, “Be careful how you hear.” And while, in context, He was speaking of those who would ultimately accept or reject His truth, this principle applies to
- [Trusting Christ When He Calls Us Out of Hiding](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/06/03/trusting-christ-when-he-calls-us-out-of-hiding/) - We experience freedom when our desire to get well overrides our desire to self-protect. This might mean admitting our marriage isn’t quite as cheery as it seems, or that we can’t fight that addiction or mental health challenge or whatever battle we’re facing alone. That we need God’s help, and just maybe, the help of
- [How Will We Respond When Christ Doesn't Meet Our Expectations](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/06/10/when-god-doesnt-meet-our-expectations/) - Years ago, in the middle of what felt like a crisis, God challenged me to consider how deep my loyalties lay. Really, to consider who He truly was to me. Would I treat Him as a Genie or a motivational guru who offered plithy words of affirmation when I needed an emotional boost, or would
- [New Wine and Grace-Based Living](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/03/25/new-wine-and-grace-based-living/) - Some additional encouragement: https://www.lifeaudio.com/faith-over-fear/the-courage-to-let-our-kids-fail-ep-46
- [May God Increase Our Anticipation This Christmas](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/12/25/may-god-increase-our-anticipation-this-christmas/)
- [And now ... for the reading plan](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2021/02/18/and-now-for-the-reading-plan/) - I did it again, y'all. I really need a "before I publish blog posts" check list. For those following the chronological reading plan, I updated my previous post to add it. But I knew those who receive my posts by email likely wouldn't see that, so I'm creating a follow up. Here's week the reading
- [When Others React in Fear-Based Behaviors](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/10/22/when-others-react-in-fear-based-behaviors/) - I’m becoming increasingly convinced that most of our negative encounters, conflicts, and relational barriers stem from fear. And in this, from a failure to accept, understand, and live in grace. When we mess up, think we have, or worry someone else determines we have, we tend to hide, to blame, to deflect, and point fingers.
- [Each Day's Troubles––Guest Post by Victoria Mejias](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/10/29/each-days-troubles-guest-post-by-victoria-mejias/) - I struggle to remain focused on today, especially when I feel anxious. My mind can conjure too many what-if scenarios. Obviously all of my fretting doesn't change whatever may lay ahead, but it does steal my energy and peace to handle my challenges well. I so want to grow in this area, which is why
- [Learning to Listen](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/11/04/learning-to-listen/) - My daughter could've become a statistic, part of the growing "unchurched" population, many of whom left the church not due to doctrinal differences or unbelief but rather, hurt. Wounds caused by those who claim to follow Jesus but behave nothing like Him. The problem is, we rarely know what lies beneath the surface. We see
- [Celebrating All God Has Done Through Wholly Loved Ministries](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/11/25/celebrating-all-god-has-done-through-wholly-loved-ministries/) - You know that verse that promises God will do exceedingly more than we can ask or imagine? That sums up the history of Wholly Loved Ministries. Honestly, four years ago, when God asked me to launch this ministry, if I had any idea all He had planned, I probably would've been too freaked out to
- [When Stakes Feel High: Revealing Who We Truly Are](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/12/17/when-stakes-feel-high-revealing-who-we-truly-are/)
- [Fun News Shared Here First](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/10/08/fun-news-shared-here-first/) - Can you guess what my news is? I don't want to raise expectations too high. For some of you, this might not seem all that exciting. Before I go too far, I should probably respond to all the guesses y'all made on Facebook. No, I'm not a grandmother (unless my grand-dogs count, and they totally
- [God-Led God-Empowered Prayers](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/10/15/god-led-god-empowered-prayers/) - Some battles are far too important, far too consequential, for us to ever attempt to fight them alone. This has become clearer to me now more than ever. God recently called me to engage in a battle so far beyond me, where the opposition felt so fierce and unconquerable, I knew Christ was my only
- [Gut-Level Compassion](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2020/06/04/gut-level-compassion/) - Just over a week ago, I felt a depth of grief that completely overwhelmed me and left me intensely sick to my stomach. A depth of grief I've only felt a total of three times in my life, and each one leveled me and stuck with me. The first was when I was praying for
- [Please note--Correction](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2017/03/16/please-note-correction/) - This is for my lovely blog subscribers who receive posts directly in their inbox. Please note, I made some corrections to the previous post to eliminate some potential theological concerns. Feel free to email me (jenniferaslattery(at)gmail(dot)com if you have concerns or questions, or simply reread the post as it is now. You can do so HERE.
- [Rippling Waters](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/12/08/rippling-waters/) - It was my third grade year, and I was the awkward, sad, frizzy-haired little girl in need of a friend. I found one in Mrs. Eldridge. I don't know if she was a Christian, but I suspect she was. That's the only way I know to explain the love that radiated from her whenever she
- [Change Is In the Air](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/12/15/change-is-in-the-air/) - I've never liked change, and man, can I understand Rachel's feelings regarding moving--I hate it. Which is interesting, considering how many times God has moved our family. And yet, when everything else tilts to a nauseating angle, God remains stable. Rock solid. I believe you'll find my guest Rachel's reminder of this to be a
- [The Road to Restoration](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/11/10/the-road-to-restoration/) - The Road to Restoration by Jan Pierce Luke 3: 4-6 “As it is written in the book of the words of Isaiah the prophet, The voice of one crying in the wilderness, make ready the way of the Lord, Make his paths straight. Every ravine shall be filled up, and every mountain and hill shall
- [Sheltering Our Kids (And a Giveaway)](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/11/24/sheltering-our-kids-and-a-giveaway/) - If only we could keep our children in a bubble, point them to only the best resources and influences, and saturate their brain with nothing but truth. And yet, that would drastically stunt their growth and likely get in the way of all God wants to do in and through them. There's a fine line
- [All Things Renewed](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/08/18/all-things-renewed/) - Some decisions will affect the rest of our lives. What happens when, years later, you worry you chose incorrectly? My guest today, Christine Lindsay, shares a vulnerable story of how one of the most emotional, most important moments of her life went all wrong ... and what God showed her through that experience. He Takes Away
- [Keeping It God-Centered](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/08/26/keeping-it-god-centered/) - Merging two people with different personalities, ideas, thoughts ... and sins ... can make marriage hard. Today, my guest, Karen Pashley, shares with us the hope and foundation we have in God to make our marriages not just work, but thrive. The Trials and Triumphs of a God-Centered Marriage by Karen Pashley Let’s face it,
- [Trusting the Author](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/06/23/trusting-the-author/) - If you're reading this, it is likely because you love stories. Whether you're a reader, a writer, or love a good movie or TV show, we all relate to story. However, sometimes that story takes an unexpected turn. When it does, do we stop reading or watching? Or do we trust the author? Today, my
- [Being His Help Meet](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/06/30/being-his-help-meet/) - Have you ever heard it said that a woman should be a help meet (or helpmate) to her husband? How did that make you feel? Today, my guest Elle E. Kay shares her perspective on what, exactly, being your spouse's help meet actually means. But first, a caveat--Elle is not saying a wife must be
- [Respite for the Caregiver](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/07/21/respite-for-the-caregiver/) - Chronic illness, disease, and long-term injuries are an incredible burden for the one experiencing them. Sometimes, so much so that we forget to care for our caregiver. Today, my guest, Kelly Irvin, shares her perspective on what caring for her own caregiver--her spouse--looks like and why it's important. The Gift of Respite by Kelly Irvin
- [When God Calls Your Child to the Hard](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/05/16/when-god-calls-your-child-to-the-hard/) - Seeing our children make decisions that can bring about pain is hard for any parent. But remembering those sweet moments of motherhood can help ease that pain. Painful Parenting by Gail Kittleson The biblical Elizabeth, Zachariah’s wife, reminds us how precious a child is. Having waited decades to bear a child, Elizabeth had no choice but
- [Christ, the Church, and Marriage](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/05/19/christ-the-church-and-marriage/) - We often go into marriage expecting it to be easier than it truly is. Did you enter your marriage thinking that being a Christian would insulate you from struggles, only to stumble--or witness your spouse stumble--and have to walk a path littered with pain? If you have--or currently are--there is hope! Marriage: a Representation of
- [Healthy Living](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/05/26/healthy-living/) - Have you ever walked into a brick wall when you're trying to get healthy? And then tried to scale that brick wall to get over it? If you have, you know just how hard it is, whether you're trying to get healthy physically, mentally, or spiritually. Today, my guest and dear friend, Stacey Muff, has
- [Cover Selection Fun](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/06/04/cover-selection-fun/) - Have you ever wondered who decides what images to use on a book cover? How the publishers make this selection? Have you ever thought, "If I had a say, I'd choose/wouldn't choose ..." Now's your chance to be part of what happens behind the scenes when a book's developed. My publisher wants to hear from
- [From There to Here](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/05/09/learning-to-live-in-grace/) - Being a parent can teach us so much. Not just about parenting, but about our relationship with God and how He forgives us. As parents, this is a crucial quality to develop. Our kids will never feel secure in our love if we hold on to anger, bitterness, and grudges. So what does God do with a
- [When the Ones You Love are Suffering](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/04/14/when-the-ones-you-love-are-suffering/) - There are times when our desire to help must be restrained, because sometimes in the helping we do more harm than good. As difficult as it may be, sometimes the best thing we can do is step back and get out of God's way. Today my guest, Christine Lindsey, tells us about one of those
- [Marriage of the Minds](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/05/12/marriage-of-the-minds/) - "Love never gripes." Ouch. I'm pretty sure it doesn't nag, pester, and stomp around, releasing exasperated sighs, either. Yet I've done my fair share of all those. But over the years, God has been showing both my husband and I a better way. Marriage of the Minds By Gail Kittleson Our marriage of nearly thirty-eight years
- [Your Spouse Is Not Your Enemy](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/03/24/your-spouse-is-not-your-enemy/) - Has your marriage become a battle ground? Have you lost the "we" and slipped into a "him or me" mentality? Most people, when they're newly engaged and married, can't imagine that they may face times when they just really don't like their spouse, or are so angry they see them as the enemy. Join Julie
- [Winner Alert](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/01/21/winner-alert/) - Please forgive me for the double post and also for failing to announce the winner of last week's give-away! Judy, you won a copy of Joi Copeland's latest release, Sheriff’s Bride, Rob’s Story. I'll message you shortly to discuss the best way to get that to you. :)
- [Why Do We Worry?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2016/02/11/why-do-we-worry/) - What kinds of things do you worry over? Do you ever let worry overwhelm you to the point you forget just Who is in control? Today Sarah Ruut reminds us that though we may worry and fret over many different things in this life, there is One whom we can trust to hold everything in
- [Pride isn't Pretty](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/11/05/pride-isnt-pretty/) - Pride is something that everyone struggles with. In today's guest blog post, author Mariah Morgan discusses how pride affects our relationship with Christ, and how we can combat it. As you read, be thinking about how you can fight your prideful nature. Pride isn't Pretty by Maria Morgan Pride isn’t pretty. It takes on many forms – thinking
- [A Thankful Heart](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/11/19/a-thankful-heart/) - Sometimes gratitude pours from us, unbidden. Other times it's an act of will; a determination to praise God in the hard and sad. Either way, God is worthy of our praise and worship. And regardless of what we're going through, I believe cultivating a grateful heart makes life sweeter. November is the month of giving
- [Do You Ever Feel Like a Misfit?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/10/29/do-you-ever-feel-like-a-misfit/) - How we perceive ourselves can have such a dramatic impact on everything--how we interact with others, how we perceive others interactions with us, how we perceive our world, whether we take risks or shrink back in isolation. No wonder Satan works so hard to distort our thinking in this critical area! Today a sweet friend,
- [Living--For Real!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/11/06/living-for-real/) - When I come to the end of my life, when I stand before my Creator, I want to appear before Him with empty hands, knowing I gave my all and lived each moment to the fullest, utilizing every gift and talent He gave me to their full potential. Because what good is a gift if
- [Finding Peace in the Crazy](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/09/04/finding-peace-in-the-crazy/) - This is almost ironic--the day after I make a vlog sharing my tendency to worry, stress and fret (when I should be still!) my article on Internet Cafe' Devotions on embracing risk goes live. The two might seem contradictory... or maybe not. Because surrender is a constant, daily battle. As is learning to trust, and
- [God's Good--Thoughts on Romans 8:28](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/09/10/gods-good/) - It was a dark time, and I was pretty mad at God. I was so mad, so broken, I couldn't bring myself to pray. And this frightened me. I was certain God was angry with me. After all, my attitude was less than admirable. But then, in the middle of my anger, a snippet of a sermon
- [Learning to Lead](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/09/17/learning-to-lead/) - I've spent the last eighteen years trying to teach our daughter and to train her to be more Christ-like. And yet, so often I've discovered, she's the one teaching me. Last night our daughter Ashley shared an essay she wrote for an engineer leadership position she's applying for at her university and I asked if
- [A Revived Prayer Life](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/09/24/a-revived-prayer-life/) - Wouldn't it be amazing to catch a view of the world, of the Christians in the world, from God's eye? How many believers are kneeling, at this moment, praying for help. For healing, revival, our schools, our country... How many more are praying today, or perhaps praying more fervently, because of War Room? I know
- [First Chapter of Intertwined](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/09/24/first-chapter-of-intertwined/) - To my subscribers who are getting double posts today, sorry! I needed to find a way to share the first scene of Intertwined for my FB launch party, and I couldn't retain the formatting when I tried to post it directly to FB.) Tammy pulled into her garage and stared at the entrance door to
- [Viewing Others Through God's Eyes](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/10/01/6309/) - Seeing others, really seeing them, doesn't come naturally. I think that's because most of us, me included, have a strong self-obsession. Meaning, our thoughts most often are centered on we, ourselves, and us. This is an area God is really working on in me lately. I so want to be a blessing. To be the
- [The Little White Lie](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/10/08/the-little-white-lie/) - Is there such a thing as a little white lie? What kind of weight do our words carry? And what's at stake? Today prolific author and fellow ACFW member Darlene Franklin shares a challenging devotion on integrity. As you read her thoughts on Psalm 15:1-2, ask God to show you the areas in your heart
- [Christian Friendship](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/10/15/christian-friendship/) - How does Christianity translate into our friendships? Author Cherie Burbach offers the answer in today's guest blog post. As you read, keep in mind those friendships you want to nurture, and remember the ones you want to begin too. But first, I want to announce the winner of last week's give-away. Elizabeth Dent, congrats! You won a
- [Won't Be Defined](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/10/22/wont-be-defined/) - What if we viewed ourselves through God's eyes? Imagine the peace we'd have. And what if, maintaining that vision, we then zeroed in on what He was calling us to do, and pursued that with everything within us. What might we accomplish? This is something God has been encouraging me to do. If we're Facebook
- [Trusting in the God of Hope](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/06/25/trusting-in-the-god-of-hope/) - Life is full of uncertainties, and though I'm pretty sure, while waiting for something important, we wish God would come through right now! But it's in the waiting, the following along God's detours and reroutes, that our faith grows strongest and we are most alert to God's hand. Today prolific and hugely talented author, Shannon
- [Freedom](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/07/02/freedom/) - "So if the Son sets you free, you are truly free" (John 8:36). Imagine living your entire life as a slave. What would you give for freedom? What would that freedom feel like once it came? And how long, once freed, would it take to shake off your slave mentality? We don't think about slavery
- [Lifting Your Heart and Maintaining Your Sanity](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/07/09/liftingyourheartandmaintainingyoursanity/) - When you see heads turning during worship, people cringing, others whispering... you know Jennifer Slattery is close by. Kicked out of campus choir my freshman year in high school for, and I quote, "throwing the entire choir off-key", you'd think I would've learned to keep my mouth closed, or at least, to sing quieter. But
- [Prayer Victory](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/07/16/prayer-victory/) - If God is for us, who or what can stand against us? (Romans 8:31) And yet, I feel this verse needs a caveat--it implies obedience, as does the below devotion, written by author Karen Jurgens. For those of you who've been following my blog for a while, you might remember a similar post, What's Your
- [When Anxiety Mounts](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/07/23/when-anxiety-mounts/) - Do you feel like you go through life white-knuckling it? A quick perusal on Facebook tells me anxiety is a major problem. As I was reading Davalyn Spencer's post below, and the adventures and views she encountered, I wondered how often I've missed out on the beauty of the journey due to worry and fear.
- [Take the Next Step](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/07/30/take-the-next-step/) - Never quit on the uphill. My high school track and cross country coach repeated that phrase to me often, usually when I was tired, lagging, and midway up an intense climb. He also encouraged me to take my rest days--to give my body time to recover and rebuild. Both are important for champions. This analogy and
- [Comic Book Fun by Ashley Slattery](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/08/06/comic-book-fun-by-ashley-slattery/) - I hope you enjoy this as much as I do. :) This summer our daughter volunteered at a children's center in downtown Omaha where she taught kiddos to art. For one of the projects she had them design a comic book, and here's the example she created. Gonna miss this girl. She
- [Free Sample Chapters](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/08/13/free-sample-chapters/) - You know what this means, right? Release day is fast approaching! Read the first three chapters of my next release HERE. And for all of those in the KC Metro area, stop by Zona Rosa Barnes and Noble, grab a mocha, and say hi! I'll be signing copies of Beyond I Do and When Dawn
- [Learn to be Content](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/08/20/learn-to-be-content/) - I love progress. I love to achieve, to dream, and to take determined and well-planned steps forward. Sometimes this is a great thing, other times my visionary thinking can cause me to lose sight of all the wonderful gifts God's bestowed on me now. Today's post, written by friend and author Sarah Ruut, challenged me to... Well, I'll
- [He's Already Made You Great](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/08/27/hes-already-made-you-great/) - Do you ever feel generic? Unnoticed? Unappreciated? Maybe even undervalued? Behind every made-up face and carefully chosen outfit, behind every rehearsed speech and immaculate house, hides an insecure woman who, at some level, strives for what she believes she isn't because she hasn't learned to rest in who she is. Or should I say, whose
- [Not My Way But God's](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/05/07/not-my-way-but-gods/) - How often do we take God's delay as "no", or perhaps even lack of care. As if, because we can't hear Him, He's suddenly not listening? Waiting, on anything, is incredibly hard for me, and I think, if I were to get to the root of it, I'd find, my impatience stems from a lack
- [Resting in Christ](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/05/04/resting-in-christ/) - Oh, to be brave! To embrace risk and challenges all for the sake of Christ with little thought of the what-ifs. To daily surrender myself so fully to Christ, I would always and only do His will... Unfortunately, my actions are often more characterized by fear than faith and striving than surrender. But God is
- [Focusing on and Living Your Purpose](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/05/14/focusing-on-and-living-your-purpose/) - Knowing why we are here changes everything... if that reason is true, valid, and big enough to carry all the muck. I was thinking about this very thing yesterday, as I pushed through some physical challenges. Thinking how all this gunk, (and we've all got our gunk) would feel utterly pointless and defeating, if not
- [Cultivating Intimacy](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/05/23/cultivating-intimacy/) - It's easy to fall into rote behaviors. To pray without thinking; to worship half-heartedly with our mouth singing one thing while our mind jumps to every task awaiting us. To read Scripture without personalizing and digesting the precious, intimate, life-changing Words of God. It happens every year, it seems. Actually, more like every
- [YOU Are the Church](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/05/28/you-are-the-church/) - There are numerous articles expounding on all that's wrong with the church. They're trying to be too contemporary, too relevant. They're behind the times. They're full of hypocrites, ran by hypocrites. They're too judgmental, or too lenient, or too rigid, or to laxed... I could go on, but I choose not to. I'd rather remind
- [Because Everyone Loves to Win!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/06/01/because-everyone-loves-to-win/) - Happy Monday! If that phrase grates on your sleepy, Monday morning ears, let me see if I can make your day a tad brighter. Or at least, maybe I can add some fun to your day. Do you like contests? Not stand on your head, jump up and down, and see who can yell the
- [Tasting Real Joy](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/06/04/tasting-real-joy/) - Has your obedience become conditional? Your view of God distorted? Do you draw near when life is great or you need aid but run and hide when reveals His God's coaching-training side? Romans 12:1 calls us to worship God with our whole selves, which means laying all we are on the altar, as a living
- [Revealing Your Beauty Through Flight](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/06/11/revealing-your-beauty-through-flight/) - Do you feel average? Unnoticed? Like the easiest thing for you to do would be to blend in with the masses? Get up, go to work, go home, eat, go to bed, repeat. Like millions of Americans do each day. Settling for the plainness of mediocracy, never revealing their true, glorious, Christ-revealing beauty. Today my
- [What Labels Have You Owned?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/06/18/what-labels-have-you-owned/) - She was beautiful, most likely came from a wealthy family, and would one day become the mother of an entire nation. The matriarch of a faith that would completely change the world, revealing God's plan of redemption and ultimately, leading to the fulfillment of prophesies given since the beginning of time. But when we meet
- [Will Your Hope Dissapoint?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/03/19/will-your-hope-dissapoint/) - Is your hope rightly placed or are you headed for are you headed for a painful fall? I've had many times, way too many, where I've placed my hope in the wrong things. My abilities, our stock portfolio, my husband's job, friends. And each time, those things ended up disappointing me for various reasons, but
- [Victory Over Worry](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/03/26/victory-over-worry/) - I'm fairly certain motherhood is synonymous with worry. Few things have tested and grown my faith like parenting, and with our daughter less than a year from college, my prayers are growing more frequent and fervent! Perhaps you can relate. Today biblical fiction author Stephanie Landsem expands on a well-known but ever-needed verse. As an added bonus, she's
- [Feeling Entitled? Irritated? Justified?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/03/30/feeling-entitled-irritated-justified/) - Susan Aken's title says it all, summing up our greatest cause for praise: Please Don’t Give Me What I Deserve! “Hey! I have a right to be in this lane. Get out of my way!” “Why is my pizza cold? I have a right to receive it hot and fresh. I paid for it.” “Why
- [The Next Step](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/04/02/the-next-step/) - Do you allow the unknowns to hold you back, or have you laced up your running shoes? The other night my daughter and I were talking about her future, plans, and God's call in general. She wondered why so many people end up in jobs that make them unhappy. Though I doubt there's a simple
- [Because He Reigns](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/04/09/because-he-reins/) - "If that was God’s miracle, I want nothing to do with you, God." God doesn't always show up as we expect, nor does always play out as we desire. But does that mean He isn't good? Does the chaos of our world in any way diminish or contradict His sovereignty? I almost find it funny,
- [The Key to... Everything!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/04/13/the-key-to-everything/) - Do you feel frazzled, confused, anxious, defeated? Like you're running in circles, wearing yourself out without getting anywhere? Are you spending your days and nights stressing and angsting over everything from your children's spiritual health to your job security? Whatever we fear, whatever the struggle, there's one answer: Fear of the Lord. Because fear of
- [Praying Without Words](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/04/16/praying-without-words/) - Have you ever been in desperate need of aid, but so emotionally overwrought, you couldn't find the words to pray? It was my first child, my only, actually. I'd prayed long and hard for her, deeply longing for motherhood. And then it happened--I became pregnant. ... And had an incredibly difficult and frightening pregnancy, one
- [Living With Focus](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/04/23/living-with-focus/) - There's nothing more frustrating than looking back on a busy, tiring day and realizing you've accomplished nothing. Or at least, nothing of value. Or to embark on a task, perhaps seven or eight times in a day, only to be distracted, seven or eight times. We all have those days, right? Times when our lack of
- [A Deeper Look at Baltimore](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/04/30/a-deeper-look-at-baltimore/) - Do you ever wish you could find some hidden, remote closet to hide away in? Do you ever feel like the Internet--most specifically social media--has become a breeding ground for hate? Can good--love, peace, compassion, sacrificial service, dialogue--truly overcome evil? And in the case of Baltimore, do we even have a clear idea of what
- [What Happens When God Says No](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/02/03/what-happens-when-god-says-no/) - We've all been there--at the end of a prayer prayed with everything within us. We know God can do what ask. It'd be so easy for Him. He created the universe and raised a man from the dead, after all. So what do we do when our most fervent prayer goes unanswered? Today I'm blogging
- [Get Your Battle Gear on!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/02/05/get-your-battle-gear-onalexis-goring/) - Have you ever felt like life is hurling flaming arrows at you? Like every step forward provokes yet one obstacle after another? Could be God's training you, could be He's redirecting you, or it could be you have an enemy lurking in the shadows, watching you, planning your demise. But before you become discouraged or
- [You Gotta Fight](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/02/08/you-gotta-fight/) - Love, deep, growing, intimate love doesn't just happen. You've gotta fight for it with everything you've got. Every day. Because every day, there are countless things pulling you and your spouse apart: busyness, job stress, the chaos of raising a family... the selfishness we're all consumed with. Yesterday morning I shared our battle story at an
- [Can't Buy Me Love](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/02/12/cant-buy-me-love/) - This Valentine's Day, do you find yourself pouting, fuming, frowning, maybe stomping around a bit? Or have you begun to place catalogs strategically throughout the house... opened to a particular page... with a certain necklace or bracelet circled in red? Because it's all about us, right??? It's all about what makes us happy, what we
- [Like a Moth to a Flame...](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/02/19/like-a-moth-to-a-flame/) - Pause to consider your circle. Have you surrounded yourself with others who are just like you? When was the last time you reached out to a nonbelieving neighbor or initiated conversation with a stranger? Sound frightening? Maybe. But remember, Christ has not given us a spirit of fear! Today my sweet friend, Jennifer Hallmark, shares her
- [No Safety Net](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/02/24/no-safety-net/) - I'm not much of a risk taker, and I can worry things out ten to twenty, even thirty years. This need for stability and, ultimately, control, greatly hindered my walk with Christ. Can you relate? Join me on Literally Speaking as I talk about surrender, obedience, discovering and embracing your call, and becoming Christ's hands
- [The Waves of Life](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/02/26/the-waves-of-life/) - When I was first diagnosed with fibromyalgia, (Ugh. Did I really just admit my illness, one with so many myths, judgements, and misconceptions surrounding it, online???) I felt ready to break---physically and emotionally. I thought the intense pain shooting through every ounce of my body would last forever. I've since learned those waves, or flares,
- [Jennifer Hallmark Launches Our Call to Praise Blog Hop](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/03/05/jennifer-hallmark-launches-our-call-to-praise-blog-hop/) - If you stare at something long enough, whatever it is, that thing will soon distort your vision. Everything, especially the peripheral, becomes blurry. Try it. Or maybe don't. It might give you a headache. :) Our problems are like that, aren't they? Yes, they're real. Yes, they're hard, and for some of you, incredibly hard;
- [Learning to Lean](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/03/12/learningtolean/) - 2012 was an incredibly tough, incredibly painful year for me. That was the year everything changed, but it was also one of the most incredibly beautiful periods of my life because that was the year when, day by day by day, God revealed the depth of His love and the unshakable shelter of His abiding
- [Parents, Are You Making Your Influence Count?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/12/11/parents-are-you-making-your-influence-count/) - Oh, my, does today's post hit me smack in my momma-heart. With our princess so near launch age, everything in our home has become more... intentional. Because we know our time is short, and we want every moment to count. It's like we're trying to cram all these memories into her already exploding brain. I'm not
- [Faith and... Physics? A Different Perspective on the Walking on Water Account](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/12/18/faith-and-physics-a-different-perspective-on-the-walking-on-water-account/) - Just when I'd begun to dive full-in to this faith thing, questions began to arise. Big questions. Questions that, depending on the answers, had the capacity to completely derail my faith. And that terrified me. It was as if, with every question, I was teetering on the verge of hell. Luckily, God was holding tight
- [If You Make it Through This Post, You're in the Top One Percent](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/01/01/if-you-make-it-through-this-post-youre-in-the-top-one-percent/) - They say, actually, I've said, blog titles matter. A lot. Most of you--like 89.7% of you, decided whether or not to read this post by my title alone. I have a feeling this is doubly true for my subscribers. Fail. (Actually, I'm wondering if any of y'all are receiving my posts in your inbox because my
- [The Power to Forgive](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/01/08/the-power-to-forgive/) - I've often said, forgiveness is rarely a one-time event. Nor is it an emotion, at least originally. It usually begins with a choice, sometimes a teeth-gritting, white-knuckling, Lord Jesus please help me, choice. One that must be made again and again and again, every time old wounds and negative emotions resurface. Forgiveness is rarely easy,
- [When Prayers of Avoidance Produce Counter Results](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/01/15/when-prayers-of-avoidance-produce-counter-results/) - Unanswered prayers we can deal with, but what happens when the very thing you pray fervently to avoid occurs? In secular psychology that's called aversion therapy. In Chrsitiandom it's called unexpected grace. Today Stephanie Prichard, author of Stranded, shares a time when God brought about the very thing she'd been praying He keep her from.
- [Training by Example](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/01/22/5874/) - Moms, do you ever feel like the gimmees have infiltrated your home? Like your child's main focus is himself? Since our ancestor Adam first bit of the forbidden fruit, mankind has been dominated by selfishness. Yet, according to many, this generation is the worst. I'm not sure if that's true or if technology simply makes
- [Becoming a Spiritual Cheerleader](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2015/01/29/becoming-a-spiritual-cheerleader/) - One aptly spoken accolade can go a long way toward motivating positive change, giving strength to the weary, and perseverance to those trudging through the mundane. And to the contrary--silence can sap a friend, ministry team member, child, or spouse's strength. Consider the following: My daughter loves art, and I believe she's quite good at it. But...
- [Don't Ignore God's Prompting](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/11/06/dont-ignore-gods-prompting/) - Have you ever felt a nudge, a niggling deep in your heart, urging you to do something, something that seems so strange, or perhaps so uncharacteristic for you, you decide you can't possibly be hearing God right? Therefore, you conclude that thought to be but a passing brain flutter, triggered by a sappy commercial or perhaps
- [Reaching the Fork in the Road](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/11/11/reaching-the-fork-in-the-road/) - So much struggle. So much uncertainty. So much pain. And in one moment, one simple, rational choice, she could leave it all behind. Start over. Follow the easy path. Or so it seemed.... As I read Ruth 1:1-8, I wondered how Ruth's life would have changed if she chose to leave Naomi and return to
- [](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/11/13/5790/) - He'd been betrayed by one he'd served, then by one he loved deeply--his own son. Would he become bitter? Feed his wounds with negative thinking until they festered into a darkened heart? I've been following the life of King David, from the time he slew his first giant, Goliath, to when the most destructive giant of
- [Finding Our Calling--the In Between Years](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/11/18/finding-our-calling-the-in-between-years/) - Your heart was stirred and you responded with enthusiasm, determination, and focus. But that was so long ago, you barely remember the call. In fact, you've begun to doubt it. Did you really hear God? Is He in this? Has He given up on me or changed His mind? You accepted the job, anxious for
- [Moving Past the Comfortable to the Extraordinary](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/11/20/moving-past-the-comfortable-to-the-extraordinary/) - Is your love for the convenient and comfortable keeping you from the extraordinary? Today a sweet friend and talented author of Entrusted, Julie Arduini, challenges us to evaluate our life, opening ourselves up to God's nudging, even if that nudging terrifies us or leads us well out of our comfort zones. Moving Beyond the Comfortable
- [Are You Teachable?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/11/25/are-you-teachable/) - "I'll do it myself!" the two-year-old cries, stomping his pudgy food with fisted hands. "I know what I'm doing," says the stressed-out teenager who's convinced they have a strong grasp on reality--and that we, the adults in their world, don't. "That editor just doesn't get me!" says the writer who's convinced their book is the
- [Why it Matters What Others Think](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/12/02/why-it-matters-what-others-think/) - Did my blog title cause your hackles to rise? With today's appearance/performance centered culture, most of us must fight daily to bring everything back to surrendered obedience. Blog posts and Youtube videos abound countering our culture's shallow and exhausting trend, and with good reason. So rest assured, I'm not going to tell you to jump back
- [Are You Repellant or Attractive](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/12/04/5824/) - Are you repellant or attractive? Pause to think of that for a moment. Consider your interactions with others. Are people drawn to you or do they try to avoid you? How do they feel after having spent time with you? This is an area I feel God has been challenging me in lately. Daily, He's
- [Looking Beyond Ourselves](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/12/09/looking-beyond-ourselves/) - How deep, how far reaching, is your hope? Before you give the appropriate Christian answer, pause and evaluate your life. Your words. Those thoughts that whisper to you throughout the day and keep you awake at night. Surrender. Releasing our life to a bigger plan, whether we can see the details or not. Looking past
- [Prayers From the Heart](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/09/18/prayers-from-the-heart/) - There are some things that instantly cause my stomach to knot and my pulse to race, and that's heights, the threat of car accidents, and journeying into the unknown. Today my friend and fellow ACFW author, Gail Pollatta, combines three of my most intense fears into a post that made me cringe, and think, and
- [The Waiting Place](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/09/25/the-waiting-place/) - Oh, how I hate to wait! I will embark upon insanely strange endeavors to avoid doing nothing, often creating quite a mess in the process. I want to DO! Something! Anything! Standing in line at the grocery? A perfect time to check emails! Stop lights? A time to return phone calls. Commercials? A wonderful opportunity to bounce
- [The Blessings of Trials](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/10/02/the-blessings-of-trials/) - I'm formatting this post through tear-blurred vision, amazed once again by God's mercy and grace. Those who know me personally know I'm not the most advanced-thinking, detail-oriented writer on the web. Lately, with book edits and launch responsibilities, this has proved more true than ever. The result--I don't often read the guest posts authors send
- [Huge Discount on Contemporary Christian Novel](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/10/08/huge-discount-on-christian-fiction-novel/) - For those of you who've been waiting for an excuse to purchase my debut novel, Beyond I Do, how's a ginormous Amazon sale? I just learned (a bit by accident. ;) ) that my contemporary romance novel is on sale for only $2.99! (kindle verson) (Maybe this sale is in preparation for my sophomore novel,
- [When Time Stands Still](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/10/09/when-time-stands-still/) - One of my most difficult, painful, and frightening years also became my best. In a very strange way. If God had given me a choice, I would've taken a major detour, skipping past 2012 entirely. And yet, had I done that, I would've missed the deep sense of God's presence as He met with me
- [The heat of Trials](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/10/16/the-heat-of-trials/) - I've often said parenting is the most excruciatingly rewarding job I'll ever possess. Last night we had parent teacher conferences and learned of some things that made my mamma-bear rise up. I've been in prayer over this situation since, and though my husband and I feel the need to address the issue, we also realize
- [Raise the Flag But Never Retreat](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/10/23/raise-the-flag-but-never-retreat/) - Do you ever feel like you're done? Wiped out, ready to toss out your clocks, to-do lists, and pocket calendars and head back to bed? For ever? We all have those days, periods of time when it feels as if we're on a rapidly moving treadmill. Or three. All going in different directions. I've heard
- [Beyond I Do Bible Study Group!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/10/27/beyond-i-do-bible-study-group/) - Good morning and happy Monday! I continually hear from readers how my debut novel has stretched their thinking in some area or challenged them to embrace a deeper level of surrender in order to grab hold of the abundant life Christ offers. I cannot express how encouraging it is to know my writing is being
- [Christian, It's Time to Step Out!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/10/30/christian-its-time-to-step-out/) - If you're reading this post right now, God has a plan for you. A glorious, fulfilling plan that can quicken even the most lethargic pulse. One that can give meaning to the mundane and add joy to the most excruciating--or mind numbing--of trials. I've stayed home for over seventeen years now. That's been 17 years
- [Living Fully Present in the Present](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/07/24/living-fully-present-in-the-present/) - Ten years ago, one could go to a restaurant and see families actually talking. They could hold a conversation--like a full, twenty minute one--without the beep of an incoming text or emails halting it. But then came smart phones and Facebook and all those alerts and instant messages that come with it, and suddenly, these
- [You Know My Words Before I Spill Them](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/07/31/you-know-my-words-before-i-spill-them/) - Sometimes I think I'd do well to bind my mouth with duct tape before going out. From blurted inconsideracies to complaints and arguments over trivial things that, when pointed out, reveal more about me than the actual issue. Why, oh why is the tongue so hard to tame? Or am I the only one eating my
- [If God's Not in This...](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/08/07/if-gods-not-in-this/) - Some days it feels like my fingers--and brain--are flying. Like vivid scenes are flashing behind my eyes (not before, because I'm pretty sure that'd make me schizophrenic.) so quickly, I can barely keep up. Then there are days that every word, every punctuation key, is a struggle. And I wonder, Lord, are you in
- [Giving Your Best](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/08/14/giving-your-best/) - Two brothers, one blessing, and a mother who effectively turns one against the other. Family dysfunction forever recorded in the pages of Scripture. How would you like to leave that as your legacy? Legacy. Does that word make you cringe? If you're a parent, I'm pretty sure you've struggled with guilt, fear, and feelings of
- [When technology fails.](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/08/21/when-technology-fails/) - There's one thing bound to initiate panic in any writer's life. Can you guess what that is? I'll wait... You have three guesses. I do hope, even though you'll likely read my answer well before you reach the "share comments section" that you'll tell us your guesses anyway. :) All that to say, I'm having
- [In Over Your Head](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/08/22/in-over-your-head/) - Do you ever feel like you're drowning? Like the demands on your time or talents have far exceeded your storehouse? Today's post by Paula Vince couldn't have come at a better time. Managing a book launch while organizing and facilitating a major fundraising event has kept me busy. Not insanely busy, but busy enough to
- [Do You See What He Sees](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/08/28/do-you-see-what-he-sees/) - Why am I seeing Tim Hawkin's face as I type today's title? The one that's been making all the FB rounds. In case you haven't seen it... I know it's not quite Christmas, though stores are decorating for Halloween, so, holly and tinsel is just around the corner, right? Anyway, watch and enjoy: Now back
- [Are You a Noise Maker or a Loving Ambassador?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/09/04/are-you-a-noise-maker-or-a-loving-ambassador/) - We all have friends, co-workers, neighbors that grate on us. Those who appear to be seeking a ready and devoted audience, who's only aim is to convince others of their beliefs and opinions... at all costs. Then we have those friends who vacillate between varying ideologies, whatever one is the most popular at the time, so
- [The Truth About Marriage](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/09/11/the-truth-about-marriage/) - Standing at the altar, you have no idea what lies ahead. Oh, you've heard stories. And countless people--like everyone in your church, neighborhood, on the job, and at your local grocery--have bombarded you with advice: marriage takes work. Always be ready to forgive. Learn to eat burned food (kinda wish someone would've told my hubby
- [Red Lights, Detours, and Closed Roads](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/05/22/red-lights-detours-and-closed-roads/) - Ispontaneous I'm not. To put it mildly. I love lists and ten-to-twenty year plans with each step of the journey mapped out. Funny how life has a way of turning my game plan upside down. Or should I say, it's glorious how God has a way of turning my best-laid plans upside down, because from
- [Unexpected Gifts](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/05/29/unexpected-gifts/) - God's ways are so not like ours, and I praise Him for that. Today Angela Strong, author of Lighten Up, talks about the nature of God revealed through a chemo-patient and blessed her with unexpected gift. But first, I wanted to thank my sweet friend, Kristena Tunstall, for nominating my blog for the Liebster award.
- [Week in Review](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/05/31/week-in-review-3/) - Yes, I realize these reviews are a bit less than weekly, but I don't always have something newsworthy to share. :) But today, I do. In the Book world: Two of Cynthia Ruchti's books took top honors at the Selah Awards at the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writers Conference last week. Her novel, When the Morning
- [Overcoming Insecurity](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/06/12/overcoming-insecurity/) - I am becoming increasingly aware of how incredibly prideful I am, and how isolating pride can be. I doubt I'm alone in this. We live in a culture where strength and independence are valued and weakness disdained. And I suspect, we often assume expectations and perceive judgement when none exists. Or maybe when it does, because we
- [If You're Breathing...](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/06/19/if-youre-breathing/) - Life swings like a pendulum, with moments of frantic activity and periods of lull. Of changes and adjustments and figuring things out. There's a flux to things, and I believe, a God-ordained flux at that as He aligns His children where He longs for them to be to carry out the task that He assigned. If we
- [Randomness From Across the Web](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/06/26/randomness-from-across-the-web/) - Talk about ironic. Or laziness. Not laziness so much as, well, it doesn't matter. I'm about to break maybe every rule I wrote about on Seriously Write yesterday. The title of this post stinks; my opening line reads more like a diary than an attention grabbing piece, and a chunk of what will follow will likely
- [Great Weakness, Powerful Ministry](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/07/03/great-weakness-powerful-ministry/) - Broken and beautiful. I've seen it again and again. Those who've experienced the greatest pain and struggle most often have the most powerful ministry. Because they get it, and by "it" I mean a plethora of things: pain, weakness, frailty, humility, utter and desperate dependence of God, and the intense comfort He provides when we're
- [Longing Unfulfilled](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/07/10/longing-unfulfilled/) - If only... Oh, the things I could do; the joy I'd have; the love I'd display! We've all had those days, times where we look at our hurdles, raise our eyes to heaven, and remind God of how different things could be if only He'd do X or Y. Like we need--or even have the
- [Cultivating a Thankful Heart](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/07/17/cultivating-a-thankful-heart/) - That noise! It grates on our every last nerve and sets the hairs on our neck on edge. It's worse than nails scraping on chalkboard or our spouse grinding their teeth at night. It's that high-pitched, face scrunched, body slumped whine. Parents, you know exactly what I'm talking about, don't you? God does, too. Only
- [Following God-given Dreams](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/04/10/following-god-given-dreams/) - You sense God calling you, nudging you to surrender fully to His call, but you're not sure where that will lead. To make matters worse, doubts, fears, and insecurities well within, making it hard to zero in on that still, small voice that speaks courage and peace and confidence. This journey of obedience, of full
- [Week in Review](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/04/12/week-in-review/) - So much is happening lately, I've decided to use Saturdays for a "Week in Review". Book highlights: ACFW Professional Relations Liason, Cynthia Ruchti, is a double finalist in Christian Retailing's Best Awards--When the Morning Glory Blooms in General Fiction, and Ragged Hope: Surviving the Fallout of Other People's Choices in Nonfiction:Women. Read more here: Christian Retailing's
- [Am I Listening?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/04/24/am-i-listening/) - Oh, the messes I get myself in, all because I speak before I think. Often, before listening, which leads to a fair amount of miscommunications and relational tension. To listen, truly listen... That's the call of a great friend, right? And a good wife and mother? Ouch! Today author Cynthia Toney, author of Bird Face, talks
- [Week in Review](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/04/26/week-in-review-2/) - Happy, sunshiny, springy Saturday! The biggest news in my corner is that it appears spring has finally sprung and might even hang around for a while. :) Which is great, because I'm helping with a garage sale tomorrow hosted to help fund the Burch family's adoption fees. You can read more about them and their
- [A Hope That Overshadows Despair](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/04/29/a-hope-that-overshadows-despair/) - Each day, I fight a battle: will I choose joy and surrender or despair. With every thought, I teeter in one direction or another. Right now, I'm in more of a grit-my-teeth mode as a busy weekend and what appears to be an unsuccessful attempt to wean off some meds have set me back. Last
- [A Life in Review](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/05/08/a-life-in-review/) - Time is a funny thing. It zips by when you want to hold on to it most and drags when you're in a hurry. Lately, I feel as if I've been in the zip stage. In fact, the clock started ticking louder the moment our daughter started touring colleges. She has one more year. One
- [Moving Past Vehement Rejection](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/05/15/moving-past-vehement-rejection/) - Adulthood--those glorious years when you know middle school, with its cliques and snip-pickety personalities are far behind you and you expect the adults you encounter to hold a semblance of maturity. To handle their issues in an adultlike manner. We certainly don't expect to be the brunt of temper-tantrum antics. Until something happens, something quite
- ["Needy" Friends](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/02/20/needy-friends/) - Sometimes we just need a friend, someone who sees us, really sees us, and steps in to help, support, and encourage. And sometimes we need to be that friend, seeing others, stepping in to help, support, and encourage. But what happens when we give and give and give and our efforts aren't reciprocated? That hurts,
- [Mercies in Disguise](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/02/27/mercies-in-disguise/) - Life is full of hardships; hardships that leave unanswered questions, perhaps the greatest of which are "Why?" and "How long?" I know many of you are dealing with extremely difficult situations: financial, health, loss of loved ones. Situations that can easily rock one's world and faith. Driving to church last Sunday, with me coming out
- [Elephant Man Reflections](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/03/06/elephant-man-reflections/) - Mankind can be insanely cruel. From political leaders who murder entire races to parents who abuse then abandon their children, it seems there is no limit to the atrocities inflicted upon man by man. And yet, humans can also be incredibly empathetic, looking deep into the wounded heart of another, a heart that touches their
- [College Touring](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/03/12/college-touring/) - I know, I know, today's my regular blogging day and my day to host Living by Grace, but I'm a bit occupied. :) This is one of those monumental parenting weeks where my husband and I are coming to terms with the reality of empty nesting. It's funny, I never thought this would be an
- [Life After Kids by Eileen Rife](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/03/18/life-after-kids-by-eileen-rife/) - Life After Kids by Eileen Rife.
- [The Dangers of Comparison](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/03/20/the-dangers-of-comparison/) - However strong you are, there's always someone stronger. There's always someone smarter, more talented, more patient... a better cook, a better parent, a better spouse. Surrounded by so many folks who are better than us in so many ways, how can we ever measure up??? Isn't it nice to know we don't have to? Today
- [Trust Amidst Chaos](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/03/27/trust-amidst-chaos/) - Sometimes you pray and pray and pray for something to come about, only to be led in a different direction. Or maybe that moment that seems so perfect for a dream, goal, or long-desired outcome to occur comes and goes. And were left wondering, why? When? We know intellectually that God's ways are quite different
- [Dragon Slayers!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/04/03/dragon-slayers/) - If you've been following my blog long, you know I adore my husband. For so very many reasons! But early in my marriage, I often missed out on his dragon-slaying heroics, not because they weren't there, but rather, because I was far too focused on the burps and hiccups and casually-tossed dirty laundry. Our marriage changed
- [Beyond Christmas](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/12/24/beyond-christmas/) - I'm the queen of distraction. I easily get caught up in the tinsel and carols and cinnamon smells of the season, but this year God used a squirrel-like husband and a box of old ornaments to center me in Him and the essence of Christmas. You can read more about that crazy yet emotional morning
- [Forced to Choose](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/01/02/forced-to-choose/) - It's a choice I never wanted to make. It tore me up, tore my daughter up, and I'm pretty sure, it tore my husband up as well. But when a situation arose where I had to choose between my husband and my child, I knew there was really only one choice I could make. For
- [Time to Breathe](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/01/09/time-to-breathe/) - Yesterday was a pause, remember, and reflect day where I celebrated all God has done in my life and renewed my committment to follow whole-heartedly after Him. Which implies I will consistently take the time to actually listen for His direction. That's the hard part, isn't it? Especially when things get crazy. Today multi-published author
- [Must We Love Ourselves to Love Others?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/01/16/must-we-love-ourselves-to-love-others/) - Love. Such a confusing, abstract emotion. It's something we "fall into" and "out of", something we chase after... There's a notion that says "You must love yourself in order to love others." Is this true? Biblical? I'm no theologian, but I can't locate a verse that says this. In fact, again and again, God tells
- [In Our Brokenness](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/01/23/in-our-brokenness/) - Oh, how I wish heaven would come to earth now. To live without brokenness, sadness, or sickness, without hatred or evil. And yet, what would my life, my faith, look like today if I'd never experienced the struggles in my past? It's an interesting question to ponder. Today a sweet friend of mine, Marji Laine
- [Fussing, Fretting, Fiddling](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/01/30/fussing-fretting-fiddling/) - Oh, to learn to be still. To take each day, each task, one at a time. To find the balance between doing and restfully abiding! I've heard we all need a bit of Mary and Martha, and I'd agree. Although I think I'd like to be able to work like Martha *while* abiding like Mary.
- [Triumphing in Christ](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/02/06/triumphing-in-christ/) - I know a chunk of you are dealing with major health concerns. Our faith and emotions can be dramatically affected by how we feel physically. If you're struggling to keep your head up, or even if you lack the energy to keep treading, may you find encouragement in today's devotion, written by multi-published author and
- [Taking Time to Reach Their Heart](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2014/02/14/reaching-their-heart/) - Happy chocolate, roses, and lots of snuggles day! :) As a fun Valentine's Day treat, I encourage you to pop over to Family Fiction to read my short inspirational romance titled, Love Long Lost but Not Forgotten. With my debut novel, Beyond I Do, releasing from New Hope Publishers this fall, I thought some of
- [A More Complete Thanksgiving](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/11/11/a-more-complete-thanksgiving/) - This weekend was a beautiful time of connecting with friends and family, and it got me rather excited for Thanksgiving with all its wonderful smells and heart-swelling gatherings. And yet, I sense God wants me to do more than celebrate His provisions. Join me at Takin' it to the Streets as I discuss what I
- [Thank God It's NOT About ME!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/11/14/thank-god-its-not-about-me/) - Today I'm thrilled to have fellow ACFW member, Sherri Stone here on my blog. I don't know about you, but I'm beginning to notice a common theme in the devotions I've posted lately. And no, I don't plan what my guest bloggers write about. ;) The theme? Pretty sure it's clear in her title. Wow,
- [Sowing With Words](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/11/21/sowing-with-words/) - I know you're going to find this hard to believe, but I love words. Not just stories or articles or devotions, but words in and of themselves. And everything--everything--has a backstory... Including the backstory. ;) But sometimes, I'm so wordy, things spill out of my mouth before I've allowed them to swirl through my brain
- [Not Another Blog????](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/11/26/not-another-blog/) - Um... yeah. For now, anyway. Each day, it seems, I encounter someone else struggling with chronic illness, and I've seen how much health can impact our mood, how we view ourselves, and our relationships with others and God. I don't have all the answers. In fact, I might have 0 answers, but I've decided to
- [Stockinged Feet](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/12/03/stockinged-feet/) - Parents, everything we do and say affects not only the atmosphere of our home and family relationships, but has the capacity to penetrate deep into our children's hearts as well. At each moment, we are either building up or tearing down. I don't know about you, but things can get pretty frazzled in the Slattery
- [Strength in the Struggle](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/12/12/strength-in-the-struggle/) - I've been called, by those who know me best and care for me most: A pit bull ("but in a good way") A tornado (Um... thanks???) Stubborn, determined... bull-headed A bull in a china cabinet (Okay, so maybe hubby wasn't complimenting me on this one. In fact, I think he was a bit irritated. Ok,
- [In Honor of An Amazing Woman](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/12/15/in-honor-of-an-amazing-woman/) - There are some people in life that you wish you knew. That you know, had you had the time to connect with them over coffee, or to simply overhear their daily conversations, you'd be better. Stronger. More impactful. Because impactful people inspire others to be impactful. I regret to say, I didn't know Diann Hunt,
- [Taking Hold of My Marbles!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/12/20/taking-hold-of-my-marbles/) - Do you remember those nights when you bolted awake at every sniffle, whimper, or rustling sound your baby made? The days when you wished naptimes were just a wee bit longer? When you wondered if you'd ever be able to spend five minutes alone, eat a meal uninterrupted, or get out of the house without
- [Daily Act of Kindness Challenge](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/10/03/daily-act-of-kindness-challenge/) - If you're one of my lovely Facebook friends, you've probably already learned about this challenge. It's similar to the Reach Out to Live Out we did some time back. Which was totally awesome! I loved reading about the many diverse ways God's children reached out to others and experienced God's love pouring through them. In
- [While I Waited](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/10/07/while-i-waited/) - At my first major writers' conference, the worship band played a particularly stirring song, one that has stuck with me ever since. It's called "Waiting," by John Waller. The song struck me as odd at first. I wondered, are we ever really waiting? Or are we to use every moment, every thought, every day to
- [Hope For the Soul](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/10/10/hope-for-the-soul/) - I receive emails from many of you, pressing on along the path of God's calling, and although I do hear of your your celebrations, I also hear of discouragement, of fatigue, of doubt. All normal emotions in any ministry, but as Christians set apart for service by our risen Savior, we must learn to keep
- [Who is God? Seeking Answers From the Source](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/10/17/who-is-god-seeking-answers-from-the-source/) - We all have ideas of who God is. Some of those ideas are grounded in truth, others are assumptions we've made or are based on random things we've heard throughout our lives. When discussing who God is, I'm often amused by mankind's adherence to their assumptions--as if they have the right to determine who God
- [When God Nudges ... Numerous Times](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/10/24/when-god-nudges-numerous-times/) - It's late October, and many of you are thinking of pumpkins, candy corn, and, well, maybe even dead people. If you're not, I encourage you to, although my version of dead might surprise you. ;) Come see what I mean by clicking here. Today, I'm thrilled to share a story my sister, Jesseca Randall, shared
- [It's as Simple as Surrender](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/10/28/its-as-simple-as-surrender/) - My husband and I spend a good deal of time praying over and for our daughter. We are so excited to see what God has in store for her, but there's also a weight that remains on our shoulders. Are we teaching her enough? Pushing her enough? Giving her enough grace? And where is that
- [Rethinking Failure](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/10/31/rethinking-failure/) - The big F. When you sense a divine nudge, step out in faith even though your knees are buckling, sweat is cascading down your spine, and your stomach feels as if an army of ants not only took up residence but are engaged in some crazy acrobatics, and nothing, absolutely nothing, goes as planned.
- [Does Prayer Work](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/11/07/does-prayer-work/) - What do you say to a woman who's lost her child? Or what about the man who, after night after night of fervent prayer, remains unemployed? What of the friend who continues to struggle with chronic illness despite all the intercessors praying for her healing? And how do we reconcile these things when we prayed
- [One Day At A Time](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/07/29/one-day-at-a-time/) - This past week, our family went on vacation. We had a wonderful time, but as often seems to be the case, there were numerous days my body chose to rebel. On the drive home, not feeling well, I asked my husband, "Is this how I'm going to feel for the rest of my life?" (Yes,
- [No Stepford Wives for God](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/07/31/no-stepford-wives-for-god/) - I think we've all asked the question a time or two. And when evil or illness or heartache touches us or someone we love, the question rages louder. Some questions, I believe, will never be fully answered--fully understood--this side of heaven. But in the meantime, God allows us to ponder immensely confusing questions, and I
- [Don't Give Up!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/08/08/dont-give-up-2/) - This past July, my husband and I celebrated eighteen years of marriage. And every time we celebrate yet another year, I'm reminded of the day when everything almost fell apart. And all I can say is, praise God He intervened, for if He hadn't, I would've lost the love of my life. (You can read
- [Loving Without an Agenda](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/08/12/loving-without-an-agenda/) - Today I'm blogging at Takin' it to the Streets, sharing my thoughts on a topic very close to my heart--agenda-based love. It's a "love" I've experienced and sadly, one I've dished out. But it's certainly not a love I wish to perpetuate! No one likes to be someone else’s project, well, unless maybe you’re on
- [Stand Firm!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/08/22/stand-firm/) - But generous people plan to do what is generous, and they stand firm in their generosity (Isaiah 32:8). Generous, loving, compassionate people, spirit-led people, plan to do what is generous and kind. They analyze situations, watch their loved ones closely, alert to their needs--spoken or unspoken, financial or emotional. And then they make a plan
- [Finding Freedom](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/08/23/finding-freedom/) - I suspect most of you are aware, I'm passionate about pointing others to Jesus--about helping others find and experience the most passionate and intimate love-relationship they'll ever find. But my motivations might surprise you. Yes, I get heaven and hell, and yes, I realize eternity is ultra important, but honestly, I'm pretty temporal. (Not saying
- [Transformation](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/08/29/transformation/) - A few years ago, one of the Proverbs 31 gals said something on the radio that really stuck. When talking about her faith-walk, she said she quit expecting perfection and instead focused on imperfect progress. (Paraphrasing from my imperfect memory. :) ) Wow, there's a lot of wisdom there, huh? And what a positive, growth-encouraging
- [Jairus' Daughter--What Would I Have Done](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/09/05/what-would-i-have-done/) - We have a winner! Pam Bock, congrats! You won your choice of Becky Lyles' books! I'll be in contact with you shortly. Thanks so much for stopping by my blog last week! And to everyone else--bummed you didn't win last week's book give-away? No worries! We have another book give-away today. :) The winner will
- [Hope Lives Here: Lost and Found](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/09/12/hope-lives-here-lost-and-found/) - Today I am thrilled to have Janet Bly, widow to the legendary Stephen Bly who passed away in 2011, as my guest. I was honored to read and review her husband's last novel, Stuart Brannon's Final Shot, and I loved it! But what I loved even more than the Stephen's literary genius was the fact
- [The Who-What-Where-and-Why of You!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/09/19/the-who-what-where-and-why-of-you/) - Do you ever feel like your brain is combatting itself? Fighting against those nasty lies we soak up and buy into with truth? Clinging to your identity in Christ while echoes of self-loathing swim through your head? Today Larry Timm, fellow ACFW writer and a man who has made countless readers literally laugh out loud
- [It's Time to Live Big](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/09/27/its-time-to-live-big/) - It's funny how God works. Three, maybe four years ago, one of my seminary professors had me write up a ministry plan. (It was a class assignment.) Putting your God-dreams on paper has a way of stoking the fire. And for writers like me who easily slip back and forth between real-life and dreamworld, I
- [Ti2tS--Lifted Up](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/06/10/ti2ts-lifted-up/) - Today I'm blogging at Takin' it to the Streets, pondering the truth and power of the cross. Join me in pondering this thought--does glory come through death?
- [Invoice or Love Letter](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/06/20/invoiceorloveletter/) - Wow, it's been a loooooong time since I've updated this blog. I apologize. We've been moving--yes, again. Only a short distance this time--down the street. (Long, boring story that has nothing to do with today's post. ;) ) But with moving comes packing, fence and deck painting, unpacking, cleaning, and more cleaning. Did I mention
- [What Does God Expect of Us?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/06/27/what-does-god-expect-of-us/) - Most of you know, our family moved from one state to another last summer. Moving is always hard, but for teens, I believe, even more so. Our daughter really struggled ... but God met her, met all of us, through a loving church. Truly, the youth group helped carry our daughter through that time. Today
- [Free--Sweet Freedom With a Slice of Peach Cobbler](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/06/28/free-sweet-freedom-with-a-slice-of-peach-cobbler/) - Sweet Freedom With a Slice of Peach Cobbler--a compilation of stories, testimonials, poems and devotions celebrating the freedom found in Christ, free to all my subscribers. In these pages you will read stories of people held in bondage by fears, bitterness, and deep emotional wounds, set free by their loving, compassionate, all powerful Savior. The
- [Now Free on Kindle!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/07/03/now-free-on-kindle/) - All Affra wanted was to find love--real love, but her desperation led her into the arms of an angry, lust-filled man, a man who, like all the others she'd known, used her for his pleasure than tossed her aside. But one afternoon, she met another man--one unlike any she'd known before. Could this man love
- [Faith Lived Out](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/07/04/faith-lived-out/) - Before I get too far, it has come to my attention that I forgot to post the link to Sweet Freedom's free kindle version. Here it is: http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00DPN8WAY For formatting and cost reasons, the kindle version is black and white. For those of you who want the full-color PDF version, let me know and I can
- [I'll Fix it Myself!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/07/11/ill-fix-it-myself/) - Independence and perseverance is a great thing ... except when it's not. ;) So when does an admirable quality lead to a weakness? Read Elizabeth Maddrey's devotion to find out. I was born into a strong-willed family. Both of my parents are smart, independent, stubborn, and strong-willed. My grandparents were, too. And my sister and
- [Answered Prayer](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/07/18/answered-prayer/) - There have been times when obedience seemed to come easy, like when I'm serving in a well-established, fine-tuned ministry or bonding with our daughter over nail polish and ice cream. There are other times when my obedience takes surrendered faith--like when we moved from our beloved KC to our now equally loved Papillion. But through
- [Thou Shalt Not ... Condemn Thyself](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/07/25/thou-shalt-not-condemn-thyself/) - You confessed your sin, asked for forgiveness, and have made a determined effort to do better. So why does that niggling shame refuse to lift? Today author Candi Pullen shares her personal experience with perfectionism and self-condemnation and how Jesus freed her from this ugly cycle. But before you go any further, I want to
- [A Dying Daughter Asks a Question Her Mother Couldn't Answer](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/05/09/a-dying-daughter-asks-a-question-her-mother-cant-answer/) - Watching your daughter fight for life must be unbearable. Hearing her gut-honest questions--questions that appear to have no answers this side of heaven--is unfathomable. So how did Teresa Pollard answer the heart-wrenching question--why do bad things happen to good people? Not with words, but with love. Today, after her daughter's death, she addresses the question
- [I Saw You](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/05/11/i-saw-you/) - To my Mom I don't remember when you visited me in the neonatal ICU every day, sometimes twice a day, for the first 18 days of my life I don't remember how you washed every part of the house, including curtains, when I was an infant to keep my pneumonia-prone lungs free of illness I
- [Marriage 101 and Dr. Who](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/05/16/marriage101anddrwho/) - Biblical marriage is meant to be a beautiful thing--a living demonstration of Christ's love and intimacy for and with the church. But marriage, no matter how blissful, should ever steal our hearts from our true bride groom. Today Joi Copeland shares a truth God showed her through Dr. Who of all things. Me and Dr.
- [For Whose Glory](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/05/24/for-whose-glory/) - My suitcase was packed, my flight purchased, my itinerary tucked in my over-stuffed carry-on. In a few short days, I'd be heading to the beautiful Blue Ridge mountains to meet some dear friends--friends I'd prayed for and with, swapped writing with, cared deeply for, but had never met in person. But I wasn't sure if
- [God Doesn't Need Pew Warmers](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/05/27/god-doesnt-need-pew-warmers/) - Have you ever been tempted to cry out, "But I don't have enough time!"? We live in a chaotic, distracting world, and when running in circles, scrambling to keep our feet from tripping over our laces--or the mounds of other shoes strewn throughout the house, it's easy to buy into the lie that there's just
- [Love Protects](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/05/30/love-protects/) - There are some words that don't belong together: church and catty grace and grudge friends and fall out Love and lash-out We all make mistakes, and when we do, what we long for more than anything is active, determined, persevering grace. This longing echoes God's merciful heart, and if we are men and women after
- [Finding Peace Every Day](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/06/03/finding-peace-every-day/) - Today author Mary Ball shares her thoughts on grabbing hold of God's peace during painful times. Finding Peace Every Day by Mary Ball Life is a constant roller-coaster. One day we have the world at our feet, the next day we are struggling just to stay focused. One of the most emotional journeys we take
- [Before You Say I Do](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/06/05/before-you-say-i-do/) - I realize most of my readers are past the flutter tummy stage, but perhaps your children or grandchildren are nearing this phase. If so, pop over to Now What to read about finding God's best helpmate. :) Finding 'Til Death Do We Part
- [Through God's Eyes](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/06/06/through-gods-eyes/) - The other day, I learned of some negative, unwarranted, and inaccurate comments spoken about someone I care deeply for. And the more I thought about the injustice of the situation, the more upset I became. So I turned to God in prayer, asking Him to take away my negative emotions--emotions that were souring my stomach
- [](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/03/07/4986/) - How often have you wished there was more of you to go around? That you had more oomph for your day, more day in your week? And how much of your "doing" is getting in the way of your "being"? I loved this post by the children's and life groups pastor at my church. I'd
- [Tears Not Wasted](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/03/14/tears-not-wasted/) - I think we've all had times where all we can pray is, "Lord, why?" Why me? Why now? Why this? Unfortunately, I don't believe God always gives us answers this side of heaven, but every once in a while, we catch a glimpse of God's glorious, loving plan. And when that happens, all we can
- [When God Feels Distant](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/03/21/when-god-feels-distant/) - God created us to be feeling beings, and many times, our emotions can be our safeguard. A knotted stomach can signal danger, frustration or anger can stir us to pray. But our feelings can also be deceiving. There are times when we can't feel God's presence, but that doesn't mean He's left us. In fact,
- [](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/03/28/5001/) - Have you ever felt God nudge you to do something so out of the norm, so unexpected, you frantically searched for a "unless" clause? There have been countless times when God's dropped me in something I felt ill-equipped or ill-prepared for, but looking back, those have been the times when I've felt closest to God
- [Healer of Broken Hearts](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/04/04/healer-of-broken-heart/) - Today's devotion written by author and blogger, James C. Magruder, focuses on one of my favorite verses: Psalm 34:18. You may be familiar with the quote by CS Lewis that says, "God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks to us in our conscience, but shouts in our pains..." I'd choose a different wording here,
- [Seeing Rainbows Not Rain](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/04/15/seeing-rainbows-not-rain/) - There are times when I'm blown away by the love and grace of believers, then there are other times, well... I suppose I must remind myself that we are all a work in progress with a bit of Adam lingering. And I must also remind myself that there are times, way more than I'd like
- [Chasing Rainbows--Part 2](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/04/18/chasing-rainbows-part-2/) - I wonder if one of the reasons we find rainbows so beautiful is because they are most often seen in the midst of a storm. How brightly their colors shine set in a background of gray! Whether that gray comes from storm clouds or an extended absence of sun. When our daughter was young, she
- [The Nasty C Word](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/04/25/the-nasty-c-word/) - Change is inevitable. Sometimes it's exciting, like when one embarks on a new career or welcomes home an infant. Other times, well ... Today my dear friend and fellow Living by Grace Hostess, Maria Morgan, encourages us to grab hold of God as we follow Him toward where ever He leads, change and all. 3
- [Thoughts From My Proverbs-Study Friends](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/02/11/thoughts-from-my-proverbs-study-friends/) - As our Proverbs Study members read through each day's suggested text, God pricks their hearts and minds with fresh insights into how to live out His Word in the day-to-day. For those of you following our reading plan, I thought you might enjoy the following: Back when the 99% movement hit the news and social
- [Avoiding Mental Detours](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/02/14/avoiding-mental-detour/) - I've heard it said and believe, most often, our greatest battles begin and end in the mind. Today, fellow Yahoo Bible study member and dear friend, Beth Farley challenges us to keep our thoughts on that good, straight path. Avoiding Mental Detours by Beth Farley The guilty walk a crooked path; the innocent travel a
- [Winner, Winner, Cheesecake Dinner!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/02/15/winner-winner-cheesecake-dinner/) - Okay, so I don't have cheesecake, and my title is probably way too close to the original, verging on cliche'. But I do truly have a winner! J. Morgan, congrats! You were randomly chosen to receive a novel of your choice from Jude Urbanski! I will be contacting you via email shortly. And to all
- [Though You Trip and Fall](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/02/19/though-you-trip-and-fall/) - The other night, my husband and I were talking about the state of our marriage, and we've noticed a surprising trend. When times get tough, we grow closer. Now, I know, according to the oft spoken clichés, that's the way it's supposed to happen, right? But I suspect it doesn't always. During times of trial,
- [Hidden Treasures](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/02/21/hidden-treasures/) - Today my sweet friend and fellow Yahoo Bible study member, Beth Farley, is back talking about a verse I have long loved. The Word of God is unlike any other book we will ever encounter. Hebrews 4:12 tells us it is "living and active," and I've found this to be quite true. When we open
- [Choices--One Man's Near Death Encounter](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/02/25/choices-one-mans-near-death-encounter/) - Today, my guest, James Willcox, author of Choices, tells us of an encounter he faced that radically changed his view on life. Although you and I likely won't face a life or death experience, God gives us each the same choice: to live or die. There is only one way to truly live ... What
- [A Happy Helpmate](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/02/28/a-happy-helpmat/) - Today we conclude our two-month Proverbs study with an insightful post by devotional writer, Cheri Salwall. I like to think of the Christian marriage in terms of it's missional purpose. We are our spouse's helpmate not merely to make their life easier or to help them find intimacy, as important as those things are, but
- [Fixated](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/03/04/fixated/) - She stands on the end of a diving board 10 meters, 33 feet in the air. The crowd cheers, threatening to steal her concentration. If she'll let them. But she won't. She can't. Her performance, perhaps even her life, depends on it, for one wrong move, one poorly executed jump or over-rotated twist could send
- [Choosing Hope](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/28/choosing-hope/) - A while back, I read a beautiful account of how one mother trained hope in her child, and I immediately thought of Proverbs 13:12. It seems we humans can endure almost anything, as long as we have hope. Hope for change, hope for love or companionship, hope that whatever we are facing won't last forever.
- [Just Do it!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/31/just-do-it/) - If you've been following my blog, you know I've been working my way through Proverbs, focusing on one application centered in one truth each day. But all the focus in the world amounts to naught if I don't couple it with follow through. Because: Work brings profit, but mere talk leads to poverty (Proverbs 14:23
- [Living in Love](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/02/01/living-in-lov/) - Today, Tyndale author Pam Hillman expands encourages us to root our actions and emotions in love. Proverbs 10:12 "Hatred stirreth up strifes, but love covereth all sins." KJV In light of her father’s death, Mariah Malone sends a letter that will forever alter the lives of her family. When Slade Donovan, strong
- [Should We Fear God?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/02/02/should-we-fear-god/) - This is a frequent topic in many Christian circles, and one we've covered not long ago. In fact, in my Yahoo Bible Study group, the question of what it means to fear the LORD led to quite a discussion. A discussion that evoked enough questions that reminded me of how important the answer is to
- [Don't Worry; Be Happy!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/02/06/dont-worry-be-happy/) - The Bible is full of admonitions not to worry, not to be fearful, to rejoice in the LORD, and to accept Christ's peace, but how do we do that in the day to day? And what do we do when our emotions rebel against our head? ;) Today I'm thrilled to have my dear friend,
- [Seeking Wisdom--An Intimate Affair](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/02/08/seekingwisdom-anintimateaffair/) - Hebrews 4:12 tells us God's Word is alive and active, penetrating deep to our soul. It has the capacity to speak to our very depths in an intimate and miraculously personal way, becoming a two-way conversation between the Holy Spirit and us. In the following devotion, multi-published author, Jude Urbanski, encourages us to attune our
- [Liar, Liar, Pants on Fire!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/02/10/liar-liar-pants-on-fire/) - Intrinsically, we know lying's wrong. I think that's part of our inner compass. But then, we get older and socially "aware", and somehow the lines become blurred. We might even be tempted to believe some lies are good--if they are told for a good reason, perhaps to protect someone's feelings or create a positive, altruistic
- [Fleeing From Sin](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/12/fleeing-from-sin/) - Today’s reading: Proverbs 5 Today’s focal verse: Proverbs 5:8 Stay away from her! Don’t go near the door of her house! Today's Focus: Guarding against sin This week’s memory verse: Proverbs 3:9-10 Honor the LORD with your wealth and with the best of everything you produce. Then He will fill your barns with grain, and
- [Fleeing Sin Part 2](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/13/fleeing-sin-part-2/) - Today’s reading: Proverbs 5 Today’s focal verse: Proverbs 5:8 Stay away from her! Don’t go near the door of her house! Today's Focus: Guarding against sin This week’s memory verse: Proverbs 3:9-10 Honor the LORD with your wealth and with the best of everything you produce. Then He will fill your barns with grain, and
- [Cherishing Your Spouse](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/14/cherishing-your-spouse/) - Today's reading: Proverbs 5:15-23; Song of Songs 5:9-16 Today's focal verse: Proverbs 5:18 Be happy with the wife you married when you were young. She gives you joy, as your fountain gives you water. This week's memory verse: Proverbs 6:16-17 There are six things the LORD hates--no, seven things He detests: haughty eyes, a lying
- [Untangling Yourself From Costly Mistakes](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/15/untangling-yourself-from-costly-mistakes/) - Today's reading: Proverbs 6:1-5, Jeremiah 42-44 Today's focal verse: Proverbs 6:3 follow my advice and save yourself, for you have placed yourself at your friend’s mercy. Now swallow your pride; go and beg to have your name erased (NLT). This week's memory verse: Proverbs 6:16-17 There are six things the LORD hates--no, seven things He detests: haughty eyes, a
- [Inner Drive](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/16/inner-drive/) - Maintaining an Inner Drive The other day, after a moment of contemplation, my teenage daughter marveled at how long it's been since she's been grounded. Now, before you assume she had been a rebellious or difficult child, I must admit, her father and I can be strict about certain things, and her dedication to school,
- [What or Whom do You Fear](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/21/what-or-whom-do-you-fear/) - Please note, Lotis is giving away an electronic copy of her book, the Song of the Tree (see description below). Today’s reading: Proverbs 9, Daniel 3, Today’s focal verse: Proverbs 9:10 Fear of the LORD is the foundation of wisdom. Knowledge of the Holy One results in good judgment (NLT). This week’s memory verse: This week, I encourage you
- [Can Being Kind Nourish You?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/24/can-being-kind-nourish-you/) - The other day, on the Christian radio station, they discussed the characteristics of happy children. Apparently, a study was conducted, and research shows kids who are kinder are generally happier. A short discussion on this study ensued, and the general consensus was: 1) We are happier when we are less focused on ourselves, and, 2)
- [You are Beloved](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/10/you-are-beloved/) - Please note: Gina Conroy is giving away a copy of Digging Up Death (see the book description below) to one of you, randomly chosen from the comments left on this post. Today's reading: Proverbs 3:31-35; John 15:5-7 Today's focal verse: Proverbs 3:32 For the devious are an abomination to the LORD; But He is intimate with
- [Who Gets Your Leftovers?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/07/who-gets-your-leftovers/) - Today's reading: Proverbs 3; Micah 3:6-15 Today's focal verse: Proverbs 3:9-10 Today's focus: Giving God our best This week's memory verse: Proverbs 3:9-10 Honor the Lord with your wealth and with the best part of everything you produce. Then he will fill your barns with grain, and your vats will overflow with good wine (NLT). Let's face
- [Relinquishing Control](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/09/relinquishing-control/) - Today's reading: Proverbs 3:21-26, Isaiah 31:1-3, Habakkuk 1:11 Today's focus: Surrender This week's memory verse: Proverbs 3:9-10 Honor the LORD with your wealth and with the best of everything you produce. Then He will fill your barns with grain, and your vats will overflow with good wine. Ambition is good. Without it, infants would never
- [Guarding Our Treasure](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/11/guarding-our-treasur/) - Today’s reading: Proverbs 4 Today’s focal verse: Proverbs 4:23—Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life. (KJV) Today's Focus: Guarding our hearts This week’s memory verse: Proverbs 3:9-10 Honor the LORD with your wealth and with the best of everything you produce. Then He will fill your barns with
- [Beyond the Familiar](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/12/13/beyond-the-familiar/) - Today my sweet friend, Delia Latham, author of nine books, including the acclaimed Solomon's Gate series, encourages us to look, with faith-filled eyes, past what we see, beyond the familiar to the angelic. Beyond the Familiar by Delia Latham Psalm 91:11 – For he shall give His angels charge over thee, to keep thee in
- [Oh, to be Wise in 2013!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/12/27/oh-to-be-wise-in-2013/) - If what we say flows from the heart (Matthew 15:18), then, I propose, what's in the heart flows from our minds--what we focus on, think about, believe to be true. Perhaps that is why God commands us to take our thoughts captive--to actively choose what we think about (2 Corinthians 10:5). Not an easy task,
- [Digging Past the Surface](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2013/01/03/digging-past-the-surface/) - Wouldn't it be nice to live life without regrets? To always know the best course of action, the right thing to say, the best path to follow? If you've been following my blog, you know I've determined to read through the book of Proverbs, focusing on one application to live out each day. Yesterday we
- [Is it Time for Some Schedule-cleaning?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/11/08/is-it-time-for-some-schedule-cleaning/) - (Today I'm at fellow Living by Grace hostess Maria Morgan's blog talking about my editing services, my writing, and my Jesus. Join me. :) ) Have you ever longed for one more hour in your day? One more day in your week? One more month before the holidays? ;) If so, perhaps you're taking on
- [Hope or Hazing?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/11/13/hope-or-hazin/) - Have you ever said something then wished you hadn't? Sent an email that made your stomach knot the moment you released it into cyberspace? Other times, something seemingly innocent slips out that, without us knowing it, negatively affects our listener. Today Jamie Wright reminds us to choose our words carefully, because our words do matter.
- [God Hears You](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/11/15/god-hears-yo/) - We all face trials, heartaches, and disappointments, but with Christ, we can rise above. Today, Susan Sleeman shares her struggles with chronic illness and how God helped her move forward. Please note: Susan is giving away a copy of her novel Double Exposure to one randomly selected reader who leaves a comment or question for her
- [When Being Beautiful Turns Ugly](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/11/29/when-being-beautiful-turns-ugly/) - Our daughter has always been our little princess. As a little girl, she loved hats and dresses and those annoying feather boas that shed all over the carpet. It was cute. Harmless. But for many young women, this desire to be pretty can turn obsessive--destructive. How can we, as parents, help our teens accept themselves
- [Anxiously Awaiting](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/12/06/anxiously-awaiting/) - I'm quite good at throwing pity parties, and this fall and winter, I think I've excelled in this area. I've even invited others to join me. But leave it to God to crash the party with some heart-illuminating truth. :) Truth revealed through an ancient widow living in a time when life for widows appeared
- [Clinging to Hope](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/09/27/clinging-to-hope/) - for they did not believe in God or trust in his deliverance. (Psalm 78:22) Two weeks ago, we talked about finding hope during tough times. (You can read the post here.) Hope is a funny thing. With hope, humans can endure some of the most difficult trials. Without hope, even minor set backs can feel overwhelming.
- [Stretched to Overflowing](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/10/01/stretched-to-overflowing/) - Once again, as I post today's Reach Out story, tears sting my eyes. Oh, the beauty of love and grace poured out through God's children to those in need. Obedience isn't always easy or comfortable, but I have a feeling Julie Arduini would tell you, it is always, always so worth it. But before you
- [Finding Shelter](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/10/11/finding-shelter/) - When my daughter was young, she loved to play in the rain. She loved splashing in muddle puddles and catching raindrops on her tongue. Together, we'd don our rain gear--bright yellow from head to toe--and our umbrella for an afternoon of puddle-jumping. The umbrella, however, did either of us little good because no matter how
- [Support Sisters](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/10/15/supportsisters/) - This morning, I'm honored to share a touching story from my sweet sister, Jennifer Hallmark. Parenting is tough. Parenting alone is even harder. There are so many days when faced with a situation I don't know how to handle, I wait anxiously for my husband to return home so we can prayerfully determine a solution
- [Strength Under Pressure](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/10/18/strength-under-pressure/) - Proverbs 24:10 "If you fail under pressure, your strength is too small." When I read this verse a few days ago, it hit me in my gut. Lately, I've felt anything but strong. In fact, if I could find an impenetrable shelter to hide in, I would. And so I should. Because it is then
- [Residing Outside the Palace](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/10/25/residing-outside-the-palace/) - The past two months have been a bit rough. I think I've gone through every emotion imaginable--sometimes within an hour. Oh, how often I longed to be whisked away to a pain and worry free palace! But God knew better. He wanted to take me deeper, to show me His love and tender care in
- [What is Your One Thing?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/11/01/what-is-your-one-thing/) - Today I'm honored to have Chana Keefer, author of the Fall, as my guest. I've been thinking a lot about her question: What is your one thing? Sometimes life has a way of narrowing things down a bit, of slicing away ulterior fillers and reminding us of those things we cherish most--God and family. As
- [How Close Are Your Friends?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/09/06/how-close-are-your-friends/) - Relationships can be tough. We're sinful people living in a world with other sinful people. Add to this the fact that most of us are insanely busy. Because of this, it's easy to remain on the surface level with others, failing to develop the deep, authentic, transparent relationships God desires for us. Today Cheri Swalwell
- [Silver Streets](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/09/10/silverstreets/) - What a beautiful, glorious way to start a Monday morning. Today's Reach Out story by Diana Brandmeyer brought tears to my eyes and tugged at my momma's heart. Yesterday at church our pastor asked: What's God asking you to risk? Following Christ won't always be easy. It won't always be comfortable, and at times, it
- [Going Deeper With Living by Grace](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/09/13/going-deeper-with-living-by-grace/) - When Living by Grace launched, our goals were two-fold: 1) To create a safe community where brothers and sisters could come together to build relationships centered in Christ 2) To encourage one another to draw closer to Christ. We like to think of our corner of cyber-space as a modern-day-meet-at-the-well experience. For those of you
- [Joy in the What???](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/09/17/joy-in-the-what/) - (To the tune of I've Got Joy.) I found my joy, joy, joy, down in the trash. Where? Down in the trash. Where? Down in the trash. I found my joy, joy, joy, down in the trash, rotting my purpose away. Ever feel like that? Like your joy is buried beneath a mound of gunk,
- [Seeing God's Hand](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/09/24/seeing-gods-hand/) - I've often wondered, if we could see all that God does on our behalf, how many seemingly random instances would turn out to be miracles. That detour that avoided a crash, or a stop light that placed us in the right place at the right time for a hidden blessing. Every once in a while,
- [More than Memories](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/08/17/more-than-memories/) - This morning as I swung through my local grocery to buy food items for Taking it to the Streets, numerous parental thoughts swept through my mind. Of what's worked, what hasn't, and how God has multiplied Steve and my efforts, molding our daughter day-by-day. I've got a lot to say, but little time to say
- [Reaching Out to the Broken](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/08/20/reaching-out-to-the-broken/) - We've all had times when the world seems to be pressing down on us. When we receive tragic news and are in desperate need of comfort. Psalm 34:18 says, "The Lord is close to the broken-hearted and rescues those whose spirits are crushed" (NLT). God sees every tear we cry and, amidst our pain, reaches
- [Count it All Joy](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/08/23/count-it-all-joy/) - Today's post comes from an author who has quickly become one of my favorite--Nikki Arana. Her recent novel, the Next Target, kept me up many nights. Not just because I wanted to keep reading, but also because once I set the book down, my heart continued to race. But more than that, her novel stirred
- [Reach Out Recap--Five Months of Love](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/08/27/reach-out-recap-five-months-of-love/) - Today I close the fifth month of Reach Out stories--of reading how God's children across the nation are actively sharing the love of Christ. You're at park benches, on subways, reaching out to the homeless, the orphan, and the felon. With each encounter, each authentic display of love, you are revealing the nature of Christ. In
- [Ashamed to Pray](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/08/30/ashamed-to-pray/) - (Please note: Reach Out and book give-away winners listed below.) Each day, we are engaged in a cosmic battle, a battle over self. It is a war between entitlement and sacrifice, between self-love and sacrificial love. And each day, God gives us a choice--to squelch His Spirit, His love, His still small voice as we
- [A Cry for Help](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/09/03/a-cry-for-help/) - Today we start a new Reach Out month with a great post by Ada Brownell. As I read her story, I was reminded of all the ways God cares for us. Sending someone to help just when we need it, prompting someone to call or send us a card. And I imagine for most of
- [It Starts at Home](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/08/02/it-starts-at-home/) - On occasion, especially when tired or distracted, our family has a funny, yet not so funny, habit of looking for ways to be served. It normally starts at dinner time as we each, comfortably sitting at the table, watch anxiously to see who might enter the kitchen first. The moment someone shifts in that direction,
- [Debut Author Katie Ganshert Gives Back](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/08/03/debut-author-katie-ganshert-gives-back/) - If you know debut author Katie Ganshert at all, you know she's a giver. You probably remember, yesterday I announced you, my lovely readers, selected (through comments, FB likes, Tweets, and FB comments) her Reach Out Story as your favorite for the month of July. Because of this, she won the July Reach Out gift-basket
- [Taking on the World](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/08/09/taking-on-the-world/) - Many of us have enjoyed watching the Olympics, myself included. I'm awed by such strength, talent, speed. But my admiration is heightened because I know how many hours--years--worth of diligent and focused training is behind each gold. Today my sweet friend and host of Living Joyfully Free, Lisa Buffaloe, encourages us to view our faith
- [Be a Revolutionary!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/08/13/be-a-revolutionary/) - Where ever you are, whatever you're doing, God has placed you here, at this moment, to be used of Him--to be a glorious, beautiful declaration of grace and truth. You can be a catalyst for change--a revolutionary that motivates others to make change and share God's love with a hurting world. You can also be
- [Author Shout-out](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/08/15/author-shout-out/) - One of these days I should post a list of my favorite books. There's been plenty. Today I want to give a shout out to Sandra Robbins, highlighting one of her fabulous novels, Fatal Disclosure. Sandra has graciously donated to three of my Reach Out gift baskets, and due to my rather spacey spaciness (eloquent
- [Blessings on the Journey](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/08/15/blessings-on-the-journey/) - Yesterday morning, I dropped my princess off at a new high school, and although it broke my heart to see her struggle--to see her uncomfortable--I'm holding tight to the wise words texted to me by my mentor and dear friend, SandyT (waving). This new challenge is but another opportunity for her (and I) to learn
- [Letting Go and Clinging On](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/07/19/letting-go-and-clinging-on/) - Today's post comes from a very dear friend and prayer partner, Elaine Stock. Ephesians 4:31 tells us to "Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior." I believe there are two reasons for this (if not more). Bitterness taints our witness for Christ, but
- [Keep Walking](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/07/21/keep-walking/) - You may remember the song from Brandon Heath, "Give Me Your Eyes." It's about seeing others through the eyes of Christ--truly seeing them. And loving them with the love and compassion of Christ. I've often wondered what it must feel like to God, to see His children suffer. It must break His heart. It breaks
- [Transformed by Love](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/07/23/transformed-by-love/) - After my post on Saturday, I find Virginia Hamlin's Reach Out story very encouraging. Notice, she and her husband served for five years. Many of the men and women they served likely stayed on the streets. But one woman grasped onto the hope of Christ and found radical transformation. As you read Virginia's story, stop
- [Step into God's Circle](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/07/26/step-into-gods-circle/) - Our family has moved a lot. Moving can be tough. Painful. With each move, relationships are strained, some even severed as phone calls and emails dwindle. But the hardest part of moving is losing then reconnecting to a church family. When we first moved to the midwest, we struggled finding a church home. That was
- [Perseverance](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/07/30/perseverance/) - This month flew by and our summer right along with it. :) Last month, God taught me to walk with an eyes-wide-open approach, ever-alert to the open doors He provided. This month He's been teaching me perseverance. I'm a doer by nature, and I like to see results, but walking by faith means obeying even
- [Let's Celebrate!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/31/lets-celebrate/) - Although I'm not one to make New Year resolutions per say, I do love the annual chance for self-evaluation and goal-setting. As a coach's daughter, I live by goals. Daily, weekly, annually. For me, there is nothing more satisfying, motivating, than reaching a goal, except perhaps when I reach one I purposefully set just outside
- [What's Holding You Back?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/01/07/whats-holding-you-back/) - Five to seven years ago, God nudged me to start a web-based children's ministry. This was a major learning curve, but God was faithful, and day-by-day, the ministry grew. I traveled around the United States, from Southern California, to Maryland, speaking to various Sunday school classes, youth groups, Bible study groups, Christian school classes, and
- [With Eyes Wide Open](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/01/14/with-eyes-wide-open/) - Oh, my poor, sweet, white-knuckling honey. He tells me daily he worries about me, to which I respond, "There's no need." Then I lose my wedding ring in the laundry hamper before climbing into my van to casually back out ... into a half-opened garage door. Nope, no need to worry at all. I'm not
- [Intentional Strength](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/01/21/intentional-strength/) - Two weeks ago, my dear friend Fay Lamb, author of Because of Me, sent me a beautiful email. I had ask her for advice on a few issues, and like the precious child of God she is, she didn't give me any. She gave me more. She sent me an email filled with Scripture, pointing
- [Dream Big](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/01/28/dream-big/) - Stop for a moment and think back to when you were a child. Do you remember all the dreams you had? Maybe you dreamt of being a major league baseball player, or a famous singer, or an actress. Then life hit and reality set. You began to look at numbers, statistics, and slowly your dream
- [If God Loves Me, Then Why Does He Wait?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/02/04/if-god-loves-me-then-why-does-he-wait/) - As our daughter nears fifteen, she's beginning to dream about driving and college and all those rights of passage that signify adulthood. (She's already planned the furnishings for her college dorm room ... and her future house, career, basically, the next twenty years of her life.) She thinks she's so ready, but often, my husband
- [What's Next???](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/02/25/whats-next/) - About two years ago, while listening to a radio program on empty-nesting, it hit me--my husband and I only had five years before our daughter left for college. Five years to ground her in faith, five years to train responsibility, diligence, and all those other necessary traits she'll need to succeed as an adult. Five
- [X Marks the Spot](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/05/17/x-marks-the-spot/) - Materialism is hard to break free from, especially in our affluent culture. Even those of us who have very little are wealthy compared to a great deal of the world's population. Wealth isn't bad. It has the potential to do great good! If we would but use it ... to help someone in need, to
- [The Power of a Dangerous Prayer](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/05/24/the-power-of-a-dangerous-prayer/) - Today's post really hits home. Over the past year, I prayed for a solution to some issues my husband faced at work. A stock market rise that would allow him to retire, blessings on my freelance work that would provide the same, a massive cost-of living deduction. But God had other plans, and as I
- [Making Lemonade](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/05/31/making-lemonade/) - On Mother's Day, our family spent the afternoon looking through old photo albums. As we flipped through page after page, I was struck by how quickly time had passed. Glancing at my daughter--taller than me and of course much wiser. :) -- I had a strong desire to draw her close, to pull her into
- [Laying a Relational Foundation](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/06/11/laying-a-relational-foundation/) - Although my daughter thinks I'm annoying, embarrassing (hm ... I think mortifying might be a better word) and at times, down right infuriating, we are extremely close. But our relationship didn't arise over night. Today I'm at Power Up With God, traipsing down memory lane. Will you join me? Mamma's of little ones, I hope
- [Join Me At Gail's](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/01/04/join-me-at-gails/) - You might remember Gail from my top 20 of 2010. She wrote the wonderful devotion entitled, "Oh, To Be Magnetic," reminding us of our need to shine for Christ all the time, where ever we go. After I asked her to share her devotion here, she sent me a request to visit her site. So...I'm sending you all over to her blog where you can here a bit about my "work-in-progress", With Reckless Abandon. Yep, it's an inspirational romance. Never thought I'd be a romance writer, until this story infiltrated my brain. At first, it surprised me. Could this story idea really be from God, or was it just a temporary creative respite in between some of my other projects? But then I remembered, the Bible is the ultimate romance! Page by page reveals God's pursuing love for us, and our human romances give us but an imperfect glimmer of the Divine romance.
- [Cancerous or Contagious](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/05/27/cancerous-or-contagious/) - Perhaps you'd agree with what I'm saying, to a point.... But what happens when you disagree with someone else's methods? Not message, mind you, but methods. There is a difference. And here's the sad truth: we spend way too much time debating methods and way too little time sharing the message. What kind of music should we have? What kind of novels should Christians write? How should pastors lead their youth group?
- [The Lord is Near the Broken Hearted](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/10/01/the-lord-is-near-the-broken-hearted/) - The other day I received a particularly touching email from a family member. The writer recalled a difficult time in my life and through his words, I was reminded that during that struggle, although I felt alone, God remained by my side. That reminder brought me great comfort. It didn't take the pain of the
- [Are You Teaching Fear or Faith?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/10/08/are-you-teaching-fear-or-faith/) - About a month ago, while prepping me for a root canal, the dental hygienist and I began talking about youth group mission trips. Our family had recently returned from El Salvador (you can read about our trip here) and were anxious to go back. After listening to me share all the things my daughter learned
- [Releasing the Past to Live in the Now](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/10/22/releasing-the-past-to-live-in-the-now/) - In 2009, our family moved from the west coast to the mid-west (after a short stint in the south) and our first year felt like a culture shock. Especially in the church. Southern California, where we lived for seven years and plunged our roots, you expect diversity, struggle, change, and quite honestly, authenticity. It's like everyone's messed up, or from a family that's messed up, so we've come to expect Christians with baggage and hang-ups. This wasn't a judgmental stance but instead an understanding of the fallen condition of humanity.
- [Staying the Course](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/10/29/staying-the-course/) - This has been a long week. Okay, a long year, with a lot of uphill climbs and mental and emotional stretching. As I've mentioned before, if left on my own, I'd choose the past of least resistance, but God's called me to a higher standard. And as I look at my experiences over the past year--which quite honestly has been total a brain-saturation learning experience--I began to realize I'm in training. (This past month I think God's training system hit overdrive!) I have no idea what God's training me for, but that's not my concern, is it? My concern is to continue forward in full-surrendered obedience, trusting His wisdom and His plan.
- [Tripping on Cracks](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/11/05/tripping-on-cracks/) - Most times I navigate over the bumps and crevices with no problem, but every once in a while, when I'm tired or lost in thought, the raised cement catches me off guard and sends me flying. Not a pretty sight. In fact, I've been known to stop traffic, and not in a good way. (Nothing like seeing a thirty-somthing howl like a toddler before falling prostrate on the cement. Yep. Attractive.) So I pick myself up off the ground, tell the gawkers I'm okay, and glance back at the mammoth boulder I tripped over, heat sears my cheeks as I realize I stumbled over not a boulder, but the tiniest of cracks.
- [Whatever You Do](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/11/12/whatever-you-do/) - When our daughter was young, I was the "Mommy-and-Me-Jamboree" addict. I cherished every moment--every giggle, every storytime, every craft activity. And I loved to turn everything into a party. Why craft alone when I could invite the mom's club to join us? Why play tea without making it a tea party? (That was the cutest event
- [Grabbing Hold of God Moments](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/11/19/grabbing-hold-of-god-moments/) - A while back, after one particularly crabby day, my daughter looked at me and said, “You forgot to pray today, didn’t you?” Standing in our kitchen, schooled by a child, I realized how much truth she packed in that statement. Amidst the hustle and bustle of my day, I’d inadvertently left God out of the
- [Hiding Beneath My Father's Arms](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/03/hiding-beneath-my-fathers-arms/) - What about you? Are you going through a time of transition or uncertainty? What are some certain, unwavering truths you can hold tight to? Join us at Living by Grace as we talk about resting in the Father's arms.
- [Who Are You (Part II)](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/10/who-are-you-part-ii/) - I get a kick out of watching my fourteen year old daughter hover between childhood and adulthood. As she matures, she experiments with clothing and hair styles, slang words, and all those other things inherent to the teenage years. We've had countless conversations about outfits, make-up, and jewelry, and have spent hours upon hours perusing
- [Watch Out For Those Gimmes](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/17/watch-out-for-those-gimmes/) - As I look around my house, wrapping paper strewn across the floor, packages lined on the shelves, and shopping lists still waiting to be fulfilled, a twinge of conviction nabs my heart. Each present, each tinsel, each afternoon shopping spree has the capacity to send our daughter a message--to train generosity or materialism. Each holiday
- [The Divine Dance](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/02/11/the-divine-dance/) - When Steve and I were first married, we took up country dancing. Well, we tried, anyway. A local bar offered free lessons one afternoon a week, so each week we'd go and do our best to scurry across the dance floor, preferably in time to the music. We weren't very good. Actually, we stunk, so
- [Guarding Date Nights](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/02/18/guarding-date-nights/) - Early in our marriage, my husband and I made a commitment. We decided we'd place our marriage first. We'd sit beside each other in the restaurant even though our daughter tried to wiggle between us. We'd schedule date nights and hire babysitters even though it'd wipe out our monthly budget. We'd go on annual trips,
- [Fan Into Flame](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/03/03/fan-into-flame/) - When we lived in Southern California, a massive fire ravished the San Gabriel mountains, destroying 1,000 homes and forcing many to evacuate. Rumor had it the fire was started by a cigarette casually flicked. Others said the fire was started by an arsonist. Regardless the source, the initial spark turned exponential until it devoured 90,000
- [Vision Check](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/03/17/vision-check/) - This past month, my husband's schedule has changed slightly, and he's spent a few days working from home. In the beginning, each day as I performed my daily chores he'd ask, "Are you in a cleaning mood?" By the third time he asked this, I had to laugh. What was routine for me Monday through
- [Enjoy What???](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/03/24/enjoy-what/) - I often wonder if God looks at me and shakes his head, saying, "When will my child but learn? When will she fully surrender---stay surrendered---to my good and hope-filled plans?" He's certainly given me ample guidance, encouragement, and warnings. In fact, for over a month now He's been reminding me of the need for praise--commanding
- [How Do We Hear God?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/03/31/how-do-we-hear-god/) - Last Saturday we talked about spiritual vision. (You can read the post here.) Today, I'm talking about our hearing. Last Sunday, after talking about listening to and obeying God, one of my third graders scrunched her face and raised her hand. "Besides reading the Bible, how do we hear God?" That's a tough question, isn't
- [Seeking Peace](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/04/07/seeking-peace/) - Before you read this post, I encourage you to visit Elaine Stock's blog to see how God used my sin to show me of the true meaning of Easter. As you contemplate on Christ's death and prepare to celebrate His resurrection, I invite you to meditate on 2 Philippians. I've been camped out in this chapter this
- [The Gift of No](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/04/19/the-gift-of-no/) - As many of you now, we are in the process of moving which means we've spent a great deal of time looking at houses. As our moving date approaches, my anxiety rises. What if we don't find a place in time? Will we have to stay in a hotel, spending $100-$150 a night? When deadlines
- [Pet Peeves and Other Irritations](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/04/26/pet-peeves-and-other-irritations/) - My daughter let out a heavy sigh and scowled. "Do you have to type so loudly?" Sitting beside her in my king-sized bed, her with ice propped around her face, me with pillows propped behind my back, I glanced at my hands poised on my keyboard and stifled a grin. "Oh, was I loud?" "Yeah.
- [When God Says Wait](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/05/03/when-god-says-wait/) - A while back we talked about times when God says no and trusting in His love even then. This trust rests in our knowledge of His character: God is good Good is love God is faithful, powerful, and sovereign God is always with us It's largely about a change of focus. Will we focus on
- [Where Does Your Trust Lie?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/05/10/where-does-your-trust-lie/) - Most of us don't have wooden or stone idols. In fact, a large proportion of us have turned to Christ for salvation, but are we truly resting in His hands? Or have we merged our securities and marginalized our lives? Have we placed conditions on our trust. Conditions like: I trust God to provide, but
- [Begin again, and again, and again...](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/30/begin-again-and-again-and-again/) - About three months ago, I shared a story about a woman who visited our church. Her son was in his senior year and she desperately wanted a do-over. (You can read the original post here.) Three, maybe four weeks ago, she came again, and sat in the pew behind us. After service, I asked her how she was doing, and more importantly, how were things with her son. She beamed, a smile spreading across her face and launched into a story of sit-down dinners, one-on-one time with her son, and clearly defined boundaries. She'd received her do-over.
- [The Audacity of Hope](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/07/05/the-audacity-of-hope/) - I love reading testimonies of victory--stories of ordinary people overcoming difficult odds. I often wonder, what enables one person to move forward when everything beats them down? Why do some rise from tragedy and heartbreak empowered and passionate while others slip into ever-increasing bitterness? I believe the answer to those questions are likely as diverse
- [Releasing Our Kids to Find Their Calling](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/07/09/releasing-our-kids-to-find-their-calling/) - As a mom, I love to imagine what God might have planned for our daughter. I know He's got a plan--an eternally valuable role--uniquely crafted for her. A crucial role in God's kingdom. Ephesians 2:10 For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. I've learned,
- [Traveling Light](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/07/14/traveling-light/) - One of the benefits of moving--it encourages one to purge all the clutter accumulated over the years. We've moved a fair number of times. Having packed and unpacked so often, you'd think we would have pared everything down to the bare essentials. Not quite. Somehow those non-essentials find a way to weasel into our homes
- [Are You in Over Your Head?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/07/16/are-you-in-over-your-head/) - Are you in over your head? If not, why not? Maybe it's time to tread into deeper waters. **Katie is giving away a copy of her debut novel, Wildflowers From Winter, to one randomly selected reader who leaves a comment.** Today, I'm honored to have debut author and Clash of the Titles' May Release winner,
- [It's Not About Us](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/06/12/its-not-about-us/) - Today's post comes from my dear friend, Shannon Taylor Vannatter. A talented writer with a heart for God, Shannon crafts beautiful stories of grace. Her post reiterated something God's been showing me this month--it's not about me--my gifts, talents, and abilities. It's about God working in and through me, through us. Whether He's setting us
- [Misreading Between the Lines](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/06/14/misreading-between-the-lines/) - Have you ever been fuming mad at someone, only to find out you totally misread the conversation? In our world of rapid-fire communication, faulty perceptions, and misunderstandings, it's easy to get our wires crossed. Sometimes this is funny. Other times it's downright painful, and has the potential to destroy relationships and lead to bitterness. If
- [Are You a Mary-Killing Martha?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/06/21/are-you-a-mary-killing-martha/) - Most of us are familiar with the story of Mary and Martha. If asked, I suspect many would readily admit we have much more Martha in us than we'd like. For those of you unfamiliar with the story, Martha and Mary were sisters in ancient Palestine. They were close friends with Jesus. More than friends--they
- [Thrust in the Spotlight](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/06/18/thrust-in-the-spotlight/) - Before I share another wonderful Reach Out to Live Out post, I'd love to tell you more about this campaign, how God sparked it, and how He reached out to me. In my teen and early adult years, I imagine many thought I was a lost cause. But not God. And through the consistent love
- [Do You See Me? Do You Care](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/06/23/do-you-see-me-do-you-care/) - Lately God's been showing me the deep need for love those around me have. Many are hurting, but often their pain is hidden by smiles and chirpy Facebook posts. And it's easy for the rest of us to take things at face value and walk away. But God wants us to dig deeper, to take
- [Courageous, Initiating, Life-changing](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/06/25/courageous-initiating-life-changing/) - God's used each Reach Out post this month to stir my thinking, and there seems to be a common thread. In fact, this thread has woven it's way into articles I've written (in quotes provided by other authors), other posts I've read, experiences God's brought my way. The thread is always be alert and obedient
- [Stripped to the Essentials](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/06/28/stripped-to-the-essentials/) - Sometimes life gets hard, lonely, frustrating. We don't always have answers this side of heaven, but every once in a while, God gives us a glimpse of His Father's heart and big picture plan. I had one of those moments last week during a leisurely walk with my daughter. If you are or ever have
- [When They Spurn Our Love](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/07/02/when-they-spurn-our-love/) - Twenty years ago, I was far from a fully devoted follower of Christ. In fact, I imagine many who encountered me back then thought I was a hopeless cause. God began reaching out to me at age four (or five) through a precious Good News Bible club leader named Dorothy. He followed me through my
- [Who Won? You Choose!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/05/28/who-won-you-choose/) - This month has really flown by. I hope you've enjoyed each Reach Out to Live Out story shared here. Have they stirred your thinking? Encouraged you to look for ways to reach out with the love of Christ? I'd love to read about how each one impacted you. I think my favorite was "Head Down"
- [What Was I Thinking???](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/06/01/what-was-i-thinking/) - Oh, why do I let Sheryline Cochran talk me into these things? Right. Because it's for a great cause. What's a little self-deprecation when it has the potential to help orphans? When you put it that way .... Between June 5-15th, I'm participating in Mary Kay's charity make-over contest. No, I do not suspect my
- [The Other Side of No](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/06/03/the-other-side-of-no/) - Today's post is a bit off the cuff, so if you see an abundance of typos and awkward phrases, bear with me, please. :) Many of you have shared such kind words regarding our move. For those of you who read The Gift of No, I wanted to give you an update--a praise worthy, grace-infused
- [When God Says Stay](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/06/04/when-god-says-stay/) - Today's post comes from a sweet woman I first met at the Writing for the Soul Conference in Dallas. Elizabeth is one of those people that brighten up a room--always smiling. She radiates the love of Christ in all she does. The story she shares with us today is a perfect example of how. Strange
- [The Campaign Begins!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/06/05/the-campaign-begins/) - Today begins the ten day Mary Kay Make-over charity contest. Join me for some fun, perhaps a few giggles, and maybe even an inspiring devo or two. Remember, it's for a great cause! Plus, ALL
- [The Campaign Begins!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/06/05/the-campaign-begins-2/) - (To my subscribers, sorry for the double email. Not sure what happened there, but Wordpress published *while* I was typing. Butter fingers perhaps?) Today begins the ten day Mary Kay Make-over charity contest. Join me for some fun, perhaps a few giggles, and maybe even an inspiring devo or two. Remember, it's for a great
- [Choking on My Lemon-aid](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/06/07/choking-on-my-lemon-aid-31/) - We've been in NE going on our second week, and I'd love to tell you about all my lovely lemonade sipping. But I can't. The other day, I did a bit of choking. Funny how I do that. God gives me a beautiful gift, clear guidance, and His grace-filled Spirit to carry out His plans,
- [The Campaign Continues](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/06/09/the-campaign-continues/) - I want to thank you all for your support with what Sharyline Cochran and I are trying to do to help global orphans. I've been popping about the web, visiting my loving blog hosts, reading y'all's encouraging comments telling me you voted. Who knows if we'll win the $5,500 dollars for Gothreads and The Raining
- [Reach Out Winners](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/05/05/reach-out-winners/) - It's been a fun, challenging, and inspiring month. I hope each Reach Story has motivated, encouraged, or challenged you in some way. There's a big world out there. We can't reach everyone, but each of us can reach someone. Sharing a smile, a hug, or kind word might not seem like a big deal ...
- [Pushing Past Our Comfort Zones](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/05/07/pushing-past-our-comfort-zones/) - April was awesome! With all the sorrow in our world, it was so encouraging to read of others actively demonstrating the love of Christ. And today, we launch a new month. I did want to clarify on the prizes, as I think they may be unclear. The gift basket goes to someone sharing their Reach
- [Fiction That Reaches Into Prison Cells](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/05/14/fiction-that-reaches-into-prison-cells/) - Never underestimate the power of a well-crafted story. I've heard it said, words spoken may be soon forgotten. Those written are recorded forever, able to reach beyond physical boundaries and extend to multiple generations. When I read Margaret's Reach Out story, presented below, I envisioned a broken woman, sitting in her cell, reading Margaret's novel--a
- [Head Down](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/05/23/head-down/) - I'm a day late, and I apologize. Can I blame it on moving? (And if so, how long can I use that excuse?) Today's "Reach Out to Live Out" post comes from a sweet young lady I met at the 2011 CWG writers' conference. And what a timely post! (You'll see what I mean once
- [Love For a Felon](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/04/09/love-for-a-felon/) - When I was a kid, while walking to and from school, I'd see signs showing which homes were "safe houses." Should trouble ever arise, I knew where I could go. The welcome mat on these doorsteps meant exactly what it said. Although safe houses still exist, it seems many have been replaced by no trespassing
- [When Storms Hit](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/04/16/when-storms-hit/) - We lived in Louisiana when Katrina hit and saw first hand the devastation storms can bring, but we saw so much more! We saw communities unite, churches and Christians mobilize, and a blanket of love encompass the area. A short time after Katrina hit, when our city was full of storm refugees, the Billy Graham
- [Someone For Kids to Latch on to](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/04/23/someone-for-kids-to-latch-on-to/) - A few weeks ago, I read a Facebook thread complaining about the "state of our world." Wars, violence, greed corruption. We create policies and host protests, write articles and share moving/inspiring/shocking pictures and Youtube videos on all the evils in the world, but I believe this focuses on the symptoms, not the cause. What if
- [Because You *Didn't* Ask](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/04/28/because-you-didnt-ask/) - You haven't asked, and I imagine you really don't care what color socks I wear (white), what I prefer for breakfast (cereal), or where I do most of my writing (wherever I find a quiet place). But since this is my blog, hahaha. Recently, I was tagged by fellow Living by Grace gal, Maria Morgan, to
- [Reach Out Recap](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/04/30/reach-out-recap/) - I've enjoyed reading the various "Reach Out" stories posted this month, and each one inspired or challenged me for different reasons. Here's what I learned: Mary Ellis reminded me to focus on the human element--to be careful not to allow the task to overshadow the person I'm doing the task for. This is true in
- [Looking for That Giant Eraser](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/03/06/looking-for-that-giant-eraser/) - I'm so grateful my salvation doesn't depend on me and my good works. If it did, I'd fail big time. I spend way too many days thinking angry thoughts and gratifying my selfish will. I'm selfish, irritable, and discontent. I long for a servant's heart, to be Christ's hands and feet to a hurting world,
- [Jelly Beans, Candied Almonds, and Hearts ... sigh](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/03/13/jelly-beans-candied-almonds-and-hearts-sigh/) - How much do I love thee? Let me count the ways .... My husband is quite the romantic. He rarely buys me glitzy jewelry or takes me to five-star restaurants. He doesn't read me poetry or take me dancing (perhaps you remember why. If not, you can read the reason here.), but he does buy
- [Savoring Life](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/03/20/savoring-life/) - Life can be crazy-busy. Sometimes the best thing we can do is slow down. Today Lynn Mosher reminds us to savor life, our Lord, and all the blessings He provides. Mmmm...Savoring! One of hubby’s and my very favorite restaurants is Romano’s Macaroni Grill. When we are able to treat ourselves to dinner out, nine times
- [Homes for the Homeless](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/04/02/homes-for-the-homeless/) - I'm excited to launch my "Reach Out to Live Out" campaign! The Bible tells us to spur one another on toward good deeds and to speak to one another in psalms, hymns, and praises. By seeing God's love pour through others, we're encouraged to allow Him to do the same with us. I pray the
- [How Deep is Your Love?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/04/04/how-deep-is-your-love/) - It's easy to praise God when all is going well, but what about when life turns upside down? When we lived in Louisiana, we went through a period of unemployment that left us scrambling to sell our home before landing in debt. One afternoon as I sat in my van pouring my heart out to
- [Love is a Verb](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/02/14/love-is-a-verb/) - Most women love Valentine's Day. With candy, flowers, sweet cards, and romantic dates with our forever-love, who wouldn't? But if we're not careful, our view of love can become tainted by the messages presented on commercials and greeting cards. True love extends beyond a candlelight dinner into the home where whiskers are left on bathroom
- [Incomprehensible Love](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/02/15/incomprehensible-love/) - When our daughter was an infant, she spent hours in my arms. Then she learned to walk, and our times together have grown increasingly shorter ever since. This makes those rare moments when she sits with me on the couch or invites me to spend an afternoon with her at the mall even more special.
- [Take Me In](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/02/21/living-in-the-holy-of-holies-now-that-the-veil-is-torn-in-two/) - As God continues to open doors for me, I'm becoming increasingly aware of my need for Him. When human logic tells me to work harder, longer, faster, God's Spirit draws me into His divine embrace. He tells me to come, to let His presence overshadow me, to let His will be done through me. Morning
- [Is Your Attitude Holding You Back?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/02/28/the-secret-of-contentment-and-enduring-trials-and-disappointment/) - Six years ago, we faced a period of unemployment. As my husband saturated online career sites with his resume, and we scrambled to sell our house before landing in debt, I prayed fervently for aid. I didn't care where we lived or where he worked so long as we could make ends meet. A few
- [Easily Swayed](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/01/24/easily-swayed/) - I'm in a time of waiting. Everything in my life, it seems, is at a fork and I'm waiting for God's direction. Not for the final destination. I've walked with Him long enough to know that rarely comes. He may give me a glimpse now and then, enough to ignite passion, but normally that's all
- [Intentional Intimacy](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/01/26/intentional-intimacy/) - There's a video circulating cyber-space. I'm sure you've seen it. It talks about the difference between having a heart-felt relationship with God vs. following rules and traditions. Although I don't agree with everything presented in the video, I find the basic premise valid. Christianity is more than a club to belong to. It's more than
- [Is Your Dream Worth Chasing?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/01/31/is-your-dream-worth-chasing/) - On Saturday, I encouraged you to dream big. To follow after your dream with perseverance and confidence, with one word of caution. God blesses our obedience, not our independence. If the dream's from Him, He will bring it about. If it's not, you may end your days crashing against barrier after barrier. The answer is
- [Rekindled by Grace](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/02/07/rekindled-by-grace/) - Early in our marriage, with a young child underfoot and long hours changing diapers, cleaning blocks, and watching Teletubbies, I'd anxiously await my husband's return from work. If only to have adult conversation. But back then his work schedule was crazy, with long hours, sometimes 14 day stretches, calls at all hours. We'd plan an
- [Your Top 3 Blog Posts For 2011](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/29/your-top-3-blog-posts-for-2011/) - It's almost a new year, and I hope you are one step closer to Christ, one suitcase lighter, with one less wound and one more giggle. Ultimately, I hope after reading my favorite blog posts for 2011, you walked away not merely entertained, but changed. Because honestly, if these posts only "tickle your ears" I'm
- [Who's Going to Take the First Step](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/01/03/whos-going-to-take-the-first-step/) - Today I'm doing something a little different, mainly because I committed to do so. But after some nudging from Patty Wysong, and some emails shot around by the Jewels of Encouragement team, I succumbed to...vlogging. The point of the vlog was to introduce ourselves and give readers a voice and face to put to our
- [The Silver Lining of Intentional Trust](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/01/09/the-silver-lining-of-intentional-trust/) - On Saturday I talked about letting go and taking a step of faith toward whatever God is calling you to. Today, Naomi Musch, author of The Red Fury and The Green Veil reminds us of the pain of not following after God's will. Throughout the pages of Scripture, we read accounts of strange obedience--washing in a river seven times
- [Intentional Healing From a Haunted Past](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/01/10/intentional-healing-from-a-haunted-past/) - We hear and talk a lot about intentional growth, intentional service, intentional obedience, but not as much about intentional healing. I believe God wants to bring about wholeness, which necessitates deep and total healing, but I also believe we need to cooperate with Him. I've seen it go two ways: I've seen those who become
- [Uh...You're NOT the Famous One](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/01/12/uh-youre-not-the-famous-one/) - As I read through Janalyn's devotional, one of my favorite worship songs played through my mind. "You are the Lord, the famous one, the famous one, great is your name in all the earth." God blesses, guides, expands boundaries...for one reason. To make Himself famous. If you're in ministry receiving accolades, it's easy to forget
- [When God Guides, God Provides](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/01/15/when-god-guides-god-provides/) - Host of Wielding the Sword of the Spirit Radio Show interviewed Larry Alston, President of Christ to the World Ministries, a ministry that uses radio waves to share the gospel of Christ. During the interview, Larry shared a story of a writer, now in her eighties, who'd always wanted to be a missionary to India.
- [Intentional Growth](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/01/17/intentional-growth/) - Today, Catrina Bradley challenges us to be intentional in our spiritual growth. What can you do today to draw closer to Christ, to grow more Christ-like, and to spread His fame? NAIL CLIPPINGS AND HAIR TRIMMINGS: Are You Growing? by Catrina Bradley My poor little dog Lady’s toenails are too long. We’ve been meaning to
- [There's No Room for Guilt](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2012/01/19/theres-no-room-for-guilt/) - Romans 8:1 is one of my favorite passages in Scripture: "Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus." It reminds me, no matter how bad I flub things, I am accepted, not because of what I've done but because of what's been done for me. That's not to say God doesn't
- [God's Timing](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/12/gods-timing/) - Patience is not my strong point. I like to do, to know I'm moving forward, making progress, which makes waiting on God especially difficult. I often tell Him I'd do better if He'd give me a hint of His future plans. Or better yet, a point-by-point memo. In leu of that, a neon sign would
- [Thankful For Rejection](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/13/thankful-for-rejection/) - As a freelance writer, I love helping new writers and as a result, I spend a fair amount of time doing critiques. The other day I had to send a less than glowing critique to someone I care about. It was hard. Selfishly, I wanted to cushion my words, but I knew doing so would
- [Heart Murmurs](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/14/heart-murmrs/) - Today's post comes from a dear friend and constant encourager, Eileen Rife. Eileen is the author of the Born for India trilogy. She and her husband conduct marriage seminars in the States and overseas. Eileen's fourth novel, Second Chance, will be released in February, 2012. Today she talks about heart murmurs and moving from the
- [Vitally Connected](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/16/vitally-connected/) - I needed this post today. I haven't been terribly busy (no more than normal), but I have been fighting a virus, which for some reason always makes it harder for me to pray. It's like a fog fills my brain, lulling it to sleep. I know God is always with me, even when I don't
- [The Purpose of Faith](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/19/the-purpose-of-faith/) - Parenting is the greatest test of faith I've ever experienced. Nothing can break my heart, send my pulse sky-rocketing, and bring me to my knees like the sweet, hurting or scared face of my child. Watching our daughter navigate through high school is hard enough. I can't imagine what it would be like to know
- [Do You Get It...Truly?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/20/do-you-get-it-truly/) - I'm selfish and discontent at my core. It's easy for me to skim over the many blessings God's provided, focusing instead on those things I don't have. Like a spoiled two-year old. Counting my blessings helps, although even then, my prayers are often ego-centric. "Thank you Lord for...." But what if I didn't have all
- [This Isn't a Dress Rehearsal](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/21/this-isnt-a-dress-rehearsal/) - Today's post comes from a fellow COTT staffer, Michelle Massaro. It first appeared on her blog in October of 2010 and was reposted a year later. This Isn't a Dress Rehearsal by Michelle Massaro My pastor on Sunday used this phrase, "It's not a dress rehearsal", referring to life. Whatever it is we want to
- [My Lists, My Calendars, My God](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/22/my-lists-my-calendars-my-god/) - Ah, Edwina Cowgill is my kind of gal. If you've followed my blog for any length of time, you'll know I'm a list-making addict. This isn't always a bad thing. To the contrary--most days it's a good thing. But it isn't full-proof. I've taken more detours and round-abouts than I care to admit, have embarked on many
- [Between a Rock and a Hard Place](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/23/between-a-rock-and-a-hard-place/) - Today's post is a repost from Jimmy Davis' blog, Cruciform Life. Many of you may be struggling this holiday season. You long for the joy of Christmas, but life's burdens are wearing you down. Maybe you've lost a loved one and this is your first Christmas without them. Maybe you're fighting illness, or a plummetting
- [The Big Let-Down](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/26/the-big-let-down/) - It's the day after Christmas. Some will spend the day cherishing newly made memories. Others will nurse reopened wounds--wounds that took them by surprise when out of the blue, scar tissue ripped off, ushering in feelings buried deep within. And staring at the tinsel, the wrapping paper, the newly-opened gifts, they wonder if perhaps something's wrong with them. Where's their yuletide joy? Their Christmas spirit?
- [The Song We're Singing](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/27/the-song-were-singing/) - The song, "Praise You in the Storm", by Casting Crowns expanded on in the following post by friend and fellow writer, Jodie Bailey, came out during one of my family's most difficult times. It felt like the world was falling apart around me, under me, like I'd fall apart, too. Through this song (and verses,
- [Sometimes We Can't See the Writing in the Sand](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/28/sometimes-we-cant-see-the-writing-in-the-sand/) - How many times have we heard the phrase, "It's not about you?" And while this is so true, reminding us that most often people respond based on their own thoughts, perceptions, and hurts, if you are a follower of Christ, you can't rely on the "but that's how I feel" crutch. Your call is to
- [Who Are You, Really?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/05/who-are-you-really/) - Who are you? At your core? Are you a mother? And how will you feel once your children leave the home? Are you a wife? What happens when you face widowhood? Are you a teacher or a secretary or a community leader? And when those roles are through, when you can no longer perform, who
- [How Would You Handle It?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/06/how-would-you-handle-it/) - I had one physically grab me and tell me I was killing my child. It was one of the top ten worst moments of my life. This person not only had no idea our whole story, she scared my other child. I will never forget.
- [Pretty Little Weeds](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/07/pretty-little-weeds/) - Yesterday we woke to our first dusting of snow. Although it was pretty, standing on our porch shivering I found myself longing for spring. Today's post was written by author Delia Latham after a long winter. As we head toward blizzard season (in MO, anyway) take a moment to remember those first rose buds, leaf
- [Breaking Through Boundary Lines](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/08/breaking-through-boundary-lines/) - (Join me on Jewels of Encouragement today as I talk about what it means to truly be free. If you are in Christ, you have been set free...from anger, hate, fear, anxiety, shame, bitterness, addiction, all those things that once held us in bondage. But to truly experience that freedom, we need to let go
- [When We Feel Like Dirt](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/09/when-we-feel-like-dirt/) - I've been thinking about this verse from Psalm 103 (verse 14) today: "for he knows how we are formed, he remembers that we are dust." Dust doesn't seem very beautiful or important or desirable. In fact, it just seems kinda, well, dirty. But God sees dust differently. He loves His dusty children. So, as I've been thinking about the verse, and pondering the attributes of dust, I remembered this story that grew out of a scene from my very first book, Cry Freedom. See what you think:
- [Reaching the Next Generation](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/11/reaching-the-next-generation/) - You might remember my post a while back about doing what we love, whatever that is, for the glory of God. There are countless ways we can do that, but today I want to highlight an author who's reaching an audience near and dear to my heart--teenagers. This morning Shellie Neumeier, author of Driven, sent
- [Throwing Off All That Hinders](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/11/03/throwing-off-all-that-hinders/) - For years, discouragement's been one of my greatest struggles. And once I let that first negative thought in, it isn't long before all my thoughts spiral. But about a year ago, I began to realize what a time sapper negativity is, so I decided to do an about face. I figured, I either believed God was
- [Faith in Fog](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/11/08/faith-in-fog/) - Oh, how I'd love continual clarity! Although God often speaks to my heart, and guides me through His Word, many times I'm baffled by circumstances and life-encounters. And yet, even during those times, when my "Why" rises up, God stays by my side, reminding me of His ever-present love. I've learned I may not always
- [Beethoven Didn't Sit Around Eating Pop Tarts](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/11/15/beethoven-didnt-sit-around-eating-pop-tarts/) - I've always wanted to play an instrument, but have never made it past a casual attempt. Oh, how I'd love to learn to draw and paint and crochet. In fact, there are so many things I'd love to learn to do, and I might even follow through if only they came easily. If I could
- [Sunday Extended](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/11/20/sunday-extended/) - Sadly, I often take the cross for granted. Maybe I've heard the account too many times, or maybe I've forgotten how dark my heart was when I first came to Christ. But every once in awhile, I catch a glimpse of the magnitute of God's love, revealed in sacrifice--not the kind of sacrifice we normally
- [Battling anxiety](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/11/21/battling-anxiety/) - We all worry, but for those who struggle with anxiety, the inner turmoil caused by "what-if" scenarious is stronger and more persistant. For the 4 million Americans struggling with anxiety, it's more than a momentary stomach flutter and it's going to take a bit more than quoting Jesus' command not to worry to move from
- [Gourmet People](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/11/29/gourmet-people/) - Today's post comes from a fellow Living by Grace gal, Patty Wysong. I have to admit, patience isn't my strong point. I like things quick and easy. When my husband and I were first married, I did the whole gourmet meal deal, but then the honeymoon phase wore off and life caught up, sending me
- [When God Nudges](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/01/when-god-nudges/) - When we lived in Southern California, I attended a gym. Fitness facilities in this area are unique to say the least. I think many gym members came to find dates, others came to show off their plastic surgery, and others, well... I never could quite figure out their reasons. Surrounded by such superficiality masking such deep
- [What is Your Legacy](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/12/02/what-is-your-legacy/) - Trudging through the day-to-day, life can appear to drag on, but truly it's just a blip and tomorrow is guaranteed to no one. When it's all said and done, what will you leave behind?
- [Remember Who You Belong To](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/09/28/remember-who-you-belong-to/) - In Paul's letters to the early church, he always starts with an identity proclamation and often closes with a declaration of association. In Romans and Philippians he is a slave of Christ. In 1 and II Corinthians, Ephesians, and Colossians he is chosen by God to be an apostle. In Galatians, he says, "I was
- [When is Helping Hurting?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/09/30/when-is-helping-hurting/) - A few years ago, my daughter would look at me with a twinkle in her eye and an adorable, slightly crooked smile on her face. I knew that look, and what was to follow. "Mom, because you're such a kind, loving mom, will you...?" Then she'd bat her eyes and try to weasel an act
- [What Does Trust Look Like](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/10/05/what-does-trust-look-like/) - The other day, while driving, my husband and I passed a blind woman led by a seeing eye dog. Cars zoomed by and horns honked, but the dog remained focused. His task? To bring the woman to her destination safely. The woman's task? To follow, not veering to the left or right. As I watched
- [In the Storms of Your Life by Lynn Squire](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/10/11/in-the-storms-of-your-life-by-lynn-squire/) - Today's post comes to us from Lynn Squire, author of Joab's Fire. Lynn is an avid writer who artistically intertwines Biblical truth with colorful narrative. Her childhood farm life, coupled with her equestrian experiences, brings authenticity and heart to her stories. Lynn actively serves her church through her writing in and in other ministries and
- [What's Your Point???](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/10/15/whats-your-point/) - Have you ever had a conversation that started out great only to take an immediate nose-dive? Even worse, those that ended with division, distrust, and harsh feelings? Not productive, especially when we're sharing our faith. And when we're there, in the moment, armed with truth and righteousness, it's easy to give in to pride and
- [What I Can't Do by Joanne Sher](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/10/18/what-i-cant-do-by-joanne-sher/) - If I go out on my own and decide what I will accomplish this year - or this month, or this day - I may or may not succeed. Because God does not strengthen me for what I want. He strengthens me for what He wants. You see, "all things" can be a bit misleading. It is only through Christ that I will be empowered - and He will not strengthen me for any old task. It is only those things that are in His will where He will work in my life this way.
- [Sweeping Away Heart Clutter by Patty Wysong](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/10/25/sweepingawayheartclutterbypattywysong/) - A lot of dirt gets tracked into our home and I often have one of the kids grab the big broom and do a quick sweep so we aren't crunching with every step and tracking it onto the carpet. But those quick sweeps with the big broom don't eliminate the need for a thorough sweep, complete with using the smaller broom along the edges and under the kitchen cabinets. When life gets real busy, I settle for quick sweeping jobs, but just as soon as we can, we get out the smaller broom.
- [What Happiness Requires by Billy Coffey](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/11/01/what-happiness-requires-by-billy-coffey/) - A while back, I stumbled upon this blog post by Billy Coffey after reading an email from a woman who claimed to be miserable. When I compared the email writer's life to that of the man from Billy's story, I realized Mark's found happiness because he sought. My friend found misery for the same reason--she sought it. She spent her time zeroing in on storm clouds, ignoring (or perhaps failing to see) the rainbows streaked within them.
- [Bits and Pieces](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/09/07/bits-and-pieces/) - To my subscribers, I apologize for the double-posting the other day. One of those "pre-scheduling" issues. As an update, however, our penpal ministry has grown, which is exciting. You may remember when I talked about the jewelry the orphan girls from San Miguel, El Salvador made. I'm still waiting to hear back from a couple
- [Where Everybody Knows Your Name](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/09/08/where-everybody-knows-your-name/) - When Facebook first launched, articles saturated the web warning us of the dangers of internet relationships. Would society become more isolated? More selfish? Shallower? Would having a computer to hide behind teach us to create barriers or could the safe and constant access to others actually have a positive effect? Like most tools, the values of social networking depends on the user, but for me, a writer who spends countless hours each day shut inside my office, Facebook has provided a much needed window to the outside world. It’s allowed me to stay in contact with distant friends and has deepened many relationships I hold dear. Facebook has become a wonderful, vibrant, interactive community. What better place to launch a Christ-centered devo-group?
- [The Trickle Affect Part III](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/09/09/the-trickle-affect-part-iii/) - Recently I read the novel, Demon, by Tosca Lee. It is an intriguing look at the fall of man and God's redemptive death on the cross through the eyes of a demon. In the novel, the demon took the main character to an elaborate house. His dream house. Then, while he stood there, the house
- [Loving on an Agenda](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/09/12/loving-on-an-agenda/) - Today, at Living By Grace, we're talking about loving without an agenda and serving with the proper attitude. I gotta admit, I blew this one last night. The Bible tells us to do our good deeds--our tithing, our serving, our self-sacrificing--in secret, to the glory of the Father, letting Him reward us in His way
- [Good Fellowship/Good Times by Keisha Gilchrist-Broomes](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/09/13/good-fellowshipgood-times-by-keisha-gilcrist-broomes/) - Good Fellowship/Good Times by Keisha Gilchrist-Broomes All the believers were one in heart and mind. No one claimed that any of their possessions was their own, but they shared everything they had. ~Acts 4:32 This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay
- [Knowing When to Quit](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/09/16/knowing-when-to-quit/) - Fifteen years ago, year one into my marriage, I took great pride in my "home-making" abilities. I always kept our floors spotless, I was the dusting diva, and dinners were timely and creative. Sounds great, perhaps even admirable, right? Except for the fact that maintaining a spotless house left little time for kingdom building. As
- [Armed for Victory](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/09/17/armed-for-victory-2/) - Two weeks ago a seminary professor came to our church and recited 2 Timothy. All of it, from 2 Timothy 1:1 to 2 Timothy 4:22. (You can listen to it here.) Sound amazing? Perhaps even impossible? And yet, pause now and think about all the songs you sing along to on the radio--those you know
- [Call Me Titus, Please by Laura Anderson Kurk](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/09/19/call-me-titus-please-by-laura-kurk/) - I like to think that Titus found comfort in the fact that Paul understood him and was prepared to back him up. In the same way, my one or two close friends prop me up, speak for me when I’m unable, and understand my heart.
- [When Desperation Takes Over](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/09/23/when-desperation-takes-over/) - If you’ve ever been to Southern California late-summer, you understand the meaning of hot. We lived on the edge of the Mojave Desert where rain evaded us and temperatures often hovered in the 110’s or higher. Being young and stupid, one day I decided to go for a long run—without water. About halfway through and
- [Who's the Oppressor? You Might Be Surprised](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/09/24/whos-the-oppressor-you-might-be-surprised/) - For most of my life, I've been a Heather, always looking for the best deal, oblivious to why some products were so much cheaper than others. Never putting two-and-two together, realizing if something was dirt cheap, there probably was a reason.
- [Nando's Bible by Yvonne Blake](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/09/22/nandos-bible-by-yvonne-blake/) - In Matthew chapter 13, Jesus equates the kingdom of heaven to a mustard seed, a tiny seed which, when sown, grows into a large tree--a tree that produces perhaps a million seeds. Although I've never seen a mustard tree, our yard has plenty of dandelions. Christians, like those tiny tufts carried by the wind, are meant to multiply, exponentially. Today's story by Yvonne Blake gives us a glimmer of "grace-ematics." It also reminds me how privileged we are to have easy access to God's Word. With privilege comes responsibility for to him who much is given, much is required. May we never take this privilege for granted and may we surrender each gift, each privilege, to the hands of our Father, to be multiplied according to His sovereign grace.
- [How Other Parents Do It](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/08/19/how-other-parents-do-it/) - Pre-baby, I used to dream about parenting. I had this idea that everything would fall into place and I’d spend my time snuggling pudgy-faced children with a picture book spread between us. Yep, it’d be easy. As long as I followed steps A, B, and C, everything would work out great. But once our sweet little baby came, reality hit and a terrifying thought ballooned: “What if I can’t do this?” Worse yet, “What if I mess our daughter up?” I worried about everything from vaccinations to nutrition, but my biggest concern centered around her faith. How could I encourage her to fall madly in love with Jesus—to make our faith her own? Not knowing what else to do
- [The Trickle Effect: Part I](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/08/22/the-trickle-effect-part-i/) - One of them, abused by her father and rejected by her mother, looks up, and sees the disgust on your face, and although she tries to add more bricks around her already encased heart, the dagger slices before the mortar sets. Your look confirmed what she already believed to be true--she's worthless, scum, unlovable. Ushering in a surge of anger to shield her breaking heart, she sucks harder on her cigarette and tells herself again and again she doesn't care, about that woman with the fancy clothes and perfect life, about her father and mother, about herself--about anything.
- [The Trickle Effect Part II](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/08/24/the-trickle-effect-part-ii/) - One day, while we were snuggled on the couch, a story book spread between us, our doorbell rang. I answered it to find Anna* standing on our front stoop. "Can Ashley play?" A smile spread across her face. Giving my "Mamma-Bear" full rein, I shook my head. "Not today."
- [Must We Always Learn the Hard Way?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/08/25/must-we-always-learn-the-hard-way/) - The result? By race day, staring across the wind-stirred lake, the task ahead didn't seem quite so daunting. I'd done it before, many times. Maybe not in a lake, but I knew what it felt like to push past exhaustion. At the end of my swim, as I jumped on my bike with rubbery legs slightly numbed from the frigid water, staring at the mammoth hill bearing down on me, I focused on my past training--the countless laps, hills, and miles I'd pushed through day after day. Contrary to what my brain tried to shout, I could do this...because I'd done it before.
- [God Can Hear Our Prayers by Jan Cox](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/08/26/god-can-hear-our-prayers-by-jan-cox/) - Today’s post comes from Jan Cox from Under the Cover of Prayer. We know we need to pray. The Bible tells us to pray consistently for others, ourselves, the world, and God's saving message, but coupled with the sovereignty of God, the act of prayer can become confusing. If God is in control, do our prayers really matter? Can we pray about anything, anytime, or are some prayers more righteous than others? How do we know when we get a yes, no, or not yet? Will a giant billboard fall from the sky? Today Jan raises numerous questions for us to ponder, then discusses one in greater detail. After you read her thoughts on prayer, share yours with us.
- [Thinking Back](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/08/28/thinking-back/) - Christ freed me. He didn't give me a band-aide but instead, reached deep inside me with His freeing, healing, life-transforming love and set me free. So this morning I'm gonna shout hallelujah, thank you Jesus, Lord You're worthy of all the honor and all the praise.
- [In Need of Deep Cleaning? Guest Post by Jessica Patch](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/08/29/in-need-of-deep-cleaning-guest-post-by-jessica-patch/) - Today's post comes from my dear friend, Jessica Patch. I visit her blog frequently, and always leave challenged and refreshed. Jessica lives in the mid-south where the heat rises much like her contemporary suspenseful romances. Her novels are relevant, provocative stories of inspiration. Readers will identify with characters that are flawed but redeemable. Using witty
- [Anything Hiding Behind Camouflage? Guest Post by Joanne Sher](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/08/31/anything-hiding-behind-camouflage-guest-post-by-joanne-sher/) - But if you are camouflaged (like this... um... handsome guy to the left, for example), the prey have no reason to fear--or at least they don't think they do. The deer will put their guard down, and before they know it: bang bang, fall down, venison jerky.
- [Where's My Rock to Crawl Under](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/09/01/wheres-my-rock-to-crawl-under/) - Today I'm at my dear friend, Fay Lamb's, sharing the not-so-glamorous side of writing. It's almost comical that she posted my piece today, considering my dentist appointment yesterday. Going in for what I thought was a routine capping (to finish a root canal) I left with a long list of "necessaries." My dentist's conclusion? I'm
- [Learning to Be-Do by Kimberly Zweygardt](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/09/02/learning-to-be-do-by-kimberly-zweygardt/) - Today Kimberly Zweygardt talks about the balance between being God's hands and feet and sitting at His feet. For me, this is a daily struggle and one I'll likely never master. In my life, the answer comes from awareness and intentional living. Learning to Be-Do by Kimberly Zweygardt For many, the lazy, hazy crazy days
- [When God Lights up the Sky](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/09/05/when-god-lights-up-the-sky/) - About two months ago, my friend started to sit on her back porch talking to God. Something about looking up at the sky, under the stars, brought her peace. One night as she poured out her heart to Him, she saw a shooting star. She was so excited but didn't connect it to God- not that time. Since that night, she has seen at least 6 - 10 shooting stars, always when she's talking to Him. Just typing this story to me overwhelmed her with emotion. Her words: It's a simple thing, but for me it reminds me of His love and how He delights in showing it- to ME. Just for me. Just because He wants me to know He's with me and hears me.
- [Waiting For the Story Ending](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/27/2486/) - Connie Almony Do you ever have those days (or weeks … or years) when everything seems to go wrong and you wonder, “Where is God in all this? Didn’t He hear me praying for things to go well?” Well, we just had one of those days.
- [Hacking Away at Dead Branches](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/28/hacking-away-at-dead-branches/) - Last summer, after two months of neglect, I decided to spend some time working in our yard. Had I gone out earlier, I’m sure I wouldn’t have ended up with such a tangled mess. Much to my dismay, in that short period of time, while I was comfortably tucked away in my nice, air conditioned
- [Exponential Expansion](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/30/exponential-expansion/) - God continues to amaze me with His rapid expansion of Christ to the World Ministries. It is extremely fulfilling to know the material I write reaches millions in countries all around the world, many living in areas hostile to the gospel. Broadcasting in over 23 different countries, it's hard to believe this ministry is only six
- [What About Now?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/31/what-about-now/) - A razor blade tucked inside her nightstand drawer beckons her. The scars forever etched in her arm pale compared to the deep wounds encasing her heart. One of these days, she’ll cut deep enough to end it all. Would anyone care? Would anyone even notice? The words spoken by a neighbor a few months back flood her mind, playing tug-of-war with her heart.
- [Be Still](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/29/be-still-2/) - I hope today's post by Kiersti Plog brings you into a restful and prayerful weekend. In many of my posts I talk about moment-by-moment surrender. That's different than scheduled obedience. One follows a list of rules, turning religion into a ritual. The other follows the risen Savior, drawing closely to His side with ears always open and a heart always ready to obey. It's easier to follow the to-do list, and if the two-do list centers around religious activity, it's easy to feel righteous by our actions. But God didn't say "Come perform." He said, "Follow me. Take my yoke upon you. Abide in Me. Draw near to Me. Let Me permeate every part of your being, speaking to you gently, like a dear friend and ever-faithful father."
- [When Time Runs Short](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/08/03/when-time-runs-short/) - Between VBS, taxiing teens, getting Ashley ready for the school year, writing, and starting a new job, this summer's turned crazy. Listening to other friends, it appears I'm not the only one with a rapidly mounting to-do list. For me, a lot of jobs and little time equals a dull mind. Yesterday is a perfect example. First, I missed our daughter's orthodontist appointment, then I showed up to our doctors appointment without the physical forms and had to return home, wasting time I didn't have.
- [Authentic Living](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/08/05/authentic-living/) - Honest living--truly honest living, is hard. We want to present an image of goodness. We want to hide our bad traits--the selfish thoughts that fight for dominance in a given day, the times when our mouth flies and our actions resemble more like gut-punches than acts of love. But God sees it all--the good and the bad. And He's not surprised or shocked. He remembers who we are--fallen man desperately in need of redemption!
- [Are You Building up or Tearing Down](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/08/08/are-you-building-up-or-tearing-down/) - The other day I stumbled upon Preslaysa Williams blog--a refreshing, encouraging site for mom's. Reading the following devotional, I loved her reminder to build--to encourage, strengthen, pour into--her marriage, so I asked her if I could repost it. Proverbs often provides opposites--don't do this, instead... In Proverbs 14:1, God contrasts wise and foolish living, leaving the choice to us. Each day, we have an opportunity to invest in the relationships around us. The choice is ours, we can either build up or tear down. It's much easier to build than it is to repair something lying in shambles.
- [Are You Ready to Fly?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/08/11/are-you-ready-to-fly/) - When my daughter was young she and I spent hours at the park, running through the grass in search of “blow flowers.” At first, she was drawn to the dandelions, but after picking a few, she tired of their stately petals. Seeded dandelions, on the other hand, offered hours of entertainment. Smiling at me, she’d
- [Standing Together](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/08/13/standing-together/) - Today's post comes from a very dear, forever friend of mine, Robin Prater. I love using the term "forever friend" because it reminds me not to take my relationships for granted. It reminds me to work at them, to make time for them, to hold tight to them. This is a strange idea in our independent, individualized society, but it is a biblical one. In fact, the Bible extends beyond friendship, uniting believers across the globe in one family.
- [A Journey of Self-discovery](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/08/15/a-journey-of-self-discovery/) - Who am I? What kind of person is looking back at me when I look into the mirror every day? That question has been on my mind lately. My husband and I have been reading the book, Deadly Emotions by Dr. Don Colbert. We read a section every night after our Bible reading time before we pray together. This book has been very intense—but in a good way. We’ve been learning how negative emotions are really toxic for your physical body and that there is a connection between your mind/soul, body and spirit. I always knew that but this book has driven that point home to me.
- [Taming the Tongue](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/08/17/taming-the-tongue/) - Have you ever noticed how readily we cling to the negative, no matter how irrational it is? Things spoken to me during my elementary years have stuck with me throughout countless successes and accolades, tearing at the walls of my heart. Think of your own life and those evasive lies you’ve allowed to wiggle their
- [Who Are You Thinking of Right Now?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/09/who-are-you-thinking-of-right-now/) - There's plenty of people serving for their own glory. For name recognition, for increased presitge. But God's looking for humble servants so in love with Him and His saving message, their willing to lay it all aside to be used how-so-ever God wills.
- [Dominated](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/12/dominated/) - I've heard people say religion is about control, and although I've always thought that was an absurd statement, perhaps it holds a nugget of truth. The more I learn about myself, God, and the Bible, I realize it's not so much a question of control but instead, of who's controlling you. Because there's no neutral ground.
- [Fighting Discouragement](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/14/fighting-discouragement/) - Today I'm fighting discouragement--for no apparent reason. Except perhaps that I'm overtired. In fact, I'm starting to notice a pattern, and although I usually keep my "down days" to myself, I wondered if perhaps I'm not alone. And I believe the Christian life is meant to be lived out loud so that we can learn, encourage and strengthen one another.
- [Stop by My Daughter's Blog](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/14/stop-by-my-daughters-blog/) - I don't normally post twice in a day, but I think you'll understand why I've made an exception. In order to hold back my "proud-momma" attitude, I think I'll keep this post short and sweet. My daughter has always had a very tender heart for the school's misfits. Her compassion has caused her pain on
- [Keep Rowing](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/15/keep-rowing/) - Loved this quote from Eddie Snipes, I Called Him Dancer, (another novel that demonstrates what it means to live out the gospel message). "Don't ask the Lord to bless your plans. Seek Him alone, and walk in the works He established for you to walk in. He may ask you to row against the wind, but that's okay. Row with faithfulness and obedience."
- [Ashley Slattery Shares Her Heart, and Her Faith](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/16/ashley-slattery-shares-her-heart-and-her-faith/) - Ashley Slattery chats with young adult author, K Dawn Byrd.
- [Wild Roses by Kathy Harris](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/18/wild-roses-by-kathy-harris/) - With each step, my high-heeled sandals reminded me of the uphill walk to the convention center and the thought that I should have changed into my walking shoes before leaving the car. But the warm, spring weather and the chance to “people watch” soon took my mind off any discomfort.
- [Parenting on Your Knees](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/21/parenting-on-your-knees/) - This year our daughter starts high school. This is the age when kids either flop or flourish. They either self-destruct or blossom. Quite honestly, a great deal of the parenting’s already been done. More and more, I spend less time telling my daughter how to view the world. Most often, I listen as she tries...
- [When the Winds Howl](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/22/when-the-winds-howl/) - I love today's devo by Patty Wysong because it reminds me that God's power and care is not dependent on me--my strength and size. Like the tiny hummingbird flittering through the storm, I too can strand strong because my Savior lives inside me.
- [My Marriage Before and After](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/23/my-marriage-before-and-after/) - One day while my daughter and I waited at the doctor's office, we skimmed through one of those beauty magazines with the before and after pictures. Inside, we read of how beauticians gave numerous women make-overs. Photographers recorded the transformation on print. I often wish I had similar snap-shots to record my progress in Christ
- [Hearts Wide Open](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/24/hearts-wide-open/) - Tonight our church kicks off its VBS, which will be held at three locations--one in our sanctuary, one at a local apartment complex, and another at a local mobile home park. Last week Global Encounter opened the door and set the stage, pouring the love of Christ on kids in our community. This afternoon, God
- [Training Radical Obedience](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/25/training-radical-obedience/) - “I feel like, if we’re not careful, what we’re going to do with teenagers is we’re going to unintentionally as a church say, ‘You guys are the ones who’ll go play waffle-ball with the kids and then we’ll do all the biblical teaching,'" Bob said. "I’m convinced that even though these students at age fourteen may not be the quality teacher that a sixty-year that is precious to the kingdom and very valuable to the kingdom and has been doing it for thirty-years, they may not be that teacher, but they never will become that teacher if we don’t give them the opportunity. It’s imperative that adults—man, be there, pour into them, absolutely, you know, advice, but not take control.
- [Choosing Your Battles](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/06/03/choosing-your-battles/) - This hasn't always been easy. In fact, there's been times when it's been very painful. Our family has been through many difficulties. I'm sure you all could say the same. As a mom, how I wish I could shelter our daughter from every struggle...but without adversity, what kind of adult would she grow to be?
- [What Can You Do Today?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/06/07/what-can-you-do-today/) - As Christians, we have this same tendency. It's easy to stay in our cozy little areas of comfort, with the blankets tucked up under our chin. We know Jesus is returning, we know life is short, storms will come, wars will rage. Cognitively, we know many will pass into eternity today. We know they will go one of two places. We know the reality of eternity without Christ, yet still we lie in bed, believing the lie that we have all the time in the world.
- [Going Straight to the Source](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/06/09/going-straight-to-the-source/) - My main concern? If this were to happen tomorrow, how would I respond to these signs, miracles, and deceptions? How close am I to God? How clearly do I hear His voice? How well do I know His truth?
- [Living By Faith](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/06/14/living-by-faith/) - This orphanage houses 30 children ranging from four years old to sixteen. The orphanage survives completely on donations. Yesterday, the orphanage director and her husband fed our team. Before we left we tried to pay for our meal, and she said the meal hadn't cost her anything. Everything had been donated. Then she went on to tell us how each day, they trust in God to provide and each day they receive exactly what they need. My husband asked them how much it cost to fund their orphanage and they said $3,000 per month. That's a lot of money to wait in faith for, especially when you have so many young mouths to feed.
- [Create Family, Not Converts](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/06/21/create-family-not-converts/) - Second, focus on long-term. No one likes to be a project. When you reach out to that new couple or leave a gospel tract on a doorstep, ask yourself, "Am I ready to be here for them for the long haul or am I just trying to 'get them in'?" Because people can tell the difference. One type of friendship draws them and creates a place of safety where they can learn about Christ. The other type of friendship results in increased distrust.
- [Long-term Missions](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/06/23/long-term-missions/) - During the crusade, I watched the people in the city. The first night, curious heads poked out of doorways and the local policemen watched from their stations. But very little people outside of our group came. The second night, some students from the local schools gathered on the outskirts, but they didn't stay. By the third night, a few of the locals started to meander over and one man in particular rode his bicycle over, stayed, and accepted Christ.
- [Looking Past the Religion](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/06/25/looking-past-the-religion/) - I just completed a youth drama for Christ to the World Ministries on bullying. In it, I addressed three different people: the bully, the victim, and the onlooker. As I wrote about the responsibilities of the onlooker--for those who witness evil behavior, I realized my focal passage had a lot to say about how I lived
- [Sitting in the Lifeboat Surrounded by the Drowning, by April Gardner](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/06/28/sitting-in-the-lifeboat-surrounded-by-the-drowning-by-april-gardner/) - The heat that day was overwhelming but more so was the country's need for a Savior. As we passed out fliers for the upcoming event, I began to realize how few fliers we had to distribute. The stack in my hand dwindled quickly as one child after another took their copy and ran with the exciting news to their parents. When only one blue paper remained, I scanned the park looking for who I might give it to. Children scampered all about me, hollering and laughing, oblivious to their need.
- [Under God's Cloud Cover](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/06/29/under-gods-cloud-cover/) - It’s been a hot summer and I’m starting to look for that nice cloud cover followed by a few cool drops of rain. The other day, after noticing the blanket of white covering the sun, my husband asked if I’d like to go for a run. Having spent most of the summer on the treadmill,
- [Love at the end of a Shot-gun](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/02/love-at-the-end-of-a-shot-gun/) - When I was about 4 years old my mother reappeared and wanted to take me home with her. She had remarried and according to her, my grandparents had promised she could have me back when she got back on her feet. My mother rarely came to visit, so even as young as I was I knew something was up. The truth was she was jealous of all the love and attention I was getting, and she thought that should have been her as a little girl in Grandpa's arms. She grabbed me and ran for the door, but my grandfather stopped her before she could reach the door. He pulled a 30.06 out of the closet and aimed it directly at her! I remember the screams and the tears, and all of the yelling...but it would be years later before the full impact would sink in.
- [God, What Do You Want Me to Do???](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/05/god-what-do-you-want-me-to-do/) - My post title question appears to be one of the most frequently asked question in Christianity. It's an important question and one that should always be on the forefront of our mind every moment of every day, but if we're not careful, this question can render us ineffective. I think it's easy to slip into perpetual spin mode. If we spend more time seeking God's will than doing it, before long, spiders will spin cobwebs in our hair.
- [Sharing the Journey](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/07/07/sharing-the-journey/) - And, if we're following whole-heartedly after God, there's nothing to fear. Even failure becomes a glorious stepping stone, because if we "fail," but do so following God, then we know our failure was God-ordained. Meaning, there was something we needed to learn, or a weakness that needed to be strengthened, or a sin that needed to be sliced out, through that failure.
- [The Words We Speak](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/04/29/the-words-we-speak/) - When we lived in California, we had a friend who always spoke slowly, as if calculating every word. Although the impatient side of me at times grew frustrated, I often wondered how many arguments, embarrassments and tense situations I'd avoid if I only took the time to think before I spoke. What's more, how much
- [Short-Story Saturday](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/04/30/short-story-saturday/) - Moses lifted his gaze toward the distant hills, a gentle breeze stirring through his thick, gray hair. “I know that God has heard the cries of his people and has deemed it time to act. I know that He will be their mighty deliverer. I know Aaron, my brother whom I thought I would never see again, is on his way to meet me even now.” He inhaled, then exhaled slowly, hoping to quiet the churning in his stomach. “I know it will not be easy—that the Pharaoh’s heart will grow hard again and again and I fear that my people, the people I come to help, will hate me.”
- [Kisses From God](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/05/07/kisses-from-god/) - The following is a true story, and one I'll always hold close to my heart because it shows the tender heart of our Heavenly Father. There is so much tragedy in our world, surely God's got bigger things to worry about then little old us and our day-to-day struggles...But no, no struggle is to small. This is something that will always amaze me. As a mom, it can be easy to view many of my daughters issues as trivial. Luckily God never has this problem. He's able to see the big and the small, and is intimately involved in it all...because He loves us deeply. The Bible tells us His thoughts toward us are like the grains of sand on the seashore. Meaning, we're always on His mind.
- [In Absence of Integrity](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/05/04/in-absence-of-integrity/) - As I reflected upon this post, I thought how starkly our generation contrasts biblical times. Throughout the Bible you here mention of oaths--about 30 times. Deals could be sealed by removing your sandal and once you gave your word, you were bound. And Jesus Himself tells us our yes should be yes and our no should be no, meaning, our integrity should be such that people expect us to keep our word, whether we've made an oath or not. Could that be said of you? Today, an oath is a temporary statement of convenience. We almost expect promises and commitments to be broken. How easy those excuses come when our original agreement is deemed inconvenient! We've even found loop-holes to those set in legal stone. The result is an over all lack of trust.
- [The Ugly Barbie by Raine Sommersett](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/05/10/the-ugly-barbie-by-broken-raine/) - On his way home he stopped by the local Goodwill store. He headed off to his section and she wandered (under his watchful eye) over to the toy section. About 5 minutes later he was ready to go so he stopped to get her. She held a badly damaged Barbie doll, gently stroking what little hair remained. “This one,” she said. “This is the doll I want.”
- [The Blind Leading the Blind~Allegorical Excerpt by Shellie Neumeier](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/05/14/the-blind-leading-the-blindallegorical-excerpt-by-shellie-neumeier/) - One summer we went on a joint vacation. A large number of the people who joined us were unsaved and honestly, I found it quite frustrating and uncomfortable. Our daughter was young at the time, at that tender age where you want to saturate them with goodness and shield them from all evil and harm. Only every time I turned around, provocative television shows blasted, adults swore, talked of things that made me blush, let alone our daughter, and downed one beer bottle after another. It wasn't long before the Momma-Bear in me raged! My first reaction? I wanted to leave, and take our impressionable daughter with me.
- [What Is Your Identity](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/05/16/what-is-your-identity/) - We live in a striving, performing, achieving culture and it's easy to get swept adopt an achievment oriented attitude. When meeting new people, often the first thing they'll ask is, "What do you do?" For women, they'll ask one another, "What sports do your kids play?" We've come to define ourselves by the roles we play, but aren't we meant for more?
- [God's Got It Covered](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/05/19/gods-got-it-covered/) - "We are in isolation on the children’s floor. Everyone is required to wear a gown and mask to come in here. I'm scared he's going to die. Where are you? I need you!" I swiped at the tears dripping down my cheeks. "Michele, you don't know he is going to die, he is in God’s hands. Don't fall apart now."
- [A Crown Of Glory Or In Need of Clairol](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/05/21/a-crown-of-glory-or-in-need-of-clairol/) - But the deputies had left the porch and only the breeze and I heard Jacob’s appeal. Since that day his step is slower and more shuffled, his daytime naps longer; his eyes look beyond me when we talk. When I come by to take him to the bank or to church on Sunday, he’s uncomfortable. But he has resigned himself to sit in the car’s passenger seat. He nurses a silent rebellion.
- [Blessings From the Top of the Tree by Delia Latham](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/05/24/blessings-from-the-top-of-the-tree-by-delia-latham/) - It was a humdinger of a windstorm—unusually rough for California, where we lived at the time. Not anything approaching tornado severity, but enough to knock down a few trees, tear off a bunch of roof tiles and stir up some pretty nasty allergies.
- [Short Story Saturday~Put the Superheroes Away by Andrea and Adam Graham](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/05/28/short-story-saturdayput-the-superheroes-away-by-andrea-and-adam-graham/) - Perhaps I'm eating my words today. A while back I wrote a post about how the teen years didn't need to be rebelious. Still true, but today that truth is colored by an emerging revelation: I'm annoying. And smothering. Yep, somehow overnight I've gone from humorous to teeth-gritting irritating.
- [Are You a Hoarder?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/05/31/are-you-a-hoarder/) - The other day my sister shared a modern day manna story. After the recent economic downturn, stock market crash, upheavel in other countries, sky-rocketing gas prices and political unrest in America, she and her husband decided to prepare for the "what-ifs". They stocked their basement shelves with numerous food items, including vacuum sealed potatoes. A few months later, a nasty stench emenated from their basement. At first they thought perhaps their sewage system had backed up. Yep, it was that bad.
- [Perpetual Offenders: When to Stay and When to Walk Away](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/03/31/perpetual-offenders-when-to-stay-and-when-to-walk-away/) - Forgiveness itself is hard enough, but what about those wounds that continue occur? I don't have an easy answer for this one, except to say, according to the Bible, there's no disclaimers on forgiveness. I don't read, "Forgive, unless the person is unforgiveable." Or, "Forgive X amount of times, then, if the person refuses to change, walk away."
- [The Hardest Ones to Forgive by Ane Mulligan](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/03/30/the-hardest-ones-to-forgive-by-ane-mulligan/) - Ane Mulligan writes Southern-fried fiction served with a tall, sweet iced tea. While a large, floppy straw hat is her favorite, she’s worn many different ones: hairdresser, legislative affairs director (that’s a fancy name for a lobbyist), business manager, drama director and writer—her lifetime experience provides a plethora of fodder for fiction (try saying that three times fast). She’s editor of the popular literary blog Novel Journey—one of Writers Digest’s 101 Top Websites for Writers, a humor columnist for ACFW’s e-zine Afictionado, and a past Board member of ACFW. She’s published dozens of plays and numerous articles and won several awards in contests for unpublished novels. A mom and grandmother, she resides in Suwanee, GA, with her husband and one very large dog.
- [Forgiving the Unforgivable by Martha Rogers](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/04/01/forgiving-the-unforgivable-by-martha-rogers/) - I'll admit, today's story is very difficult for me to post. As I read Martha Rogers' testimony, numerous emotions surfaced and to be honest, I strongly contemplated sending her an email telling her I couldn't post her story. I believe to do so would cause her pain, yet I am equally concerned her testimony may hurt some of my readers. Her testimony raises a key question well worth addressing: Is anyone beyond grace?
- [Taking a Stand To Forgive by Donna Pyle](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/04/02/taking-a-stand-to-forgive-by-donna-pyle/) - How could I have possibly missed the signs? Is this actually happening? Those questions flooded my mind as I watched an unannounced nuclear bomb decimate my marriage. The man I had shared 19 years of my life with had treaded a dark path and chosen to walk away to save face instead of save our marriage.
- [Forgiving Yourself by Paula Petty](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/04/04/forgiving-yourself-by-paula-petty/) - My life was much like the gum on the shoe. I didn’t feel forgiven. With each step I took, I felt the weight of the sin sticking to me like the gum on the shoe. Confusion and doubt settled in my mind causing me to lose focus. Each mess in my life brought me before the Lord in repentance, and the weight of my sin brought me further down until my life spiraled out of control and sent me into depression. I wanted to feel forgiven.
- [Stretched to Dependence](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/04/06/stretched-to-dependence/) - Last October I shared my excitement for a door God opened, one I quickly jumped through. It was a stretching experience that forced me to rely on grace. But eventually the experience grew comfortable. Not that I stettled into apathy or mediacracy, but instead, I settled into my role. Only God never wants us to settle, does He? So, yep, He opened the door a bit wider, and once again, I stepped through, knowing if God didn't hold my hand, guide my steps and give me an extra dose of creativity, I'd fall flat on my face. Which, initially, was a great place to be.
- [Their Hearts Cry Out](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/04/09/their-hearts-cry-out/) - As adults, its easy to watch them from afar, lumping them all into one "rebellious heap", but those who take the time to dig a bit deeper catch a different picture. A picture of isolation, of trying to fit in, of hearts broken from rejection or abandonment, of hearts crying out for a Savior.
- [What's Your Jericho](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/04/13/whats-your-jericho/) - Israelites marched step by arduous step, God used that time to mold their character. He used their doubts to expose the hidden secrets of their heart. Perhaps a few of them touched the wall, testing it's strength. I wonder if the men trembled with urgency, clenching their fists, fighting against an urge to do something! To pick up stones and hurl them at the wall, to charge it with brute strength! Anything but march around it...for seven long days while the priests blew horns.
- [How Big is Your God?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/04/18/how-big-is-your-god/) - Remember the wall of Jericho we talked about? It never would have collapsed if the Israelites remained in their camp. God called them to take the city. Could they do it? Absolutley not...in their own strength. But could God do it through them? Piece of cake.
- [In Light of the Cross](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/04/21/in-light-of-the-cross/) - 1 Corinthians 6:20 tells us we were bought at a price and in Romans 1:1 Paul calls himself a bondservant to Christ. I am completing a five part series on Joseph for Christ to the Word ministries and in my latest assignment, evaluated Joseph's life in it's totally, from his perspective, seated as second in command in all of Egypt. Why did God allow him to endure slavery for so long? I believe it was to teach him to be a servant. Slaves have no rights nor expectations but instead, are every watching their Master, ready to do whatever necessary to here, "Well done, good and faithful servant."
- [Just Get 'Er Done!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/04/25/just-get-er-done/) - And remember, if you are in Christ, you are in a position of victory. Battles will come, but you are on the winning team. And we know how this will all end, don't we? When we stand before the eternal King, surrounded by His Presence, all our momentary struggles will be forgotten as unimaginable joy fills your soul. The question is, who else will be there to celebrate with us?
- [How to Maximize Your Impact](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/04/26/how-to-maximize-your-impact/) - Have you ever talked with someone and felt like they didn't hear a word you said? Or asked a question only to have them provide an irrelevant answer? A few nights ago, as I gathered among other believers, we talked of this very thing--how people came to Christ, and one man in our group asked an interesting question. The leader began to address the question, but never did, because he was too focused on 1) the information he wanted to convey and 2) how he interpreted the question based on number 1. The problem with this was, although the speaker reached his goal, he failed to reach his audience.
- [Resisting the Extremes](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/03/07/resisting-the-extremes/) - 5. Stay in community. Isolation leads to deception. If everyone else in your Bible study disagrees with you, consider the possibility that you are the one in error. If you are feeling tempted to pull away and isolate, recognize this is not from God. God desires believers to live in community. Satan wants us to live in isolation because then we are wide open for attack. This doesn't mean we will always agree with everything our church or church members believe, but even when we disagree, we should do so with a healthy dose of humility, recognizing that we very well could be wrong.
- [Surrender VS. Commitment](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/03/08/surrender-vs-commitment/) - My brother sent this link (to the Discipleship Journal) to me via email this morning and I thought it was worth sharing. I would love to read your thoughts on this. Why I'm Not a Committed Christian by Bob Butler
- [Showing Vs. Telling](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/03/10/showing-vs-telling/) - But how do I do that? First, by telling an excellent, vibrant, and descriptive story. This involves carefully selecting details that set the desired tone. For example, if I want my reader (who has become my main character) to feel joy, I can weave enticing or comforting aromas, sounds, and images into the scene. Perhaps children giggling on a sloping hill, or a hummingbird flittering among fragrant rose bushes.
- [Too Many Prophets, Too Few Friends](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/03/11/too-many-prophets-too-few-friends/) - Through out my life I have had many "friends" speak truth, but few have stuck around when I needed them most. And on my end, I've crushed many, many friends by letting my mouth run. After I've dealt the painful blows, usually spoken in pride, I am reminded of something our pastor in Louisiana used to say, "Don't try to be the Holy Spirit in someone else's life."
- [The Story Behind Breaking Free](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/03/11/the-story-behind-breaking-free/) - Last night I watched a DVD my editor at Christ to the World, Art Criscoe, produced and in it, he talked about the beauty and freedom of grace. He used two illustrations that were very powerful: One was that of a bird in a cage. The bird represents us, enslaved by sin, prior to Christ. But then, he opened the cage and although in he didn't use a live a bird, the audience could envision this previously bound bird suddenly taking flight and soaring on the wind. Next, he had the audience sing the first line in Amazing Grace. Do you remember it? "Amazing grace, how sweet the sound that saved a wretch like me." Then he paused and asked a very heart-pricking question: What does grace sound like? And in answer, he picked up a long metal chain and dropped it in a box.
- [Learning To Walk Again~One Woman's Story of Finding Strength in Her Time of Need](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/03/15/learning-to-walk-againone-womans-story-of-finding-strength-in-her-time-of-need/) - There was just one problem. I found out very early on that he had an addiction. He used crack. His usage was almost always brought on by drinking too much. He didn’t do it if he was sober. Mostly, he drank too much on the weekends, but also during the week. He would drink and then take off to get some crack, then come back and stay up all night and sleep half the day. At first, I was fearful and worried, but I thought it wasn’t that serious and that he would get over it. We were still young. He couldn’t possibly want to continue his habit once we started a family, right? I didn’t leave or tell anyone or tell him to get help, because my fear of losing him and losing his love was much greater. The time we spent together when he wasn’t drinking or using were almost always enjoyable, so I put the pain and fear away in a box and closed the lid tightly.
- [What Do My Emotions Have to Do With It?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/03/17/what-do-my-emotions-have-to-do-with-it/) - I pause with my hands on the steering wheel to suck in a few breaths of air, then scan the church parking lot. Daphni’s red Toyota sits a few stalls away, glimmering in the early evening sun. A wave of bitterness washes over me as our previous conversation comes to mind. I shake it off. Forgive and forget. Love, joy, peace, patience. And if not love, a steady dose of tolerance–or duck tape.
- [Before the Battle Lines~Come With Me to the Robin's Nest](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/03/19/before-the-battle-linescome-with-me-to-the-robins-nest/) - On Tuesday, we'll continue with our series on forgiveness, but in the meantime, I want to route you over to the Robin's Nest where I wrote an article I am extremely passionate about. As you read it, ask yourself the question I ended with. You wanna live like Christ? He answered both those questions with
- [Freedom in Forgiveness](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/03/22/freedom-in-forgiveness/) - Scrawling the name came easy, it was releasing this person from my heart I struggled with. But as I walked up to the blazing fire, paper clutched in my hand, reality settled in, and my pain turned to praise. Yes, God wanted me to forgive this person out of obedience and as an active demonstration of my love for Him and gratitude for all He'd done. But it was so much more than that! Christ paid for my freedom when He died on the cross, but this root of bitterness had infested me, hindered me...enslaved me. Christ wanted me to let it go, because only then would I truly be free.
- [Raw Emotions](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/03/24/raw-emotions/) - Emotions are a confusing issue in the evangelical world. It seems we jump to one of two extremes: either we rely heavily on our emotions, sacrificing truth; or we relegate them to the flesh in suppressed denial. Neither extreme is healthy and I wonder if perhaps both lead to the same emotion--bitterness. Tuesday we discussed the problems with allowing wounds to fester. Our wounds fester when we rehash them again and again, working the perceived injustice in our mind until it consumes our every thought. But I believe suppressed denial follows a similar path...the traveler's journey is just a bit quieter. For a time, anyway, until those swallowed-down, pent-up emotions grow to the point of explosion. Then, watch out! There she blows--only it normally isn't the inciting incident that leads to explosion. It's a pen that ran out of ink, a driver going to slow on the freeway, or an unsuspecting spouse who happens to glance right when they should have glanced left.
- [490 Degree Forgiveness by Kathleen Maher](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/03/28/490-degree-forgiveness-by-kathleen-maher/) - In my teen years, I learned that my biological father had begun yet another family. His alcoholism and violent outbursts had apparently summoned the Foster Care system to take his new children away. It sickened and embarrassed me. He brought my mother shame in our small community as word of his behavior trickled back like daggers into her genteel heart. I hated that my mother, who had raised me and my siblings all by herself and sacrificed so much for us, had been hurt once more by his evil and selfish choices.
- [Fighting To Forgiveness](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/03/29/fighting-to-forgiveness/) - But while God's working to bring us wholeness and freedom, our adversary the devils devising counter measures to keep us in bondage and isolation. The last thing Satan wants is unity, but he probably won't attack you when you're in the middle of prayer. No, he'll wait until your caught up in life to bombard you because then, just maybe you'll be surprised enough to give in.
- [A Truth-Filled Heart](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/01/19/a-truth-filled-heart/) - In Tony Evans, Free at Last, he gives an illustration of a driver stuck in traffic attempting to find his way out by craning his neck to see around the long line of cars. How many of us would do that? How helpful would it be to ask the car next to us for aid? Their vision is equally blocked. All they can see is the mass of cars all around them. Instead, we turn on the radio in search of the helicopter update--news from one who is above it all and can clearly see.
- [Blessed to Be a Blessing](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/01/22/blessed-to-be-a-blessing/) - Same with Joseph. When we first meet Joseph in Genesis 37, it appears he's consumed with the dream and how he's going to rule over his brothers. After a few hard nocks and some rather painful humbling, he comes to realize it was never about him. It was about how God wanted to save many, including his brothers. So, although God used one man, named Joseph, to bring about His plan, all the while He was thinking about the masses. Because that's how God works.
- [Stuck in the Interim](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/01/27/stuck-in-the-interim/) - Speaking of earthly trials, John C. Hutchinson says, "These dark moments actually have eternal significance!...Our lives are part of a bigger story, a drama that is unfolding in the heavenlies. When we understand this, it allows us to see every situation in life, especially the difficult ones, as faith opportunities that carry eternal significance."
- [The Beauty of the Broken](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/01/30/the-beauty-of-the-broken/) - Her life was like the very first domino in a beautifully, intertwined display, except the story really began long before then, with another domino set in motion in her life, and the domino set in motion in the life that loved on her, each one but a tiny, yet powerful, part of a glorious, life-saving story that will one-day unfold before us. And then, when we stand in God's presence, surrounded by an innumerable family of believers, each one but another domino that set into motion another chain, everything will all make sense and all we'll be able to say is, "Amen! Praise and glory and wisdom and thanks and honor and power and strength be to our God for ever and ever. Amen!" (Revelations 7:12 NIV)
- [True Grit by Elaine Cooper, Author of the Road to Deer Run](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/02/03/true-grit-by-elaine-cooper-author-of-the-road-to-deer-run/) - Picture Marshal Cogburn. He’s not exactly swarthy. He’s out of shape and looks like he’s seen a few too many gunfights. But he stays focused on not one but four armed outlaws ready to take him on. He sits up in the saddle, pulls out his handgun with one hand and his rifle with the other. He doesn’t run away but he faces his enemies and meets them head-on—with resolve, perseverance, and guts. Rooster really knows what he stands for.
- [The Teen Years Don't Have to Be Painful](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/02/07/the-teen-years-dont-have-to-be-painful/) - In my experience, when teens turn rebellious, the parents were the first to leave. Not physically, but emotionally. Among my daughter's friends, this started happening in sixth grade, once children were legally allowed to stay home alone. Suddenly many of her friends were spending long afternoons by themselves waiting for their parents to get off work. They were allowed to stay up all hours of the night, watching television long after their parents went to bed. Parents no longer tuck them in with a hug and an I love you. Butterfly kisses are a thing of the past. Basically, they were treated as little adults, with increasingly less parental interaction.
- [Run to the Darkness](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/02/14/run-to-the-darkness/) - When our daughter was young we lived in Southern California. Life in California is unique in many ways. It is not uncommon for a child to go through life without ever touching snow. You can live on top of your neighbors and not know them. You'll spend hours in your car, not moving (rush-hour traffic). You'll drive forty-five minutes to find the hiking trails cut in center of the city. You'll sit in your back yard, which will likely be covered in cement or gravel, and stare into the night sky in search of those ultra-bright stars that somehow manage to outshine the city lights.
- [A Life Transformed ~ Albert Lozano's story](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/02/17/a-life-transformed-albert-lozanos-story/) - I grew up in LA california. My parents fought constantly, drunk most of the time. The cops likely knew our address by heart, they came by so many times. I lost my mom at ten yrs old. My dad passed away three days before my 15th Bday. From then on I was homeless from a couple to a few yrs, got really involed in gangs, drugs and drinking. I started going to jail as a teenager. At age fifteen I'd had enough. My life was hopeless and my future bleak, so I tried to commit suicide. It didn't work. By seventeen I was shooting up dope.
- [Endurance Training](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/02/21/endurance-training/) - There was one boy in particular. He puked after every turn-out. Every one. At first I was concerned. I searched the internet for nutritional information, then relayed what I learned to him and his dad. Perhaps it was a salt defficiency. Maybe he was hungry, or hadn't had time to digest his food.
- [Somewhere Between Freak-out and a Pajama Party](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/02/24/somewhere-between-freak-out-and-a-pajama-party/) - Parenting teens can be like walking a tightrope. You want to connect with them, to demonstrate you care and understand where they're coming from without stepping away from your God-given role as guide and protector. It's easy to swing from one extreme to the other.
- [Writing--God's Gift to Moms](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/03/02/writing-gods-gift-to-moms/) - The Slattery family's been leveled by the flu, so today's post is going to be short and sweet. Okay, so maybe just short. Today was our daughter's first day back to school after spending nearly a week in bed and as we waited for the clock to turn, signaling it was time for her to go, she curled into my arms. Those unhurried moments when "calling in" is as easy as setting my computer aside remind me how blessed I am to stay home.
- [Top Three of 2010](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/29/top-three-of-2010/) - By far, Edie Melson's God's Timing is Always Perfect, was your top choice. Apparently we all struggle with patience and faith, trusting that God is still working even when things don't go according to our plan or timetable. You might want to read her post again, then spend some time reading through Genesis 37-45. God revealed His plan to Joseph when he was seventeen, but for decades, circumstances appeared to negate the vision he had received. He was betrayed by his brothers, sold into slavery, taken into a strange land, thrown into prison. Could all that really be part of God's plan? Had he heard correctly? Had God changed His mind? Not at all. God working the entire time, molding Joseph into the man He created him to be?
- [It's Never Too Late To Begin Again](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/31/its-never-too-late-to-begin-again/) - About ten, maybe twelve years ago, after a rather brutal verbal fight, my husband looked at me with a stone cold face and said, "I don't love you anymore." My world ended that day. I can't quite describe the feeling. I wanted to hurl, to cry, to beg him to take it back, but my pride was stronger. Things quickly spiraled, and before we knew it, we were sitting in a lawyers office talking about alimony and child support.
- [Who Do We Think We're Fooling?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/01/03/who-do-we-think-were-fooling/) - They say communication is about 80, perhaps even 90% non-verbal. In fact, people will believe your body language more than your verbal--likely because it is almost innate. Our face reacts instantaneously, revealing our true emotions long before we cover with that cheek-aching forced smile. Which means, we're really not fooling anybody, are we?
- [A Courageous Heart](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/01/05/a-courageous-heart/) - But Abraham didn't say that. Fear took hold instead, and motivated him to take matters into his own hands. Sure, God had promised to bless him and make him into a great offspring, but maybe He needed Abraham's help. So Abraham came up with a plan to "help" God's plan come to fruition.
- [A Fulfilled Heart](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/01/06/a-fulfilled-heart/) - I've heard people with depression or bipolar disorder often self-medicate using drugs or alcohol. People without Christ self-medicate with temporary fillers. Only these fillers leave us empty and grasping for more. The only solution, then, is to continually draw near to God, through prayer and study. The closer we are to Him, the more balanced our lives will be because He removes those "distracting fillers" and replaces them with His divine, all-consuming love.
- [A Heart That Bleeds](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/01/10/a-heart-that-bleeds/) - Again, the forced smile and a mumbled thank you. The bag boy tucked the last bag into my cart and turned it toward the door, waiting for me to join him. I saw the cashier out of the corner of my eye turn the book over and glance at the back. As the bag boy and I reached the door, the girl called out behind me. I turned. She had tears in her eyes as she held up the book. She tapped her finger on the back cover. “Is this what this book is about?”
- [Living Under Victory](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/01/17/living-under-victory/) - We like the verse that talks about faith, right? And we'll use it when praying for something we desire, but notice the entire passage. Jesus isn't talking about uprooting mulburry trees. He's talking about forgiving someone when they've wronged us. By saying, "Increase our faith!" the apostle was saying, "I can't do this!" But Jesus said, "Oh, yes you can. You have all the faith you need."
- [Decade Old Newly Weds (Is that Possible?)](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/01/07/decade-old-newly-weds-is-that-possible/) - This morning as I drove to meet my mentor, KLOVE radio shared a story of a homeless man who had been given a second chance. I imagine you've heard this story by now as it's circulated the web and airwaves quite a bit, but one thing that hit me was that it was his ex-wife who prayed for him first. That reminded me how powerful marriage is. The Bible tells us spouses become one when they wed--like two slips of paper glued together. Or perhaps more accurately, like threads of yarn tightly woven. You can rip the couple apart, or unwind the threads, but neither paper nor thread will ever be the same again. The torn paper will be shredded and the strands of yarn frayed and stretched. In most cases, (I don't have the wisdom or knowledge to address marital unfaithfulness, abuse or addiction) it is far easier to do what it takes to make a marriage work then deal with the stress, pain and long-term consequences of divorce.
- [A Heart Prepared~Melissa's Story](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2011/01/13/a-heart-preparedmelissas-story/) - Once the walls that I had built which were keeping the religious at bay started crumbling, I began to notice more people being drawn to me (or perhaps me to them). In search of a church home, I began attending services at a few different churches trying to find one that fit me best. Now I am still on that search but it is one of the things I want to really focus on this year. Knowing that the more I submit myself to receiving, the more I will be able to give. The day I bumped into my teacher, Miss Winter (Sue), felt like a culmination of God saying to me "See, I am here." To have this woman, who was important to me so long ago, be the deliverer of a small Christmas tract about Jesus, and for me to willing accept it - read it and for her name to be there was more than a coincidence. It felt like a true gift and I accept it.
- [Peace Amidst the Storm by Lynn Squire](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/14/peace-amidst-the-storm-by-lynn-squires/) - For once in my life I came face to face with something I could not control, no matter how hard I tried. I've stopped a running horse by bulldogging its muzzle. I've knocked two attacking great danes down to the ground Arnold Schwarzenegger's style (see the movie, True Lies). I've rounded up stampeding horses while riding bareback and cracking a lunge whip, but I could not keep this little 15 lb puppy from turning my world upside down.
- [Unsinkable Faith by Shannon Taylor Vannatter](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/15/unsinkable-faith-by-shannon-taylor-vannatter/) - But no matter how crazy and complicated life gets, even when the valleys come and we think we’ll never see daylight from the mountain top again, I know it will all work out okay. God said it would be: “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.” (Romans 8:28) And that’s where I hang my unsinkable faith, on a God who keeps all His promises. What areas of your life have required unsinkable faith lately?
- [You're Not Alone by William Ramirez](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/16/youre-not-alone-by-william-ramirez/) - In my Bible reading right now, I’m in Numbers. In Chapter 2 and 3 of Numbers, the Lord outlines the places where each tribe was to march and camp, as well as the various duties of the Levites in assisting Aaron. It’s not exactly an exciting read, but one thing stood out to me as I went through it the last few days. Each tribe or family had distinct tasks God gave them to do, yet no one did those tasks alone. While Judah’s standard led the march and was the symbol which stood high in the east side of Israel’s camp, it was not Judah alone that did so. They were joined by Issachar and Zebulun. Even though Aaron and his sons led in the ministry of the Tabernacle, each of the three families of Levi were responsible for making the ministry work properly.
- [Embrace the Mystery by Kevin Adams](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/17/embrace-the-mystery-by-kevin-adams/) - My oldest daughter has always been curious about the things of God as well. She is not afraid to ask tough questions or take the Word and test it. If something seems unreasonable, she’s willing to challenge it. At age 4 I remember her bouncing out of the bathroom, dripping wet with tears in her eyes, and in her little southern twang, she said: “Daddy, diddin you say that anathing is true with God if you just believe hard enough?” “Sure sweet girl, absolutely!” (loosely interpreting scripture) “Weyell daddy… I‘ve just come from the basstub and it was feeled up to the top.” “Uh- huh”Thoughts of the wet floor distracted me from really listening. “Daddy?” “Uh huh?” I responded while reaching for the bathroom door. “Weyell, I’ve been try’n and try’n to walk on na water the whole time and I just cain’t do it. I’m reely sorry daddy, I believed I could do it with God’s help, but I cain’t, num reely sorry.”
- [A Body of Jewels by Edwina Cowgill](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/18/a-body-of-jewels-by-edwina-cowgill/) - Some time ago, I dreamt about a chest, similar to a pirate’s chest, which was sitting on a table. The chest was stunning, made of rich mahogany wood and the hinges were shining, pure gold. Upon opening the chest, I discovered jewels of every kind and color imaginable. Deep red rubies, sky-blue aquamarines, sparkling diamonds, purple amethysts. Multi-colored opals, tigers’ eyes, onyx. Citrines, garnets, pearls and emeralds. There were rings, necklaces, brooches, earrings, bracelets and loose gems. The chest was so full that when I opened it, the jewels spilled out, cascading onto the table. Rays of sunlight splashed onto the jewels, making their colors even richer and sending fragments of rainbow hues over the table.
- [God Goes Before Us, by Jodie Bailey](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/22/god-goes-before-us-by-jodie-bailey/) - Not only does He go with us, He goes before us. Everywhere we go, He has already been. He’s already prepared the way. No detour in our lives surprises Him. No “out of the blue” happening catches Him off guard. By the time we get there, He’s seen it all. Oh, if that’s not comforting, I don’t know what is. Why worry about tomorrow? God’s already seen it.
- [Hello...Anyone Listening?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/20/hello-anyone-listening/) - So how do you know when that thing's become the Thing? When you can't let it go. When it dominates your thoughts and becomes the central reason for your actions. How do you make the Thing a thing? I'm not sure of that one. I know in my life, my heart, if left alone, quickly darkens. Each day I have to pray for God's purifying intervention. I pray that He would draw my heart toward Him, soften it to the things of Him, and remove anything in me that does not bring Him glory. But quite honestly, the praying's easy. It's the doing that gets tough, because inevitably, God shows me something that needs changing, dropping, adding, confessing. And anyone who knows the good he ought to do and doesn't do it sins. There's no self-justification here. No, "Well, I wasn't sure if that was God's will for me." More often than not, the question is not do we know God's will, but do we have the courage to obey, even if it doesn't make sense or means giving up something we hold dear.
- [A Pair of Jeans, A Clothes Line, and A Moment of Nostalgia, by Barbara J. Robinson](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/21/a-pair-of-jeans-a-clothes-line-and-a-moment-of-nostalgia-by-barbara-j-robinson/) - Yesterday I spent about three hours cleaning house, but by the time my husband got home at six, you couldn't tell. Dinner preparations were strewn across the kitchen, school books and assignments in the sitting area. Mail both my husband and our daughter had sifted through was scattered across the kitchen island, coats and gloves were draped over chairs, and shoes piled in numerous locations. After school snack crumbs covered multiple surface areas--not just in the kitchen. Markers, scissors and yarn were left in numerous places like bread crumbs documenting the movements of our creative daughter as she fluttered through the house.
- [Home Depot Churches by Ed Bahler](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/23/home-depot-churches-by-ed-bahler/) - As I've mentioned previously, we've moved a lot and as a result, I've been a part of numerous churches. This has actually been quite a blessing. Each church has its strengths and weaknesses, along with a unique slant. Not doctrinally speaking, but one church may be passionate about small groups, another about youth ministries, and yet another about international missions. The church we attended in California was passionate about discipleship. There motto: developing fully devoted followers of Christ. And it showed. While there, I started a Saturday youth outreach program, a family ministry, an annual Easter outreach event (not sure if it's still going), my husband and I led a marriage study--the list goes on. What makes this unique is that each of these ministries were new. It wasn't like the church had an established program and was looking for warm bodies to fill it. It was that I (or in the case of the marriage study, we) went to the communities pastor with an idea, and he sent us off with a warm smile, a handshake and a "You can do it!"
- [A Glimpse of Beauty by Sheila Hollinghead](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/04/a-glimpse-of-beauty-by-sheila-hollinghead/) - Eyes wide, large ears erect, fur still dotted with white spots, they stared at us as we stared at them. No camera in the car to capture their beauty—a beauty to be short-lived if they remained by the highway. Carl drove by them one more time and they moved a short way into the woods, their mother nowhere to be seen.
- [To What Lengths Would You Go](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/05/to-what-lengths-would-you-go/) - Many heads nodded and a few eyes grew moist. They understood that I had no business, no right, to speak into the lives of their peers. Sure, I could tell them the love of Jesus, but coming from my nicely furnished home stocked with more food than we could want, it wouldn't cement. Not like it would coming from one of them who lived a life of poverty day in and day out. Someone who understood the pain of losing everything they had and the fear of not knowing where you and your children would lay their heads that night.
- [Armed For Victory by Robin Prater](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/06/armed-for-victory/) - Have you ever studied the constellation Orion? It is one of those fascinating pictures of God placing light in just the right places for us to see clearly a portrait of His mighty power. Orion is known as the Great Hunter. When we look at Orion we see a helmet, a belt, a sword, a shield and feet. It is a picture--a reminder, of the armor of God.
- [The Waiting Game by Jeannie Campbell](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/07/the-waiting-game-by-jeannie-campbell/) - Today's devo first appeared on the Character Therapist, written by Jeannie Campbell, on November 17th. As you read it, think about the life of Joseph. God gave him a dream in Canaan. I'm certain Joseph never imagined being sold into slavery, transported to Egypt and thrown in a dungeon were part of God's plan, yet in the end, he said, "God intended it for good, the saving of many lives." Each leg of the journey was divinely intentional as God molded, guided and equipped Joseph for his future task reigning over Egypt during a time of famine.
- [A Season of Forgiveness by Edwina Cowgill](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/09/a-season-of-forgiveness-by-edwina-cowgill/) - If there are levels of offense, then it would stand to reason that there are levels of forgiveness. Right? Wrong. Forgiveness is forgiveness. And as Christians, we are commanded to forgive. It’s not an option. And it’s serious business. Jesus said, “For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” (Matthew 6:14-15)
- [A Fish Out of Water, I mean, A Siberian Husky in the South](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/10/a-fish-out-of-water-i-mean-a-siberian-husky-in-the-south/) - No one was more excited about the falling snow than our Siberian Husky, Satchel. He pulled against his chain, eager to join in the fun. We released him and a new-found energy, some secret connection between his snowy-white fur and the snow flakes, had him frolicking, prancing and jumping in excitement. His face broke out into a dog smile. We joined in his fun, laughing at his display of pure, unbridled joy.
- [Can I Exchange This Please? by Robin Prater](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/13/can-i-exchange-this-please-by-robin-prater/) - Jesus Christ paid the price for our red sweater. He stood there in line so that we didnt' have to. See, He has already made the exchange. His life for ours. May we begin to look at our sweater with a new hope, a new faith, and a new trust. Might we love the sweater we are wearing. Don't be so quick to trade it in. It might seem a little tight, a little lose, or maybe just something you would never pick out for yourself, but lets remember that God is the perfect shopper.
- [Until You Trim the Weeds by Kevin Adams](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/08/until-you-trim-the-weeds-by-kevin-adams/) - This devotion reminded me of an experience my husband went through about five years back. Finding ourselves in a place of unemployment, all of our belonging packed into storage, praying our newly built home would sell before we landed in debt, God asked me, "Do you still love Me? Will you praise Me even now?" At this time, Casting Crowns launched their song, "I Will Praise You in the Storm" and I clung to those words daily with determination. They became my mantra for a time and in those months of uncertainty, I understood what is meant by "a sacrifice of praise." Sometimes our praise comes from a joyful heart. Other times, it is a sacrifice, a choice, an understanding that God is worthy of our praise regardless of our circumstances.
- [A Venemous Tongue](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/11/a-venemous-tongue/) - So here's my admonition. Be very, very careful what you say about a fellow servant. Negative, judgemental comments divide the body and defame the name. It hurts more than our brothers and sisters. It hurts our witness. You cannot in one breath talk about Christ's transforming powers and in the next, slander another believer. The two statements contradict each other. Be alert, and supportive, of our God-designed differences and do not expect God to place your passion in everyone else's heart. Yes, your passion is important. If it weren't, God woudln't have given it to you. But there is a big, wide world out there with numerous people needing help. There are shelters needing food and food servers, churches needing ministers to train to the food serves, sex-trafficing victims needing protectors, new believers needing disciplers, children needing caretakes, elderly needing comforters, the sick needing nurturers and healers.
- [Tick, Tock, Tick, Tock, Americans Love Their Clock](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/11/18/tick-tock-tick-tock-americans-love-their-clock/) - So here's the challenge: the holidays can be stressful or enriching. You can have the best decorated house on the block, attend all the right functions and buy that perfect gift for the tenth office party you'll attend. Or, you can scale it back and determine to put first things first, even if that means saying no to that time-sapping function. Or perhaps forego cooking that ten course meal in order to spend a few extra moments with your family. Better yet, find ways to include your children or grandchildren in the preparations, focusing more on the event than the outcome. Meaning, if your ten year old's iced cookies look a little less than perfect, let it go.
- [Materialistic Mania](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/11/19/materialistic-mania/) - Why were they so willing to give? I believe it is because they related on a deeper level with these displaced families. They knew what it was like to have very little, and perhaps to lose what little you have. But their past experience didn't lead them to hoard their treasures. To the contrary, it moved them to extreme generosity.
- [The Right To Fail](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/11/22/the-right-to-fail/) - This past year, my husband's been working on our yard. In the beginning, this was a stretch for him. (Normally we hire people to do these sorts of things.) But after listening to me (again and again) remind him of the worst case scenario, (we could always hire someone after the fact to fix what he did.) he decided to try his hand. And for the most part, he's done a wonderful job, gaining confidence along the way. Did it save us oodles of money? Not necessarily. There's been a few costly mistakes along the way. But the way I see it? He's funding his life-education, and to me, that's invaluable.
- [A Moment of Reflection](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/11/23/a-moment-of-reflection/) - This morning I received a phone call from my nephew. He's four. At first, I thought it was a prank. Initially, all I heard was heavy breathing and a mumbled voice in the background. Apparently, it took a few seconds for him to get the nerve to speak. The background voice? That was my sister coaching him. Telling him to talk...into a piece of plastic...to a woman she said was his aunt but whom he couldn't see. Ah, to live in the head of a child! But once he got going, he didn't waste any time getting to the reason for his call. (I wish I would have taped it!) "Thanks for the---what is the surprise for me and Abby?"
- [The Answer Never Changes](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/11/24/the-answer-never-changes/) - Love endures long, boring stories retold year after year. Love doesn't begrudge relatives with nicer cars and better behaved children. Love doesn't compare pumpkin pie recipes, looking for that accolade. Love doesn't tell jokes at others expense or laugh when derisive jokes are told. Love maintains self-control even when someone else stole the last drop of gravy. Love stands by their loved ones even when they're actions make them appear unlovable. Love stands up for one another and refuses travel on the gossip wheel. Love sees the best in others despite their mistakes and continues to hold on even when it hurts. When everything else fails, love remains.
- [From Gimme to You Got Me](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/11/27/from-gimme-to-you-got-me/) - If you've ever spent any time in the church nursery you've heard the words, "That's mine!" and "Gimme!" fly out of more than a few cute little mouths. And quite honestly, it doesn't bother you. You may not condone it. You'll try to train against it, but it's certainly not surprising. It's all part of a child's normal development as they go from a self-centered toddler to a well-adjusted, contributing adult. At least, that's the goal. We're not going to talk about those members of our society who fall through the cracks and remain in that preschool classroom indefinitely.
- [Kicking Off the Top 20 of 2010](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/11/29/kicking-off-the-top-20-of-2010/) - So here's the deal. During the month of December (which starts tomorrow) I'm going to repost some 20 of my favorite blog/devotions from 2010. These are not posts I've written, although you're welcome to peruse my archives. These are articles written by others that have impacted, encouraged or challenged me in some way. Each day I invite you to share your thoughts. Then, at the end of the month, I'll tally all comments, likes, tweets, and fb shares and announce the top three blog posts for 2010!
- [Oh, To Be Magnetic by Gail Pallotta](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/11/30/oh-to-be-magnetic-by-gail-pallotta/) - I loved this devo by Gail Pallotta, posted on her blog on July 11th, because it reminded me of my life's purpose. I was created to be an image bearer and a spark-ignitor. God's desire is that people will see the love and joy in a Christian's life and be drawn to the Joy-giver.
- [What We Leave Behind by Jodie Bailey](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/01/what-we-leave-behind/) - No one would argue that Elisha was an amazing prophet, a mighty man of God. The Spirit of God rested on him so mightily that even after his death, God still worked through him. See, there was nothing particularly special about Elisha’s bones. He was just a man. The power came from God and God alone. Do you know what I think God is saying here? Even death can’t stop the work God does, and death doesn’t necessarily mean the end of God’s work through us.
- [God's Timing is Always Perfect by Edie Melson](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/02/gods-timing-is-always-perfect-by-edie-melson/) - But God has shown me that’s all impatience is, immaturity with a mask. This has been particularly true with my writing life So many times, if God had given me the answer the moment I asked, I would have missed out on so much. I would have missed the sweet prayer time, the fellowship with others who shared in my journey, and the ultimate joy of something anticipated and achieved. I would have also missed out on being used by God to teach and comfort others as they saw Him work in my life.
- [True Survival Adventure by Max Elliot Anderson](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/12/03/true-survival-adventure-by-max-elliot-anderson/) - At daylight, we decided to try hiking out again. It wasn’t long until we discovered what a hostile environment we were stranded in. We walked for most of that day, lost touch with each other a couple of times, and my father fell and split his head open. Both of us became pretty discouraged. We were hungry, thirsty, and very lost. That’s when I hiked to the top of a rugged hill, to try and find out where we should go. As I sat on the ground, beneath a small tree, a sparrow landed on a branch just above my head. He began singing his lungs out as if to remind me that if God’s eye is on the sparrow surely he knows where I am and what I need. In the distance I could see the reflection of a car on a straight road. It was miles away, but there was no mistake that help was in that direction. So on and on we trudged through gullies, across ice-covered streams, through brush and rocks.
- [A Matter of Forethought](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/11/11/a-matter-of-forethought/) - As my daughter grows older, our conversations are becoming more and more intense. And intentional. I know she's going to face numerous occasions to sin along her journey from childhood to adulthood. The stronger she thinks she is, the more apt she will be to fall. Sounds contradictory, doesn't it? Perhaps ironic--if she thinks she's strong, she'll likely fall. Not sure if the context is right, but I'm reminded of 2 Corinthians 12:9: "But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me."
- [Garbage in, Garbage out](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/11/09/garbage-in-garbage-out/) - Today I'm routing you over to Granola Bar Devotions where you can read a fun little junk food/spirituality devotion I wrote for them.
- [Riding the Fence](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/11/16/riding-the-fence/) - I cleaned out my office today, which resulted in more than a few tears. Tears shed over things I finally let go. About two months ago, I felt God calling me in a different direction--asking me to set certain things aside to make room for His better. And I did, sort of. With an eye out for that ever-present back-up plan. And instead of devoting myself fully to the tasks God has laid before me, I just added another hour to my day. And then another, and then another--so I could get His work done, and mine.
- [Self-imposed Bondage](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/11/12/self-imposed-bondage/) - We live in "the dog neighborhood". And "the kid neighborhood". That's what we were told the day we moved in. Probably to make sure we wouldn't be one of those fuddy-duddy, don't let your mutts pee on my lawn and we prefer kids to be seen not heard, type of people. Nope, that's not us. We love kids and have two dogs, and love the fact that our daughter and our dogs have playmates. Each afternoon, the cul de sac fills with animals, kids and parents. Kids ride bikes, parents converse, and dogs gather in pacs and play chase, or whatever it is dogs play. And at first, our dogs were able to join. But it didn't take them long to lose their freedom. Our Cocker Spaniel/Scnauzer mix and a Chiweenie are a bit too sneaky, and stubborn, for their own good.
- [Who Are You Trying to Please](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/11/17/who-are-you-trying-to-please/) - It was just what I needed. It's funny how spending a few moments with the lover of your soul can cut through all the garbage. In my tired, somewhat discouraged state, God was there. His love hadn't waned. And truly, He didn't care about what I produced. He wanted my heart, and He reminded me that He wasn't as concerned with the product as He was with the process--my obedience and continual growth in Him.
- [A Call to Come and Die](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/10/19/a-call-to-come-and-die/) - Our walk was slow. My daughter stopped periodically to pluck various leaves from the trees. We admired their beauty together. One in particular caught her attention. It was a peachy-orange with vibrant green along its veins, caught between life and death. As she twirled the leaf between her fingers, I thought about how often my own life mimics that leaf. I've been called to die to myself, to forsake those things that hinder my walk with Christ. But often I cling to my carnal life--to pride and selfish ambition---like that tiny leaf with blurred colors. And yet, to die, to truly surrender oneself into the loving arms of our Father, is where true beauty is found. Life, full, vibrant life, is found in death.
- [Intentional Living](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/10/20/intentional-living/) - As I read this passage this morning, verse twelve reminded me of my need for continual progress, and of Who's standing beside me. Christ took hold of me. Christ died for me, and He's given me everything I need to live a holy life. But just like athletes who practice drills to hone their skills, my growth will be much more significant if I approach it with intentionality. I've heard it said, how do you increase an appetite? You feed it. How do you get rid of one? You starve it. So, intentional living is about continually feeding the spiritual man while starving the carnal man so that your godly appetite can increase while your sinful nature decreases.
- [Another detour](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/10/22/another-detour/) - Because of my marriage column on Reflections, I hear a lot about struggling, sometimes even shattered, marriages. I've sort of skirted around addressing some of the tougher issues because quite frankly, I've not known what to say. And I've contacted some friends with more experience hoping maybe they could address the issue of marital betrayal, but after months of no takers and emails from hurting readers, I've decided to do my best to share ways God has helped me. I've never dealt with marital betrayal, but I understand the pain of shattered trust. We live in a fallen world, and humans are going to let us down every time. Guaranteed. But God never will, and we will never fall farther than His hand.
- [A Lion Never Turns Back](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/10/26/a-lion-never-turns-back/) - I'm an endurance runner, largely because I couldn't go fast if my life depended on it. In high school, I ran track and cross-country. Most cross-country races were just over three miles, which isn't terribly long, but long enough to bring out a runner's weakness. If you'd skirted through turn-out, avoiding the hill work-outs, walking on the long runs, or skipping out on the drills, come race day, it'd show. Gratification rarely came instantly. Often it wasn't until the end of the season, sometimes even the end of your high school career, that you'd begin to see the fruits of your labor.
- [On the Flip Side...](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/10/27/on-the-flip-side/) - Every personality has its strength along with a dose of weakness. And according to my dear friend Katie Johnson, our greatest strength often doubles as our greatest weakness.
- [How I've Proved Him O'er and O'er](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/10/28/how-ive-proved-him-oer-and-oer/) - The words, "How I've proved Him o'er and o'er" touched me deeply. As I sang, memories of all the times Jesus has shown up---again, and again, and again---came washing over me. When I've had nowhere else to turn, He was there. When everyone else turned away, He was there. When I was too tired to lift my face, He lifted it for me. When I felt like my heart would break, He comforted me with words of love. Like a gentle father enveloping a weak and timid child. God has proven His love and faithfulness to me o'er and o'er.
- [Dead Men Don't Bleed](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/10/31/dead-men-dont-bleed/) - And yet, there was a third response--the self-evaluating one. And in the end, this was the one I chose because I realized (rather begrudgingly)...dead men don't bleed. The very fact that I felt the need to be vindicated showed I hadn't died to self.
- [Ah, the Glory of the Snotty Nose!](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/11/01/ah-the-glory-of-the-snotty-nose/) - During infancy, as you are holding your baby, you aren't just keeping the peace. Every time you attend to your baby's needs, you are strengthening their ability to trust. During the first few years, your child is learning whether or not the world is safe and if significant others can be depended on. Many say a child's self-concept is developed by the time they are five, and their overall world view cemented by the time they are twelve. Wow, those are some important early years!
- [The Never-ending Action-Reaction Cycle of Life](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/11/03/the-never-ending-action-reaction-cycle-of-life/) - And every day, we have an opportunity to stand above the fray, to tap into that spiritual powerhouse Christ has given us as believers, and turn our eyes upward instead of on the stinking manure pile. We have the power to do it. The only question is, will we? Is Christ's death worth our full obedience, even when our pride is at stake? Because that's normally what it boils down to--pride. But God opposes the proud, remember?
- [Letting Go, One Step at a Time](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/11/05/letting-go-one-step-at-a-time/) - I just finished walking our daughter to the corner bus stop--about twenty feet behind her. (It'd be way too mortifying if I walked with her!) At 6:45 am. To save time, she weaves her way through our backyard and up our neighbor's side steps. Which didn't bother me about a month ago, when the sun was emerging in the sky. But now that it's staying dark later and later, my Momma-bear's starting to come out. There's a wooded area in our yard, which is absolutely lovely during the day but rather ominous at night or in the wee morning hours. Then there's all the phone calls I've received this year from her school alerting parents to stranger danger. My first response is always to protect--in an over-bearing, paranoid sort of way. But I know she'll never bloom if I hover over her. As she grows older, I'm having to let go more and more. And to be honest, it terrifies me. Somehow the dangers she faced at two were so much more manageable. Stay out of the street, stay away from the stove, don't put peas in your ears. Or your nose. And if she didn't comply, all I had to do was scoop her up. Remove and distract, it was that easy.
- [From Their Heart to Mine](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/09/25/from-their-heart-to-mine/) - How does a teenager tell her mom she loves her? "She may bug us, But oh, how she loves us."
- [Be Still](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/09/27/be-still/) - Relax my child, this really isn't about you. And it's not up to you," our Father says, as He lovingly takes our hand. "Be still and know that I am God. Keep your eyes on Me. Trust my plan, and the life jacket I provide. Yes, the waves are strong. Yes, the wind is loud. But My hand is stronger, and I will never let you go. My power is displayed in your weakness. And remember, this is not your story. It never was. It is my story, and I will pen it through you." And then the Creator of the universe leans down and whispers in your ear the story that will be woven in a million hearts as He draws His beloved into His warm embrace.
- [Are You a Giver or a Taker?](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/09/29/are-you-a-giver-or-a-taker/) - If you've got a giving friend, you know exactly what I'm talking about. We all love it when others are focused on us, right? Because that's what we're focused on, too. It's natural. And it's easy to get swept away in the its-all-about-me-tide. Unless you determine to do otherwise. Because chances are the friend who keeps on giving has a reciprocal need in there somewhere. And as his/her friend, its your job to find it. But that's going to take work. You're gonna have to u-turn once in awhile, learn to listen, ask open-ended questions. Whatever. Just take your eyes off yourself. (Yes, I'm talking to me. It's not about me. It's not about me. It's not about me. There, I think I got it.)
- [Living By the Seat of my Pants](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/10/01/living-by-the-seat-of-my-pants/) - James 4:13-17 reminds me to move forward with my eyes wide open, ever ready to turn at the drop of a hat when God changes my direction. "Now listen, you who say, 'Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money.' Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. Instead, you ought to say, "If it is the Lord's will, we will live and do this or that.' As it is, you boast and brag. All such boasting is evil. Anyone, then, who knows the good he ought to do and doesn't do it, sins."
- [Cultural Transformation From the Inside Out](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/10/03/cultural-transformation-from-the-inside-out/) - It's amazing, really. Not so much what they're doing, but how God is using their obedience to transform high schools--to transform lives. And the kids are eating it up. Because they're hungry. Starved, really. But not for MTV or the latest Wii game. They're starved for relevance. They're starved for truth. They want to matter, and to know that their life isn't worthless. That it counts for something. And they want to belong to something bigger than themselves. In countless highschool halls and lunchrooms, these hungry youth are finding their answers in the Lifebook, a shortened version of God's Word presented in a culturally relevant way.
- [At Just the Right Time](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/10/09/at-just-the-right-time/) - Our experience reminds me of the Israelites and all the ups and downs they've faced throughout history. For four hundred years, they slaved in Egypt waiting for their deliverer. Or think about David, the anointed king, who spent years hiding out in caves as the ruling king sought his life. What about Joseph? You remember him---the dreamer---the one who would one day rule over his brothers? The one who was thrown in a pit, sold into slavery, spent seven years in prison, to one day stand as the second in command to all of Egypt. What do you think he was thinking while he slept on the prison floor? How many nights did his heart cry out to God, asking, "Where are you? When will Your promise come?"
- [A New Perspective](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/10/11/a-new-perspective/) - Well ladies, we've got another wedding coming--a royal feast awaiting. And if you belong to Christ, you've already got your gown. (Matthew 22:1-4) It's radiantly white, washed in the blood of the lamb. Only it doesn't quite fit yet. There are still a few lumps God needs to purge away, but don't worry, He's got that covered, too. He's already looking at the royal feast, and you decked in your gown. Your "diet" might be painful now as He removes those nasty things that distort your godly figure--those things like fear, and pride, and worldly distractions, but in the end, it will be glorious. And all your struggles now? They'll be long forgotten, for all of eternity.
- [Walking the Wire](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/10/13/walking-the-wire/) - Step out of that boat. Yeah, I know, there's a good chance you'll sink--if you rely on your own strength. But God never intended you to go it alone. He wants you in a place of weakness because that is when He is most glorified. He wants you in a place of dependence because that is when you will be the most pliable.
- [So You Wanna Be a Writer](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/10/15/so-you-wanna-be-a-writer/) - Those momentary refreshers are great, but they're not enough. At least not for me. I can only rely on shout-out prayers for so long before my creativity begins to shrivel. Every once in a while I need to create my own little spiritual retreat. Normally I don't go far. Maybe I'll visit a hiking trail nearby or spend a few hours in a nearby park with my Pandora radio (on my iphone), a Bible and a notebook. Sometimes the getting there is hard, especially when my tasks are mounting, but I've learned those are the times when I most need to get away. And once I do, once I spend those cherished moments connecting with God, I come back twice as productive as before.
- [Is Compassion Caught or Taught](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/2010/10/05/is-compassion-caught-or-taught/) - I've been involved in childen's church for over twelve years, and I've always said you can tell the health of the church by the behavior of the students. Now, this might be a tough concept to wrap your head around. You might even strongly disagree. I mean, seriously, kids are about as predictable as a curve ball on a windy day. They go from giggles to tears to all out war at the slightest provocation, and there's no holding back. If it enters their brain it's gonna spill out. Likely at the most inconvenient of times. Which is why they are such great litmus tests, because not only are they emotionally sporadic, they're also insatiable sponges, ever absorbing the attitudes, ideas, and thought processes of others, primarily their parents.

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- [When Fear Strikes: A 7-Day Reset for Anxious Hearts](https://jenniferslatterylivesoutloud.com/downloads/when-fear-strikes-a-7-day-reset-for-anxious-hearts/) - (Please note: Downloading this resource adds you to Jennifer Slattery's newsletter subscriber list. You may unsubscribe at any time. As a subscriber, you receive access to numerous other free resources in the subscribers' exclusive Google folder.) Fear has a way of showing up at the most inconvenient moments—racing thoughts, a tight chest, and a mind When anxiety rises, it can feel like peace is out of reach. Racing thoughts, tight chests, and restless nights make it hard to slow down. That’s why I created When Fear Strikes: A 7-Day Reset for Anxious Hearts. This free guide offers seven short, Scripture-anchored reflections, simple grounding practices, and prayers to help you turn toward God in the middle of fear. If you’re feeling overwhelmed or stuck in anxious thoughts, this gentle reset can help you reconnect with God’s presence and begin moving toward peace again.
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